What if parents dislike the ugliness of their boyfriends?

I feel that you are not independent enough and rely too much on love.

Do you want to find a man who can look after your children or an independent man?

Don't judge men too early, and don't think that men must be good men just because they are good to women. Men will eventually put their energy back to their original position, career, money, status, face and communication. This is the role that men play. And the man you like meets your girlfriend's standards. He is good to you, obedient to you, not angry with you, not good for you. As a result, one day you find that you are getting colder and colder. Don't be surprised and angry, because women can put all their energy on men, but men can't. Don't think that you will be happy after doing nothing. When you find that there are no men around you to pay attention to you, and you find that your value is gradually decreasing, where will you feel happy? You begin to think that your man is inferior to others. Why do your shortcomings suddenly increase?

I am telling the truth. Your parents have been through more than you. I naturally know this. Can you guarantee that your future life will be ignored, and then you will be biased against your man for happiness? Many married people face this problem.

A man wants to catch up with a girl, how to catch up with her? So don't use this standard as a reason to get married. I think it's more about women's self-love, and the satisfaction of temporary desire will only begin to return to nature.

Identifying a man who will be with you in the future will make you feel happy. It depends on whether he is motivated, hardworking, responsible, mentally healthy and loves his family. Those who love you will always treat you as the only one, and they are the fig leaf of desire. Men will always focus on other things and play the role of men in society. What about you? What is your role definition and your values? When you have the ability to live independently, you may not care what is good for you, but whether the other person has temperament, humor and money. At that time, you should not complain about how your man is inferior to others like the older generation of women.