202 1 classic love story: if we are all children, where is the time, we will be there.

1. In retrospect, I will still cheer for myself. It doesn't matter how much I get The key is how difficult it is to walk this way.

If we are all children, we can stay in the same place in time, sit together and bow our heads slowly, while listening to stories that never grow old.

To love or be loved is actually a kind of happiness.

If there is no separation in the heart, it is the real asceticism.

Another day passed, and time pushed the day into the night. When the light is on, the neon lights flash. In this city, many people start to go home from work, and many people are busy with the next communication. Society divides our life into three classes, but we still have to move forward along the road of life. No one can escape my fate. Maybe you are not sociable and choose life after work, but you still can't escape your fate.

6. if you work hard, you will get something. If you love each other, you will be together. These are the two biggest lies in the world, but they have always supported our stumbling when we were young.

7. The deepest love does not require commitment, but always shows consideration in the company of dependence; The purest love, without words, will wait for you silently forever. On the road of life, there are * * * be caring and attentive, and there is a hard life. Maybe you are not perfect, but in the eyes of those who love you, you are the most beautiful; Maybe you are not rich, but in the hearts of those who love you, it is an eternal destination.

8. Block all your news, but not this heart.

9. Maybe what belongs to me no longer belongs to me, maybe it was only once.

10. Looking down, the sky is just rain or shine, people are just gathering and scattering, and the ground is just high and low.

To love or be loved is actually a kind of happiness.

12. No one is with you at dusk, and no one asks you how warm the porridge is.

13. We often regard dependence as love. When we see that others don't live well for themselves, we will be inexplicably angry and feel that the other person doesn't love us. In fact, true love is to give freedom to each other and to yourself.

14. Holding hands is a very sad process, because after holding hands, let go!

15. Our loneliness is like a city floating in the sky. It seems to be a secret, but we can't tell it.

16. Before everything gets better, we always have to experience some unhappy days, which may be long or just wake up. Sometimes it takes courage to choose happiness.

17. Plain is true, and I have no power to struggle.

18. Life sometimes requires courage, courage to love, courage to hate, then courage to forget and courage to move forward.

19. Some people say that it is not wrong to miss it, but it is wrong to pass it. However, I found that my eyes followed my whole youth, so I missed it and was a step late. This is a kind of regret and pain.

20. Some people are suitable for you but don't love you, while others love you but don't love you. If you want to know whether you love or not, don't listen with your ears, but look with your eyes. Ask not what he has, but your laughter and tears. No matter how good the conditions are, you can't have something that always makes you cry. It can always make you laugh, and it's worth taking. I'd rather smile and be tired than cry and enjoy it.

2 1. Beauty is in your face and love is in your heart.

22. The big ones are hidden in the court, the middle ones are hidden in the city, and the small ones are hidden in the wild. The real peach blossom garden is not elsewhere, but in your own heart. If your heart is restless, even if you hide to the ends of the earth, you will still be impetuous The real wise man is the one who can quit when he wins. How many people in the world fail, not because they don't understand business, but because they can't control their emotions and desires.

23. The most terrible thing is the kind of person who comforts you on the surface and laughs at you in his heart.

24. In love, you must learn to be content, because it is not easy to meet the right person. If he can treat you well, he should cherish it.

25. Actually, I miss you very much, but you are very kind and I can't bother you.

26. If life deceives you, don't be sad or cry, because life will continue to deceive you tomorrow.

27. The happiest thing for a person: a lover whose parents are alive and two or three confidants, which cannot be stolen. Everything else is an illusion, don't care too much.

28. Many times, a man will make you feel that he is in love with you, but he is not. And a woman will make you think that she can't fall in love with you, but she will move her heart.

29. It is strange that love cares about everything and forgives everything.

30. In a word, love is strange. I care about everything and forgive everything.

3 1. There is neither absolute nobility nor absolute humbleness. Be careful when it is a drop of water, it lives as a drop of water. Once it falls into the sea, it becomes the sea. If people realize that there is a heart in life, then all hesitation, loss and vanity are just passing by.

