As a child, have you ever been filial?

Parents are the source, parents are the root, and parents' kindness is higher than mountains and deeper than the sea. As children, we should be happy that the old people think of us, rather than worrying about the old people and reassuring them; We should help the old man solve his worries and reassure him. It's really difficult for the elderly not to worry, rest assured and rest assured. It's easier said than done.

As an only child, for the sake of my parents, I try to make my home near my parents and go home with them. For the sake of parents, never share the troubles of life and work with your parents, so as not to worry the two old people; For the sake of parents, when talking with parents, try to restrain the impulse to argue with them as much as possible to avoid a generation gap collision between them; etc ......

When thinking about this problem, I think, first, filial piety should be early; Second, in the process of filial piety, we need to pay more attention to the psychology of the elderly. In the process of communicating with parents, we should have substantive communication, understand parents' psychology as soon as possible, and eliminate doubts as soon as possible. Third, the old people stay at home and don't walk around, look around and communicate outside. In the limited range of interpersonal communication, they think more about their children and grandchildren and their endless hearts, and should take their parents out to relax. In my opinion, filial piety is actually to give parents a sense of security. With a sense of security, they can spend their old age with peace of mind and safety.

The mental diseases attached to the elderly are as follows:

1. Depression is one of the common mental diseases of the elderly, often accompanied by other physical diseases. Elderly patients with depression are usually characterized by depression or depression, loss of interest in life, lack of happiness in daily life, poor sleep, chronic pain, memory loss, and even persistent thoughts about death.

2, anxiety, life often sees some elderly people upset, fidgeting, and some are nervous for a little thing. They are not sick, or have only a little harmless ailment, but they are worried that their illness can't be cured. They constantly seek medical advice, do all kinds of tests and taste all kinds of secret recipes from their ancestors; Worrying too much about the safety and health of family members. Excessive dependence on treatment or drugs. Various manifestations show that "alarmist" fear is the core symptom of anxiety disorder.

4, nerve failure, mainly manifested as mental excitability, uncontrollable, lack of energy, emotional fatigue, insomnia, headache, palpitations and so on. The course of the disease can reach decades, the symptoms can be intermittent, and the condition is easy to repeat. Generally speaking, the elderly sleep for more than 5 7 hours, and they often sleep lightly, wake up early and dream more. Sleep disorder is the main manifestation of neurasthenia in the elderly.

5. Alzheimer's Harmo's Disease According to statistics, 10% of the elderly over 65 years old have mental retardation, among which 1/2 may have Alzheimer's disease. The main manifestations of Alzheimer's disease are memory loss and various forms of cognitive decline, such as memory loss, language dysfunction, disorientation, and loss of reasoning and judgment.

My parents are over 80 years old now. None of our seven brothers and sisters are with my parents, only my parents and two old people live alone at home. My two sisters and two sisters are married. Second brother is married, and has a house in Laibin, so he doesn't want to invite his parents to live with him. My younger brother is not married and doesn't want to stay at home with his parents, but he has been working in Guangdong. I originally wanted to transfer my business from Guangdong to my hometown to develop customers. If my business has not failed, I will be filial to my close parents. Although the governor was not as good as expected, my business failed and I went to work in Guangdong.

As parents said: "How can parents blame you! You also have your own home to take care of. " I really appreciate my parents' understanding!

Every time I go back for the Spring Festival, I will say to my parents: When my son finishes college, I will come back to accompany your parents!

Now, I call my parents every 3 5 days. I know my parents seldom answer my phone calls. Although the old man's mobile phone has turned the ringtone to the highest tone, his parents' hearing is not very good when they are old, and sometimes they can't hear or answer it. As a result, the phone calls I return often sink into the sea and there is no reply, but I insist on calling like this every year.

This is not to touch anyone, but to make yourself feel better. Others said I didn't do my filial piety, I said I did my filial piety, but my filial parents didn't get it! As a result, when I go back for the Spring Festival every year, the first sentence when I see my parents is: Mom and Dad! Son, come back and be filial!

Ah, no. My family is in the countryside, and I bought a house in the city. Mom is looking after the children and dad is at home. I feel sorry for dad.

