Women who don't listen to men are smart women.

In the emotional world, every woman wants to be the only one for a man, and it is best to hold his heart firmly in her own hands all her life. However, the reality is very difficult. In this world of flowers and flowers, even if women have great charm, it is difficult to guarantee that men will not have two hearts. In fact, there is no way to make a man be dead set on you. Stupid women always say that when you get along with men, you must be a good obedient woman, and everything depends on him. But they ignored it. After all, they lowered themselves, but they couldn't get each other's sincerity. Get along with men, smart women all know a truth, that is, let men dream about themselves. Therefore, the best way to catch a man's heart is to be a disobedient woman. Showing "disobedience" when he asks you will make him want to conquer you. Ning Wei is easy to get along with her boyfriend. She never worries that her boyfriend will have second thoughts, because she knows very well that her boyfriend is dead set on her. There is no doubt that two people will encounter each other when they are together for the first time. At first, my boyfriend was very strong and didn't know how to be considerate and gentle. He doesn't have any female friends around him and has no idea how to get along with women. When they get along, he always puts forward some requirements directly to Ning Wei, which is very manly. In this regard, Ning Wei can't stand it soon. She said that she also tried to accommodate, but the final result was not ideal. Later, when her boyfriend asked her again, she always refused "disobediently". Unexpectedly, her boyfriend loves her more. According to her boyfriend, this is because Ning Wei aroused his inner desire to conquer. When you get along with men, you must be distracted. If you obey everything, he will only think that you are old-fashioned and have less and less interest in you. A really smart woman knows how to catch a man's heart. When he makes various demands on you, you choose "disobedience". Does it mean that a man will really leave you for this? No, you will only arouse a man's desire to conquer, and he will want you more. This little trick can make men die for you. Why not try it? Women who are "disobedient" have more personality and can make men sit up and take notice. Xie Song is a standard Gao Fushuai. Many women pursue him, but only Xiaoyu stands out. Xie Song said that in fact, there are many people who are more beautiful than Xiaoyu and have good academic qualifications, but they all have beautiful skins, while Xiaoyu has an interesting soul. When every woman pursues him, she sticks to Xie Song almost all the time. Clever and obedient people don't make mistakes, but the more so, the more boring Xie Song is. Xiaoyu is different. She's like an elf. Everything goes against Xie Song's original intention. She especially likes to "sing the opposite" with Xie Song. But it is precisely because of Xiaoyu's "disobedience" that Xie Song fell down. When men and women get along, women are actually losing themselves while catering to him. Your humble appearance can really get a good impression for a while, but after a long time, men will only hate clever faces. In love, only by taking a man's heart can you feel at ease forever. Being a "disobedient" woman will certainly have certain risks, but in the eyes of men, you are a girl with personality, and this charm will firmly attract him and make you move. In daily life, learn to be "disobedient" and increase your interest. A lady who looks very gentle, but when she gets along with her boyfriend in private, she is very "rebellious" Almost everyone thinks that Wan Wan's boyfriend is attracted by her thoughtfulness and gentleness, so he is so kind to her. Unexpectedly, the answer is different. When I get along with my boyfriend, I always like to be disobedient in front of him. Although her boyfriend is often angry with her, he loves Wan Wan even more afterwards. Wan Wan said that every time she "disobeys", it actually increases the interests of her and her boyfriend, so her boyfriend is so dead set on her. Men all have bad habits. The more docile you are, the more boring he is. When the opposite sex gets along, if a woman always shows gentleness, then the love between you is nothing new. Even if a man loves you especially at first, he will leave silently in the end. Therefore, smart women know that they should be "disobedient" when dealing with men. You can indulge yourself, as long as it is within a reasonable range, that is, increase your interest in getting along and make men want to stop you. Women who don't listen to men are all smart women. Smart women know how to grasp a man's heart in these three ways. 1. Always praise and worship your husband. Men like to be praised. Praise can make men more and more confident. A good man must have a good woman who knows herself and can exercise herself. A smart woman knows how to praise her husband from the heart and will pay attention to her husband's efforts. Because there are many male genes in men, praising them will make them more aware of their responsibilities and burdens. Xiaoruo once told me that when she gave birth to Dabao, her husband often went on business trips and didn't accompany her well. After giving birth to Bauer, she will take the initiative to ask her husband to help with the children, and she will often praise her husband in front of many people in the community. Now she finds that her husband enjoys the role of nanny more and more, and is more and more considerate of her. Changing diapers at night is basically a father's business. Xiaoruo tells everyone that women should learn to play the role of men. Praise and praise men can make their men share family responsibilities, which is also an important part of building a harmonious family. 