32. If they had appeared earlier, they might not have held each other's fingers tightly. Or meet a little later, until two people slowly learn tolerance, understanding, kindness and compromise in their respective love experiences. Maybe when we come together, we won't give up so easily, turn around willfully and let go of love. Neither earlier nor later, that is a rare fate.

33. At school, you complained about the bad dormitory. But as soon as you graduate, you will find that there is no better place than dormitory. The rent is more than one year 1000, water, electricity and heating are free, and there is no need to clean the toilet. There is a laundry nearby that can wash a bucket of clothes, eat out all day and make a copy. Living with my best friend, there are countless young girls every day. I can't even think about graduation.

34. I hope that one day I can finally wait for you, but fortunately I didn't give up.

Only by traveling can you hear your own voice. It will tell you that the world is wider than you think. There will be no outlet in your life. You will find yourself with a pair of wings and you can fly without anyone's permission.

36. Since you can't turn back, go ahead.

37. At the end of the road, it is still the road, as long as you are willing to go.

38. Life needs passion. When passion can make others think you are unstoppable, it will make way for your success! A person's unyielding temperament can move people and change many things.

39. You are my warm gloves, cold beer, sunny shirt, and my dream day after day.

40. You pass by many people every day. You may know nothing about them, but maybe one day he will become your friend or confidant.

4 1. Try to make every day happy and meaningful, not for others, but for yourself.

42. Don't always compromise yourself by accommodating others. Few people in this world are worth bending over. Bending for a long time will only make people get used to your low profile, and you will become less and less important.

43. Suddenly one day, I couldn't pretend anymore, and then everyone accused me of how I had changed.

44. When the flowers bloom in summer, watch the misty rain to relieve anxiety.

45. Some disappointments are inevitable, but most of them are because you overestimate yourself. Amy Cheung

Learn to smile even if you hate it inside, because the world won't care about your feelings.

It is strange that the barber always cuts his hair very short until one day I cut it myself.

48. When you really care about a person, even trivial details become important. Because of love, so care, because of importance, so love.

49. When you cover your mouth, you worry that it will come out of your eyes.

Talk about a philosophical therapy; If we can change our mood, we can change the future.

1, road, come out by yourself; Opportunities are created by ourselves.

In fact, there are not so many ifs in the world. Sometimes, what we lose in an instant is eternity.

I can accept failure, but I can never accept that I didn't struggle.

4. Everyone has a life, but not everyone can read it; Everyone has a brain, but not everyone uses it well.

As long as you are sure you are right, do it. Some people say that it is not good to do it, while others say that it is not good to do it. Don't run away from criticism.

6. Action is a good medicine to cure fear, while hesitation and procrastination will constantly nourish fear.

7. People can't create opportunities, but they can seize those opportunities that have already appeared.

8. If you want to eat, don't be too expensive. Don't waste it if you want to wear it. Keep a peaceful mind and be happy every day, which is always the most beautiful.

9. A person's life is really short, and everyone should live for himself.

10, life is like a race, it doesn't matter whether you reach the finish line first, what matters is whether you finish the whole race.

You can draw your outline if you want.

1, thinking that you are taken care of by others is actually self-love.

I always have you in my heart, but the proportion has changed.

3, the heart is close, there will be warmth. A pure, a mood.

I want to leave before the end, because the result is tragic.

5. All good things are illusory in the end.

No matter how lucky a person is, fate will play a few jokes on you.

7. I practice smiling to hide the tears that slip quietly.

8. Just sign the contract.

9. There is a kind of injury called sadness, that is, eyelashes can no longer bear the weight of tears, and they will fall off when touched lightly.

10 Sometimes, just let nature take its course and you will know whether those things are worth having.

1 1. Is there a person as warm as the sun who can wipe away all the sadness?

12, people living with feelings, life is a tragedy; People who live with ideas, life is comedy.

13, I can conquer the world with one hand, so take my other hand.

14, I can choose to love you or not, but you can only choose to love me or love me more.

15, maybe we still have love, but it has nothing to do with happiness.

16, I'm not a playboy, I just care too much about one person, which leads to heartlessness.

17, I don't need you to be tall and handsome, just need you to have a heart that loves me.

18, my original intention, for whom.

19, my heart is so big, look, put your so-called love in.

