My colleague doesn't like me, so I should refute him. I am in urgent need of the help of the master of swearing!

This kind of person is actually a frustrated old gangster who is a little jealous of the young sunshine. This kind of person's character is mostly bullying and afraid of hard work, so you don't have to be afraid of him.

I don't advise you to do it first, especially first, so you may fall into his trap. Anyway, the leader must take care of you first.

What you have to do now is to change your attitude in front of him. One is to learn to change your face, that is, if he plays a joke or two, you can laugh at yourself, or even laugh at yourself. But if he talks too much and uses dirty words, you should immediately turn your face, stare at him and don't talk. If he provokes, you don't do it or stare at him. Generally, such people will naturally shrink back because they are guilty or bored.

Second, you should learn to speak. If he hurts you, you can hurt him, but be careful and laugh more. For example, if he calls you handsome, just say yes. Is your face unworthy of being a white-collar worker? He said he was good at judging people. What do you think of the manager? What are your colleagues like? Wait a minute.

The third is to learn how to choose a place. The more people there are, the more modest they should be. But the more you should ask him these rhetorical questions, he will have nothing to say, and then he will gradually find that you are a soft-hearted person and will annoy you less.

When you meet such people, the biggest taboo is to endure, but you can't stand it and you can't fight hard. This kind of face is excellent Once he becomes angry from embarrassment, he can do anything. You have to respond to him in some way that makes him really attack, and he will be honest.