The spirit of filial piety has a long history and is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Emperors rule the world with filial piety, and people are filial. A "filial piety" can be said to run through the history of the whole Chinese nation, so what is filial piety?

In today's understanding, it is generally believed that as long as we support the elderly, let them have a good life and enjoy their old age, it is filial piety. In fact, this can only be said to be a part of filial piety, not the true meaning of filial piety.

Confucius once said: "filial piety today means that it can be raised." As for dogs and horses, you can keep them. Disrespect, why not? " Even if you have mules and horses, you need to feed them some forage on time. If you don't honor your parents, even if you support them, what's the difference between raising mules and horses?

There is an old saying that "filial piety is your heart, and there is no filial son in a cold door." Filial piety is about the heart, not things. If parents are given superior living conditions, it will become the standard to judge whether they are filial, then the children of the poor will never have filial sons. However, historical facts are just the opposite. Since ancient times, unfilial sons have been born in poor families, and it is difficult for the country to show loyalty. The poorer the family, the more likely it is to have filial sons and grandchildren. The richer people are, the more likely they are to have unscrupulous offspring who disobey their parents.

As a child, have you ever been filial?

Filial piety is taken for granted!

When you are not at home, do you often call your parents to talk about the recent situation?

Do you share it with your parents when you are happy?

Did you cook a good meal for your parents when you got home?

Give elderly parents a basin of foot washing water?

Boil a pot of bath water for parents?

In the cold winter, buy a warm cotton-padded coat for your parents?

Do you have a phone call to persuade your parents not to be too tired in the hot summer?

When your parents were sick, did you leave work and go home to take care of them?

If you haven't done this, why don't you act quickly?

Parents are no longer young, but getting old day by day. Before it's too late, we can make more phone calls outside, spend more time with our parents at home and spend a birthday with them every year.

Thank you for inviting me!

Did I do my duty?

I think I'm not filial, or it's too late.

I grew up without a father, only my mother insisted on raising our five children when a woman was 36 (never remarried). I have four sisters, and I am the youngest. What my mother wants to see most is not how rich I am and how big my career is, but that the whole family is safe, married and have children, and the family is harmonious. As long as the money is enough, the family can help each other understand. This is her ideal. Now all four sisters are married and have children, but when it comes to me, I have all kinds of headaches and worries. I was heartbroken to have a son to carry on the family line. Year after year, I grew up. Now a person in her early thirties, I just got married and gave birth to a grandson. Maybe this is my understanding of filial piety. It also coincides with her, and now she is extremely happy all day. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is particularly good, one in front of her own daughter and the other in front of her own mother. This is what I want, and it is also the greatest spiritual support for my career. Thanks, Mom! I love you!

My mother was born on April 29th. 1957. She is 62 years old. She studied for two days. I taught her a lot of words, signed my name in the bank, and knew the name of the TV series. She is fluent in using her smartphone, and she is still bored when she gets the card. She would be happy to exchange it for another one. I don't know how proficient she is in using WeChat, except that she can't send red envelopes. Ha ha! Speaking of her, as long as there is no limit to the number of words, you can code as long as you want. She's humorous, she's kind, she's resigned, she's open-minded, she's strong inside, she's sad, she's old … mom! mother

I still have time to be filial, I hope you are safe and healthy! Time flies, the past is gone forever, and the future is moving forward in our hands. This is not only a state, but also our initial intention to come to this world and take the farthest road with our initial intention.

People in China stress filial piety. If filial piety is not enough and incomplete, there should be a straight word. My personal understanding of filial piety is a formal and material obligation to the elderly, and shun is the psychological and spiritual satisfaction of the elderly. Nowadays, the elderly do not lack material dependence, but the companionship and comfort of their children. In short, it is true filial piety to make the elderly happy!

I can't help it if I don't respect my dutiful son. I'd rather die outside than watch you grow old like this. Now this kind of social companionship also needs capital. Please slow down and leave some time for my parents!

I am the sister-in-law of the deceased, and my eldest nephew can't afford to support my younger nephew. Each of our five sisters paid 5000 yuan to treat her. Our family owed more than 200,000 yuan without money, lost more than 10 million in business, and owed more than 30,000 yuan in credit cards. In this case, we also lent money to my sister to help. I have a clear conscience and live up to my own conscience.