20. Those who once watched us go through what you were going to do now see a tragic ending.

2 1. When did I understand my love? It's just that I'm learning to understand you

22, empty room, lonely company, recall the perfection you gave.

23. A cold-blooded man must have a painful love experience.

24. You asked me if it was worth loving you. In fact, you should know that love is not worth asking.

25. Since I came out of my mother's stomach, I have no intention of going back alive.

You can't pretend in front of me, so I have to smile and watch you continue to pretend.

27, everyone is so smart, I am a fool.

28. You can draw your outline by imagination.

I don't mind selling my youth. I will live without it.

30. I like eating lollipops and reading sad stories.

3 1, used to having you for everything.

32. Get used to saying good night at dawn.

No matter how you lie, you can't escape God's eyes.

34. Being unreasonable is also a way for women to love you.

35. I like silence, and I hate loneliness more, but I love music and loneliness, and I walk strangely quietly.

36. I once loved someone and was inseparable. Love someone now and keep it in your heart.

37. The temperature of tears is 530℃, just because the outside is too cold, it will drop to 53℃.

A short story about marriage and children. After giving birth, you can get a divorce.

In love, besides meeting a philandering man, the most hurtful thing may be meeting Ma Baonan. Falling in love with him is really a deep sense of powerlessness, and the inner grievances cannot be resolved.

After all, it is always you who give in, and you who are accused. All the mistakes are yours.

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A 28-year-old female English teacher

I really want to be filial to my mother-in-law, but I didn't expect to end up.

When I was in love, I thought I knew he was a baby boy and had to report everything to his mother, but I didn't think the problem was particularly serious at that time. Nothing more than what he eats every day and where to play with me. His mother told him not to spend money at most, and didn't say much else. I just thought we could live in peace after marriage. Besides, my parents have been gone since I was a child, and I still envy him for his good relationship with his mother.

When I got married, everything was fucking done. I was really tired. I can see that. So at that time, I was very grateful and admired for his mother, and I really wanted to treat his mother as my own mother to be filial.

After the marriage, his mother moved in with us. His mother first asked us to give her our salary and said that she would save money for us. He agreed without saying anything. My heart is actually a little twisted. After all, I have been used to it for so many years, but it is not easy to think about his mother's, so I agreed.

Everything is fine, but everything has changed since I gave birth to my daughter. What did his mother say about his daughter? Better have a son. I have been forced to have a second child by my husband. My husband really ignores my emotions and talks endlessly with me about having a second child regardless of time and place. Once, I really couldn't help it. I told him that you just listened to your mother, your mother gave birth to you, and your mother raised you as soon as you were born! Who knows, my husband solemnly said, my mother said that my son can still support the elderly in the future, but only one daughter can't. My mother also said that I don't have to worry about no one to take care of the children. She will take care of them when I am born.

After he finished, I was really dizzy. His mother doesn't talk to me either. She always talks only to her son. One day, I saw their mother and son whispering on the balcony. I don't know what to say. Seeing her husband's reluctance, his mother looked irresistible.

At night, I know what they said. His mother actually wanted me to quit my job and concentrate on preparing for a second child, and didn't let me continue working until I gave birth to a son. Husband said that my mother thinks that although women are out to work now, the most important thing is to have children. Now the country encourages having a second child, why don't you have one? I was speechless at once, and my heart was exhausted beyond measure. I felt the horror of Ma Baonan for the first time. My husband has no ability to think for himself at all. He is a giant baby.

Later, even more frightening, he told his mother about our sharing. Turning around, he said what his mother said and what to do in bed. I just don't feel well.

I really lost confidence in this mother and son, and I can see that this man doesn't love me at all. I am now a teacher in a training institution, and my monthly salary is enough for me to raise my daughter. Now I plan to leave this wonderful mother and son to the children after my daughter can go to kindergarten.

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Female 29-year-old stay-at-home mother

He has two mothers, one of whom is me.

Speaking of Ma Baonan, my husband is absolutely pure. After so many years of marriage, he has enjoyed everyone's happiness. He has two mothers, one is my mother-in-law and the other is me.

Before he got married, he was not like this. When he was in love, he found more dates than I found him. Every night's chat, he must come to me, and in the end, he doesn't want to end it. It's raining. Come and give me an umbrella. Even if I bring an umbrella, you still have to pick me up. If you have time, bring something delicious to cure my stomach.

