As a stay-at-home mother, I am escaping from society more and more. How can I get rid of this inferiority complex?

I am also a full-time mother, and I have been working full-time since 217. Stay-at-home mothers focus on family and children every day, which is trivial housework and child care. After a long time, the circle will inevitably narrow. If another person takes a long vacation, such as a 7-day National Day holiday, he needs to adapt to starting work again, not to mention his mother who has been at home full-time for several years, and human instinct will make you not want to leave the comfort zone. Therefore, naturally, subconsciously, they will escape from society more and more. At the same time, many stay-at-home mothers still feel that they are out of touch with the times and society, and some inferiority complex is derived.

To tell the truth, almost every stay-at-home mother has had this feeling, or is experiencing it. So what should we do? How can we get rid of this sense of inferiority and become no longer evasive?

the answer is: keep learning. This is very important. I know it for myself. For a stay-at-home mother, if she is trapped in the triviality of taking care of her baby and life all day and has no sustenance other than taking care of her baby, then the whole person will be particularly anxious and feel inferior as she gets older.

I was in a state of low self-esteem and anxiety before. When I went out, who would say why you didn't go to work full-time? I kept it in my mind and felt uncomfortable for several days. It is also slowly that with the long time of full-time, my mentality has been adjusted a lot. This is inseparable from my reading and writing.

I started to learn new media writing last year. In the process of learning and challenging myself, I found a long-lost sense of the workplace, and I felt that I could do other things besides taking care of my children, and I always felt a sense of accomplishment when I made a little progress. I use the money I earn to buy fruits, balance cars and clothes for my children. Although I can't compete with work, I am still very happy! I like the feeling of spending my own money!

(The picture above shows the balance car I bought for my son with the money I earned from writing.