How to treat boyfriend's behavior of turning over friends?

What is the reason why your long-lost ex suddenly reappears and disturbs your mood?

Today, I will explain to you the psychology of my predecessor looking at your circle of friends. There are four kinds of predictions:

I. Time

If he rummages through your circle of friends and space during the day, don't get excited. Because people are more relaxed during the day and are in a lively environment.

There are few times when a person is alone, and a person will not be sad to turn over your circle of friends. Of course, if he has experienced psychological setbacks, that is another matter.

If you browse your circle of friends in the middle of the night, you may have missed it.

Imagine a picture of him lying in bed alone, thinking about your past together, unconsciously opening your space with his hands and watching your current dynamics.

If it is the first one, don't act rashly. It is recommended to understand his psychology first. If it is the second state, then you can be sure that he misses you very much now, and appropriate contact is ok.

Second, can he see your movements?

First, did he hack you after the breakup? Have you ever deleted friends from each other? If he blacked you out and recently took the initiative to look at your circle of friends, congratulations, there should be something.

Second, if you constantly update your space and circle of friends, and there are new contents every day, your name will appear on his timeline, and you may slip.

If he hasn't contacted for several months, he still points in to explain that there is something new.

No matter what the state is, there must be a reason why she cares about your dynamics. You can try to get in touch, but don't say "let's get back together" as it will definitely scare him away.

Third, his recent emotional state.

Whether he has made any new friends now and whether his feelings have fluctuated greatly recently should also be included in the scope of investigation.

If he just broke up recently, or his parents didn't push him to get married well, he often went on blind dates, which shows that he has the intention to get married at present.

I came to your circle of friends at this time because I thought of you, but I couldn't pull my face down.

At this time, you can take the initiative to contact him, or continue to wait for him to contact you.

4. Will he take the initiative to contact you?

This is related to whether you can take the lead in the process of "reorganization". Therefore, it is not recommended that you take the initiative to find him when he looks at your space.

You should cooperate with your plan and send some "provocative" remarks and trends to make him more uneasy and come back to you on your own initiative.

Why is it important to keep your mind calm at this moment? Because if your ex comes to see your space and leaves footprints, you must love him whether he loves you or not.

If he discovers this, he will get rid of the previous "agitation" and return to the state of "having nothing to fear", and then your redemption chips will increase again.