Especially once, when he went back to his hometown, I remember he said that Regan Noodles there was very authentic, and he casually joked: I really want to eat your Regan Noodles, why didn't you bring it to me? It's about eight hours' drive from his hometown to our place, and the noodles were delivered early, so this is obviously a joke. Who knew he was serious? When he came back, he walked out of the station with a big bag and a bowl of Regan Noodles in his hand, proudly holding it for me: the noodles you want. Of course, noodles have been stuck together for a long time, but I was particularly moved to see him bring me noodles from thousands of miles away. Finally, we found a place at the station and shared the bowl of noodles.

Later, when we talked about marriage, he often went to my home to chat with my mother and help her. My mother was very satisfied with him, so she talked for more than two years and we got married. I thought this was the beginning of a happy life, but it turned out to be the beginning of a torment.

In the first few months of marriage, he was almost the same as when he was in love. Sometimes he is too lazy to do housework because he is too busy at work. But gradually, he stopped doing it too many times. When he got home, he spread out on the sofa and played with his mobile phone. If he gets up and does housework, he will say that he is too tired.

After I got pregnant, he insisted that I resign, saying that pregnancy was dangerous, and I didn't think it was necessary. As a result, I almost had an accident taking a taxi after work. Even my mother asked me to resign, so I had no choice but to resign.

When I was five months old, my mother-in-law came from my hometown to take care of me and tried to stew chicken soup, saying that the more oil, the better. I ate too much and gave birth to a big fat man. Poor me, I was still vomiting, and I couldn't smell anything. I am forced to eat every day, throw up after eating, and then I have to eat those greasy foods.

Tell my husband that he is not on my side at all. My mother is experienced and accurate, so don't be melodramatic. It is not good to eat meat at every meal. What other delicious food do you want to eat? I cried with anger and was accused by my mother-in-law. I was too delicate when I was pregnant to say anything.

In this way, even what to wear depends on the mother-in-law. The whole person can't make their own decisions, which is very depressing. My husband is not on my side either. He listened to my mother and she was right. I just found out that everything he did before marriage was fake.

Finally, when it was time to have a baby, my mother-in-law didn't want to have a caesarean section anyway, saying that all those who gave birth naturally were healthy and smart. I was in pain in the delivery bed 12 hours before giving birth to my son. I kept begging him to let me have a caesarean section, but I just refused. I hated him at that time, and when my mother came from my hometown, I was already lying in a hospital bed to recuperate. I cried and told my mother all kinds of grievances. My mother felt sorry for me and wronged me, but there was nothing she could do. Advise the man I choose, no matter how difficult it is, to live with him and never divorce. Then you will be like your mother, and your children will be as miserable as you.

I also know that no amount of pain can be swallowed. I can't leave my child without a father. I grew up without a father. I know I don't have the pain of my father. I was pushed out by other children, pointing to my nose and saying that you don't have a father. You are a freak. I have suffered so much, I can't bear to let my children suffer the same pain again.

It's just that in the dead of night, I'm still thinking, how did such a good time become like this?

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C female, 26-year-old General Staff, unmarried.

His mother convinced him that I was not pregnant with his child.

There was a love affair for two years before, but in the past two years, whatever he did, he had to get her mother's consent.

Being with him is mainly because I think he is different from others. He is honest and simple. He and I are colleagues. He has always been very kind to me, conscientious and low-key. No matter what happens, he will always protect me. At first, he didn't dare to confess to me because another colleague wanted to chase me and almost arrived. He behaved abnormally, so I asked him. He told me frankly that he had cancer, and if it recurred, his survival time was only one year.

I don't know what happened at that time, but I really wanted to be with him. No matter how long he has left, I just want him to be happy every day for the rest of his life! But later, because of his mother, our love didn't come to the end.

His mother retired from the company long ago, and his father is a shareholder and chief financial officer of a state-owned enterprise, and will soon retire. I think my family conditions are excellent. I often say that I am lucky in their home, but my family conditions are not bad either. Eat well and dress well at home. My parents get a unit pension and buy me a car to go to work. His son is a junior college student and I am an undergraduate. My salary is higher than that of his son.

