Stephy said: Marriage is not the purpose of love. what do you think?

Personally, I think that "marriage is not the purpose of love" should be viewed from the timeline, depending on my life stage. Love in youth, it is a kind of youthful budding, the impulse of longing for the opposite sex, and the experience of first love; When you really grow up and need to find a life partner, marriage naturally becomes the purpose of love.

Stephy: Marriage is not the purpose of love. Recently, Stephy posted a debate about love on her personal social platform. She said:

In fact, she is doing propaganda copy for an emotional program "Heartbeat Signal", but according to the current marital status of China people, it really makes sense, because the divorce rate in China is already very high, and the so-called freedom of love and marriage has both advantages and disadvantages.

All relationships that are not for the purpose of marriage are hooligans? Seeing the question about marriage, I can't help but think of a classic saying: "Relationships that don't aim at marriage are hooligans." In fact, most people fall in love to get married, but how many people can make love last forever with fast-food love now?

So I personally think that what Stephy said in the program preview has some truth. There are always some people who think that once they get married, they are fearless and once and for all. On the other hand, divorce and breakup are actually just getting on and off the train, and there is no need for society to discriminate against divorced people, especially women.

More importantly, how to maintain love, whether in love or marriage, makes the feeling of love easier to last, so that in the besieged city of marriage, the relationship between husband and wife can last for a long time and life will be more relaxed and interesting. In fact, marriage is not necessarily the grave of love. The key is the reasonable management between husband and wife to keep love fresh.

Marriage and love: how to manage and how to maintain? In addition, some netizens are opposed, saying that it may be too feudal, but think that the purpose of dating is to get married. But not blindly falling in love for marriage. Love is for fun, isn't marriage for fun? I still can't accept people who only fall in love and don't get married ...

Personally, marriage is not the only end of love. When you can keep the beauty of loving each other and the freshness of love in your marriage, congratulations, marriage is the end of love.

So, what do you think of what Ziggy said? "Marriage is not the purpose of love, and marriage is not the end of love"?

Yesterday, Stephy's words in the variety show "Heartbeat Signal" caused a heated discussion among netizens. She thought marriage was not an outcome, and then Stephy explained what she meant in detail on her personal social platform.

She said: "Marriage is not the end of love. Marriage is just a big stop on the love train. You decide to buy a ticket (get a license) at this station. It's hard to say whether we can sit together all the way. Don't feel that you are always fearless when you are loved. Keep some care and care when you are in love, so that the longer the confession of long-term love, the better. "

As soon as this statement came out, many netizens expressed their strong agreement with Stephy's point of view, and at the same time refuted a well-known old saying: "Love that does not aim at marriage is hooliganism."

In fact, Stephy's point of view is that she believes that love is a lifelong and long-term thing, so marriage is only a part of it. But this view is too idealistic. After all, there are not many stories about princesses and princes. More people get married to support each other, and eventually "love" will inevitably become "affection".

The purpose of love? The purpose of marriage? This question seems ... inappropriate. Are you in a purposeful relationship or a purposeful marriage? I don't think most people think so. Love is that you like or love your girlfriend very much and want to be with her. Want to see her all the time, hear her talk to you, and share some of your inner pressure for you. And if you have the idea of getting married, you just want her to accompany you all your life and share your joys and sorrows. Therefore, whether you are talking about marriage or falling in love, don't say the purpose. If you ask your girlfriend, you say, "What is the purpose of our love? What is the purpose of getting married in the future? " At this time, your girlfriend may not say anything, but her heart will always be branded with a small mark. She'll think, why? Didn't he fall in love with me just to stay with me forever? Is there a purpose? I don't think this is the answer you want from her, is it? Seeing this problem of my parents, I feel that I am also very confused. I also think his parents don't accept me, and neither do my parents. But once I really meet my parents, I will show them my best side and let them accept me sincerely. In fact, the purpose of parents is nothing more than to let their children live well and have a good time. If I really meet my parents, I might as well say with confidence that I will be very happy with her in my life. I believe that the wishes of parents are the same. Have you no confidence in yourself? There are many only children now. I think you're probably the only one in the family. In the eyes of parents, you will always be a child. But I'm a little disappointed. You said you still felt like a child. You went to college. I think there are more than 20. You should stop treating yourself like a child. What you have to think is not only those childish ideas, but also the society. I will be eliminated from society, and I won't tell famous stories, because I am a real example. No matter where I am, I always feel like a child, only 2 1, and everything is taken for granted. But now you're really in the society, and you find that no one is driving a through train for you, because you are young, and everything depends on your own skills to prove your value. My answer may not matter. I just felt something when I saw your question, and I just said what I wanted to say in my heart. I hope I can help you a little.

Everyone has different views on marriage and love. It depends on what you want. If you want to get married, then every love you have will want to enter the marriage hall. Whatever the outcome, at least you are moving in this direction. If you only want sweet love and don't care about the result, it's actually a good idea, provided that you tell the other party that if the other party takes marriage as the premise, it will hurt others. I think whether you are married or in love, you should keep a heart of love. Only in this way can two people be happy together.