Why not change yourself easily for one person? Isn't it romantic to change because of love?

Don't change yourself easily for a person, because this person is not necessarily worth changing. Not all changes for love are romantic, some are romantic.

A relationship is to make yourself better and better, not to become a complete stranger, then this relationship is definitely not suitable for you. Don't think that it is a good thing to change yourself easily for one person, which will only be ignored by others. Unless two people have been in love for a long time, at least 10 years, they will not be disappointed by others. When two people start to fall in love, if one person changes himself for another person, it is likely to be looked down upon, because the other person will think that this person is particularly humble, and even think that this person can't live without himself, so he can do whatever he wants, regardless of his thoughts. This man is his other half anyway. If the other person changes himself, it is very likely that he will become his ideal appearance, but not his ideal appearance, so he will be particularly tired and even have some tired thoughts, which is totally unnecessary.

While others, after changing into the other person's imagination, but not getting the expected results, will make themselves particularly miserable because of love and hate. Bian Xiao thinks it's not romantic to change because of love. This kind of thing may only happen in fairy tales. The reality is cruel. You should have your own principles so that you won't be bullied by others. When two people first get together, they may feel that this person is very kind to themselves, so it is also appropriate to make some changes by themselves. However, if the other party asks them to completely become another person, Bian Xiao believes that you should never listen to this person's nonsense, because being yourself is the most important thing, otherwise you will give the emotional initiative to the other party, and you will have no status at all.

Finally, I hope everyone will have a good relationship and not be bothered by some trivial matters.