His mother has a super bad temper and often scolds him for trivial things, all kinds of scolding, even me. Said we were greedy for his money, said we ate her and drank her, and treated her as a nanny. Ironically, at home, because of her bad legs, she hardly does anything, and even needs someone to help her pour the fruit plate. His father is a weak man, and his health is not good. He does whatever his mother tells him to do, no matter how noisy his mother is, no matter how unreasonable he is, he thinks she is right!

Until later, I got pregnant unexpectedly, and they took me to have a ruthless abortion. They also said to give me 300 thousand to break up with his son.

When he was just pregnant, he told his mother that she would try her best to do ideological work for him, if not. He came to ask me if I could have it again in two years. I was angry, so I listened to my mother and her mother didn't say anything. Later, his mother was even more vicious and used various methods to convince him that the child was not his.

During this period, his mother also attacked me twice, telling me directly how beautiful others are and liked his son for many years. Will her son like me if he doesn't like me? Said that his son must have been cheated by me, and I put up with it for the sake of the child. His mother still stubbornly refused to let him make a choice. If she marries me, she will die. Who would have thought that he would come and tell me that he could not give up his family. My heart was so cold that I finally let his mother take me to the hospital. He signed his name with a satisfied smile on his face.

I really hate him. Our long relationship and our own flesh and blood can't compare with his mother's unhappiness.

I don't know how long it took that day, nor how I got into the operating room. All I know is that at that moment, my love was over.

I may have shed too many tears for this relationship. Finally, I really saw no tears at the moment of breaking up. It is even more chilling. When two people are good, they need two people to decide together, and only one person needs to decide to break up.

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D Female divorced at the age of 28 before school.

After giving birth, you can get a divorce.

I met my ex-husband on a blind date. I am 25 years old and work as a teacher in a kindergarten. I was introduced by a distant cousin, whom I met when he was a graduate student.

He studies in other cities, and I work in my hometown. He will ask me out when he comes back from vacation. Because of the lack of contact time, he felt that he was still good at that time, so he put marriage on the agenda after graduation.

After we got married, we lived with our in-laws. My father-in-law is an engineer, so he is often away from home and occasionally comes back to live for a while. So most of the time we live with our mother-in-law. I don't know if my father-in-law is often away from home, which leads my mother-in-law to put too much thought on her husband.

I remember the first night of our wedding. It is said that the Spring Festival Gala is worth 1000 yuan, but my mother-in-law dragged my husband to watch TV with her. The wedding day was enough. I want to take my husband away, but my mother-in-law said that I would sleep at my house when I was sleepy, and her son could sleep in her room. Anyway, it's his own home. I looked at my husband angrily, and he continued to watch TV as if nothing had happened. Finally, after I lost my temper, my husband and I went back to the room together, but the atmosphere that night was gone.

Later, this kind of thing often happens. For example, I want to go out for dinner with my husband after work, but I can't wait for the restaurant. Later, I found out that his mother told him to go home to eat with him and left me alone in the restaurant. She is going to travel on Valentine's Day, and her mother either disagrees or insists on following us. A good trip for two people has to be a threesome, walking side by side along the way, and I was left alone, feeling that they are husband and wife. And what I want to eat at home, my husband either forgets or his mother can't say it well, which is unhealthy, but what his mother wants to eat will definitely appear on the dinner table the next day. ......

Anyway, there are countless such things. My mother advised me that your father-in-law is not at home all the year round, and your mother-in-law and your husband have lived together for so many years, and their feelings must be good. These are just the little things in life. Bear with it. Later, I got pregnant, and my mother-in-law was very kind to me for the first time. She buys me whatever she wants to eat. Sometimes my husband and I quarrel, and he starts to stand on my side. I thought my efforts paid off.

But it didn't last long. After giving birth, my mother-in-law's attitude towards me became the same as before. She has no reason to start criticizing me, and my husband doesn't understand me. On the contrary, she told me that her mother brought him up from the department and now she is helping us with the children. I should be grateful and shouldn't argue with her. The mother-in-law's difficulties and her husband's incomprehension led to the family becoming more and more fierce.