2, love yourself first, establish a sense of life ceremony Marriage with the passage of time, it is easy to fall into a dull life. Smart women know how to awaken the freshness and importance of married life with a sense of ceremony. Yao Ming is my best friend. She once complained that her husband didn't love herself as much as before when she was itchy after three years of marriage. But later, she gradually realized that she could not pin her happiness on others. It is better to love yourself first than to force others to love you. Every day, she will treat every day with full spirit and dress with great temperament. On important festivals, she will also take the initiative to express her inner feelings with her husband. She aroused her husband's inner tenderness with her own initiative. Her husband saw that his wife was steaming alive every day, which also infected him with great vitality. Generally speaking, smart women know how to actively create the life they want with their sense of ritual, because life belongs to them after all. When you belong to the creator of life, you are also the most attractive at this time. 3. Respect and consideration for her husband: Stimulate her husband's conscious mind. Smart women always know how to give men space. "Men are from Venus and Women are from Mars" says that men like to have their own space. Smart women know that men need their own repair space. So in this space, he is rarely disturbed, but silently supports it. Marriage needs mutual understanding and support. Men often like women's understanding, because men will be more relaxed and have no pressure. Women need to lower their expectations of men, but to stimulate men's conscious hearts, because this will allow men to find their own inner mission and their own direction. And a good woman will use her kindness and thoughtfulness to let men have their own spiritual world, and men will naturally appreciate women. The art of marriage between Li Jian and Meng Bei has always been appreciated, because Meng Bei knows Li Jian very well. Even when Li Jian was unknown, she never put pressure on him, but stood beside him and guarded each other. It was during that period of seclusion that Li Jian found his inner strength and his beloved soul music. This kind of respect and consideration is a kind of strength that men need most. Whether in high valleys or low valleys, they will quietly' respect their partners'. Love is a kind of blooming everywhere, and smart women will use beautiful details to make a plain marriage full of happiness. Generally speaking, marriage itself needs art, and in ordinary life, a woman's IQ is indispensable for a happy life. A smart woman is the initiative and creator in life, and such a woman is sometimes blessed with whom she marries. Because they use their creativity and understanding to create a happy harbor for their families, which is their greatest charm. Women who don't listen to men are all smart women. A woman who can say these three words in a man's heart is smart. 1, "I feel so happy with you" There is a saying that "a kind word warms three winters". When you express your inner happiness in front of a man, he will be happy. Because this is your heartfelt affirmation of him. Love always makes a man feel weak and inferior. If he can say this sentence, he will have a great sense of accomplishment. If he can't show himself in front of you, you can't see his Excellence, and he will slowly lose it, because it's useless for him to try again. You are not omnipotent, you can overcome all the difficulties around you. When you are sad, a man takes the initiative to come forward, takes pains to solve your problems and finally helps you, but don't forget him when you are happy. And your best life memories are accumulated by his company bit by bit, and he accompanies you to the places you want to play; He buys you your favorite food; Give you the most romantic gift ... When dealing with men, women must learn to affirm and encourage men. Although this is very simple, it will make men very warm and even willing to pay for you! 2. "You are the best, everything is fine." Love is blind. If you love this man deeply, he must be the most handsome and perfect in your eyes, and no one can replace him. The hardest thing for you is to say what you think. However, if you think he is good, you should express it, so that you can be honest with him instead of being hypocritical. A man will never refuse the love of the woman he loves. He enjoys protecting you and his spirit as a man. In a man's mind, a woman who can say this sentence is very clever. After all, in a man's heart, everyone wants to hear a good evaluation from a woman, and also likes a woman to show weakness on her own initiative. In daily life, he will love you very much and try his best to help you do things you don't want to do. Although sweet words cannot represent all love, men like to hear women say such things! It is especially wise to know how to praise men. When men have dignity in front of you, they will work harder to create the future and love you more attentively! 3. "I believe you, come on!" As the pillar of the family, or in order to realize the bright future life you imagine, a man must work hard, struggle and break into his own outside world. Only when he has his own stable career can he make the promise you want. But all success can not be achieved casually, and he will also face many challenges. If you can be more patient, trust him and support him instead of thinking about how to leave him, then he will be particularly touched. There is a proverb that "a friend in need is a friend indeed". You didn't abandon him when he was most difficult or even unable to survive. Instead, you stood by him firmly and gave him a support and courage to move on. Even if he failed in the end, he was no longer afraid. Because no matter how big the storm is, you have experienced it. As long as two people face each other and make up for each other, life can always go on. It is because of your trust that he has been working hard for your happiness. For men, a woman who knows how to support herself is not only smart, but also attractive. Only in this way can men be sincere to you!