What is three meals?

It's too noisy for me to go to the party of the big show.

Why do many students rush to the first party and don't want to go the second time? After graduation, students from all walks of life, all walks of life, are busy with their own lives, less and less contact, more and more blurred faces. How do your classmates get along? Students still want to know each other. Generally speaking, at the node of five or ten years, there will always be students who have mixed well together. The first party was fresh and exciting at first, hugging each other and screaming loudly, but after three rounds of drinking, students from all walks of life took turns to show off, and the second half was often a bit stale. Students at the same starting line have been seriously divided. Birds of a feather flock together, and every student is quietly looking for a position and a group. The freshness before the party is often washed away by the sense of distance and imbalance after comparison. Many people are reluctant to attend the second large-scale and show-like party.

Don't go to parties where people shop.

After graduation, the students go their separate ways. Those who have a good relationship may still contact each other, while those who don't interact frequently may forget the rivers and lakes. Five years and ten years later, there are always some classmates who haven't contacted each other for 800 years. On the grounds that there is nothing they can do, they will get together and do whatever it takes. They will say, "it's my treat. I'll do everything." Just use your mouth. " If you can't attend such a party, you can't go 80% of the students did not mix well and developed in society. The purpose of setting up the venue is not to really catch up and talk about friendship, but to stand tall and show off. There is still 20%, which may be a bleeding book. Let classmates help him with his "on-site homework". If all the students he invited are valuable, he should resolutely decline, so why attend the "Hongmen Banquet"?

3. Don't go to super-luxury parties.

The reunion of classmates is organized by several organizers in AA system, where we discuss to find a hotel with convenient transportation, moderate conditions and appropriate standards, and take care of the actual situation of all students. This is a thoughtful organization and caring service. But some organizers are either out of their minds or "why not eat minced meat". The party is arranged in a five-star resort, and the standard is two or three thousand yuan per capita. This is a show for rich children, but it closes the door for ordinary students. AA pays the standard and round-trip fare, plus the loss of leave, several thousand yuan. Spend thousands of dollars to watch successful people show off their wealth? Whether you have money or not, you don't want to go to any party that is beyond ordinary people's ability. The starting point is not grounded, can everyone find the feeling of equal gathering?