Tell yourself to shut up.

disaster comes from the mouth.

kong ziyun; Clever words make color, fresh benevolence.

The general idea is that if a person wins the favor of others with sweet words and pretends to be pleasant, then such a person has little kindness.

Caigen Tan has a cloud; The world is shallow, and the spot dyeing is also shallow. The experience is deep and the machinery is deep. Therefore, a gentleman is not unpretentious with his accomplishments, and not arrogant with his Qu Jin.

The general idea is that a person who has just set foot in society has little experience and is less influenced by bad habits. And experienced people often have a lot of crafty skills. Therefore, a gentleman who sticks to morality, rather than being too smart and smooth, might as well be simple and honest. It is better to be open and generous than to be cautious and cater to the mood.

My mother always says that I can't talk when I meet people. In fact, I am polite to people, and I won't forget all kinds of etiquette. I just don't have the same topic with my relatives or ordinary acquaintances. If I force a smile and say something without nutrition, I will be very uncomfortable. In this way, I am usually silent, but my parents don't like me. In fact, this is very correct. Don't try to please others, have an independent personality and become economically independent at an early date. Come on!