Once I couldn't stand it anymore, so I took my child back to my parents' house. I thought my husband and mother-in-law would be the main. As a result, a week later, my mother-in-law took her husband to my parents' house to have a baby and said that she wanted my husband to divorce me.

According to her, before her son married me, their mother and son were very happy. Now that he married me, he not only robbed his son, but also alienated his feelings with her. I will be a mistress. If I hadn't given birth to a grandson to their family, I would have been kicked out of the house.

I looked at my husband and asked him if he wanted a divorce. He never wanted to talk and let his mother make trouble. At that moment, I felt that this man was really a baby boy, and his wife and children had no right to decide, so I immediately decided to divorce, but the children would never give them a home.

The process of divorce is tortuous. His mother tried every means to take my child. I don't want to recall the details. Anyway, my child and I successfully divorced and moved. I don't want to have anything to do with their mourning. I also advise all sisters to cherish their lives and stay away from Bao Ma and his mother.

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E female 26-year-old network anchor

My mother raised me so hard, can you compare with my mother?

I was with him in my senior year. After graduation, he became a civil servant and I became a network anchor. He wears gold-rimmed glasses and looks gentle and handsome, which makes his girlfriend very good. It is often the girl who takes the initiative to ask for his micro-signal, and he politely refuses. After being with me, he seldom has contact with other girls. I thought I would be happy. Unexpectedly, I hit another girl, but I was defeated by my fucking men.

When his parents first got married, the family was very poor. His father chose to start a business and never went home all the year round. He can hardly see the shadow of his father. Later, my father had a successful career, but he also fell in love with other women, left them a sum of money and left. His mother didn't remarry, he brought it up by himself, and they have been living a very frugal life.

Maybe he is afraid of poverty. He never dared to spend another penny. I like to buy a lot of accessories and cosmetics. I know the conditions in his family, and I don't blame him. I always pay for it myself. But once he went shopping with me and saw a beautiful dress, he muttered, this one must be very suitable for my mother. Looking at the price, he actually spent two thousand yuan, and he bought it immediately without hesitation. Although I know it is common for my son to buy a dress for his mother, I always feel a little uncomfortable because he hasn't given me a gift for half a year.

Even on my birthday, I asked him where my gift was, and he simply said happy birthday to me? He even said: What gift do you want? These are all formal things. I have told you more than once that my mother said that some unnecessary expenses don't need to spend that money. If you can save money, why not buy something more practical? My mother also said

Enough! no need to say any more I can't help being angry with him. Everything your mother said in your eyes is true. You can start with my mother in six out of ten sentences. You can spend two thousand yuan to buy a dress for your mother. Why can't you buy me a present?

You are being unreasonable again. It's not like you don't know that my mother raised me so hard. Can you compare with my mother? After listening to his words, I was shocked for an instant, and then I heard my own heartbreaking voice.

When I got home, I locked myself in my room and couldn't help crying under the quilt. I fell asleep when I was tired of crying. When I woke up again, I saw 20 missed calls on my mobile phone. I thought he came to apologize to me, but I didn't expect to wait until he told me the news of the breakup: my mother thinks you spend too much money, and you know our family's economic situation. We are still not suitable.

I don't want our relationship to end over the phone. I wanted to ask him out to talk it over, but he turned me down because his fucking opinion was different. Can you have your own opinion? Can you hear me? Then he just said sorry and hung up.

A month later, his friend told me that his mother introduced him to a girl. Although she is not beautiful, she is diligent and conscientious. Only then did I know that his mother not only disliked that I could spend money, but also particularly cared about my work. She thought that the anchor was a profession of fooling around in front of the camera all day. Girls who do this kind of work are not reserved, for fear that I will be as empathetic as her father. His mother had a great misunderstanding about my career, but he never tried to explain it to me. A few fucking simple words can ruin our relationship. In that case, I have nothing to miss.

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The personal experiences of the above girls have once again verified an ironclad fact: you can't find Ma Baonan.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with a man being filial to his mother, and there is nothing wrong with listening to his mother. He just can't be independent, like a giant baby, and he can't ask his wife to obey the arrangement of his elders.

After all, she is just your wife. She has only the obligation to honor her mother-in-law, and there is no reason to give her life to her mother-in-law.