Do you think it's too much for me to do this at the beginning of pregnancy?

In my opinion, this practice is not excessive, but under normal circumstances, the husband is just more willing to take care of him than his mother. To put it bluntly, you are more suitable for some life care, and it is a bit embarrassing for his mother to take care of him.

Even though he was raised by his mother, he used to be taken care of by his mother when he was a child. It's just that it's impossible for your husband to sleep with your mother-in-law when he grows up and has sexual knowledge, right? And let his mother-in-law take care of him, he will naturally feel a little embarrassed, and he will not want his mother to take care of him. I understand that his idea is like this. As for whether you can communicate honestly with your husband, husband and wife should be honest and relative!

I have such a feeling that my mother-in-law actively said that she would stay in the hospital to take care of me for a few days after giving birth to a child, but I felt that her care brought me a capital embarrassment, so I declined. At that time, my mother-in-law considered not to make her son tired, preferring to be tired of herself, but what I thought was that as the father of the child, my husband took care of me in the hospital for a few days.

However, in a special case of your early pregnancy, I can quite understand the tiredness. Besides, sleeping with the bed in the hospital is really uncomfortable and unreliable. Besides, the hospital environment is not suitable for pregnant women to stay here for a long time. You can have a good talk with your husband and find a better way to solve this problem!

Try telling your husband that you go to the hospital to take care of him in the same shift system. You will visit him regularly after work every day to take care of his daily cleaning. If you stay with him at night, you won't come. Let your father-in-law and mother-in-law take turns to work. There will always be a solution when both sides talk.