The first time I went to my in-laws' house, my mother-in-law disliked that I didn't bring my nephew's gift. I broke up when I came back. what do you think?

I remember the first time I went to my husband's house, I didn't know what gift to bring, and I specially asked my married colleagues in the company.

A colleague told me that I didn't know what to bring, so I brought special products and things that my husband couldn't buy.

So I brought pitaya and other things.

My husband's family doesn't like it and thinks it has no taste.

Do girls really need to bring gifts for the first time? My answer is: you'd better take it. After all, you are a guest. Who are they all for? It is best to give it to your in-laws, or something that everyone can enjoy.

Have you ever seen a girl who broke up with her in-laws because of her first visit? I've seen it.

There is a kind of husband-in-law, who found the disadvantages before getting married and broke up, which is a good thing for girls.

She is a distant cousin of mine. She never imagined that her mother-in-law turned out to be such a tough person. If she knew, she wouldn't care about the money. However, to put it another way, it is good to break up, so as to avoid being bullied by a clever mother-in-law after marriage and cohabitation.

My cousin has been in love with her boyfriend for three years. According to the truth, her feelings are very stable and she can talk about marriage.

Her boyfriend also took her all the way to the north. My cousin took the train for more than ten hours, then took the bus, then took the bus, and finally walked for half an hour, and finally arrived at her husband's house, full of dust.

It was already past one o'clock in the afternoon when I arrived at my in-laws' house. My in-laws couldn't wait, so they had dinner first. That meal was a normal dish, and she didn't add it because of her special arrival.

Cousin felt cold all over, as if something was missing and she couldn't remember. She doesn't think this is the real way to entertain guests. But I didn't really care. I was probably young and ignorant, inexperienced, and in love with my boyfriend. I couldn't think of so many things.

Cousin ate a little casually. When she was wandering around in the afternoon, she overheard her mother-in-law ask her little nephew, "Did that aunt give you a gift?"

The little nephew is the son of her boyfriend's brother. He is 6 years old and sensible.

The little nephew knelt on grandma's knee and said, "No". Grandma, do you like her? Uncle likes her, right? He wants to marry her as menstruation in the future, right? "

My mother-in-law replied without thinking: "Grandma doesn't like her and doesn't even buy a gift for my baby grandson. Too stingy, my uncle won't marry her. Don't even accept the bowl after dinner. This aunt is just like your mother. You can't marry such a wife when you grow up. "

These words were just heard by my cousin, and she got angry at once.

I came to my boyfriend's house for more than ten hours, not to humiliate others.

Before coming, my cousin asked her boyfriend if he wanted to pay special attention to anything and what gifts to buy. Boyfriend casually said that his parents were not very picky people.

My cousin only wanted to give supplements to the elderly, but she didn't expect to bring gifts to her children, so her mother-in-law caught her by the handle.

It's all right now. I haven't been here for half a day, and I've already started to sow discord and instigate children in front of them. This kind of mother-in-law is terrible and not to be taunted.

Later, I learned that my little nephew's mother divorced when he was 4 years old. The reason for the divorce is the marital disharmony. In fact, the eldest sister-in-law went back to her mother's house after confinement, and the child was sent back at the age of 4. That is to say, in these four years, grandparents have never seen children, and the husband and wife separated for a long time and finally divorced. This reason also started from confinement. Otherwise, why don't you take the children and stay away for several years?

It is conceivable that this mother-in-law is not easy to mess with, and her attitude towards her daughter-in-law also needs to be considered. Once when the eldest sister-in-law was in confinement, her mother-in-law didn't take care of her. Sister-in-law was resentful and went back to her family in a rage.

Now I hear with my own ears that she has taught her bad grandson so much, but I don't think it's right. If I live under the same roof in the future, I will suffer a lot for my cousin, what's more, my cousin is married far away, without friends, and she is bullied and doesn't know who to turn to for help.

As the saying goes, a mother is kind and filial.

However, only when the mother is really kind can the child be truly filial. Daughter-in-law is also half a daughter. If she is not good to her daughter-in-law, how can her daughter-in-law be good to her mother-in-law?

Leaves will not turn yellow one day, and people will not get cold one day.

My cousin later told me that she was glad to find out her mother-in-law's true face before she got married.

Later she broke up with her boyfriend, who thought she disliked being poor at home. My cousin said no, but your mother doesn't like me.

Boyfriend also argued, "How can my mother not like you? Besides, my mother is the best to get along with and won't even let you wash the dishes. "

"Yes, on the surface don't let me wash the dishes, but secretly lazy. Who wouldn't? "

My cousin broke up after all.

Later, I heard that her ex-boyfriend met a girl on a blind date, and the other party asked for a bride price of 200 thousand. Besides, she has to build a new house, otherwise she won't get married.

Mother-in-law dislikes that the woman's family demands too much and can't afford a bride price of 200,000 yuan. Let her son ask my cousin how much the bride price is. If less, let her son marry my cousin.

Cousin said: "joke, when I am what, no one wants it unless your family doesn't marry." When I first came to the door, I was not welcome. Do you expect to be treated well in the future? "

It is better to stay away from this snobbish husband's family before it is too late.

When a girl marries, it depends not only on the man's character and family education, but also on her mother-in-law's three views and personality. After all, there will be intersections after marriage and we will live together.

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