Why don't I like people who have positive energy in their mouths all day? Too lazy to talk to them. Angry?

I have a principle that if I can't give a person some feasible action suggestions, I won't easily suggest others to change their attitudes or views. In layman's terms, it can also be understood as: don't suffer others, don't persuade others to be good.

For example, when I first joined the work, I had a lot of miscellaneous things at hand and was often scolded by the leaders in a hurry. I feel very depressed and want to leave after work.

My parents gave me advice that it is normal to be scolded by leaders in the workplace, so you should keep a balanced attitude. There will be more opportunities for similar things in the future. What line should I leave if I disagree?

My brother gave me advice: make an excel table, list the daily work tasks by time period and distinguish the importance, and check with the leader in advance. Then, unless there are special circumstances, try to follow the rhythm of the worksheet and simply list the completion of various tasks and the reasons for unfinished items before leaving work every day and send them to the leaders. Stick to it for about two weeks, and the leader will rarely scold you. As soon as I tried, I was inspired, and I said thank you to my brother specially. My brother also sent me something similar to what my parents suggested above.

You see, it is also positive energy, and the first and second ones give people a completely different impression. Maybe the landlord hates me, and like me, he is the first. They only know how to give advice on your attitude, but they can't give practical suggestions on action. Oh, be positive, be generous, be strong, Barabara ... But what can I do to be positive, generous and strong when I meet something, combined with my own experience? He was tongue-tied.

Some of these people do bad things with good intentions, which is more common in my parents' generation. They want to interrupt everything, and their minds lack the concept of private boundaries of contemporary young people. The other situation is much worse. He wants to play the role of "redeemer" by "persuading people to be good", so as to gain some sense of self-satisfaction. Bah, this aspect is obviously nonsense but narcissism!

The inventor of positive energy and negative energy is Song Shanmu, the boss of Sam Training. It was he who raped a female student with the absurd excuse of "positive energy and negative energy".

What puzzles me is that in today's society, "positive energy, negative energy" is regarded as a fashionable word, which reminds me of the devil wears prada when I see these words. I am not only annoyed, but also angry. Has our Chinese culture really dried up?

Now some people talk about the so-called positive energy all day, which not only fetters themselves, but also abducts others, making people afraid of accidentally falling into the mud pit of negative energy, and all of them have become cautious wooden heads.

What is even more distressing is that Miao Kexin, a student of Binjiang Primary School in Changzhou, Jiangsu Province, wrote such a good composition, but was criticized by the teacher as negative energy and sent away a life as beautiful as flowers and jade.

I want to shout: fuck you! Song Shanmu's "positive energy and negative energy", I just want to be an ordinary person who is honest and kind, does not drag down his family, does not harm others, and does not harm the country.

Maybe not only you don't like it, but many people also dislike the positive energy of "refueling". Most of these people take themselves as the core and shout "Come on" every day! I am not afraid of disturbing people, and I like to judge a person by my own values. Being with them for a long time will inevitably lead to boredom.

Reasons for boredom: ① People who are full of positive energy talk a lot, many of them just talk, and they can do very little! Moreover, this kind of "address" makes me feel very disgusted. For example, I have to do everything I can alone, which makes me get twice the result with half the effort. Also blame me for not having the spirit of collective unity. The idea is not on the same channel, can you leave it alone?

For you, this slogan is more like a threat. You can do things according to your own ideas, but there is one person who is pushing yourself. It's not that I don't want to do it, but that I don't think it's necessary or urgent. You may be unwilling to accept what others think is good, just like you like fish best, but I don't like it. Why do you have to give me something I don't like, and you have a good reputation for being charitable?

Suggestion: If you can't stand these people, stay away from them! Don't be surprised by each other's surprise, and don't care too much about each other's words. Just be yourself.

Of course, if you really can't hide, don't hide. From now on, you work harder and do better than him, and let him know that it is better to act silently with positive energy in your mouth all day.

In short, don't put too much pressure on yourself in the face of people who have positive energy in their mouths all day. Capable people never rely on shouting, but work silently for their goals. Don't take each other's words too seriously, or you will be fooled!