It’s a very comfortable talk to help you understand life and understand the world.

1. No matter how hard you try, someone will leave you because of your shortcomings. You don't have to blame others for being too utilitarian, you can only blame yourself for not being good enough for people to ignore these shortcomings. Companionship is priceless, leaving is reasonable.

2. People who hate you will always hate you, and people who like you may hate you one day, so isn’t it tiring to live under the eyes and opinions of others all day long?

3. Maybe you have to get up at seven in the morning and go to bed at twelve in the evening, walking alone day after day. But as long as you live resolutely and passionately, even if you are born at the wrong time, the worst outcome in your life will be that you bloom late.

4. People cannot put themselves in someone else's shoes because their thoughts, experiences, and senses are all different. Just like I said the sea is beautiful, but you said many people have drowned.

5. If your ability is limited, don’t learn from others to speak generous words. If your strength is limited, don’t learn from others to take detours. If your personal configuration is not good, you must learn to cherish yourself and treat life well.

6. Work hard as if you don’t expect anything in return; love sincerely as if you have never been hurt; dance with devotion as if no one is watching you. Such a life can definitely bring you happiness.

7. One of the disadvantages of growing up is that there are fewer and fewer things that you firmly believe in. The good thing is that there is less and less need to believe in something.

8. Only when you bite your tongue will you know that you can’t eat in a hurry. Only those who love their mistakes will know that they can be together without persistence. All experiences are inevitable. If you don’t fall, you will never know where the smoothest road is. .

9. You have to endure until the spring flowers bloom; you have to walk until the lights are bright; you have to see the vastness of the world before you judge whether it is good or bad; you have to work hard to become better. No matter how well-matched you are, you stand next to someone you can't imagine; if you want to become what you imagined, you can't let it go even one step.

10. If it doesn’t work, break it up. If you like it, buy it. Try it again. It’s none of your business and none of my business. By using these 5 simple and crude rules regularly, you will solve 80% of the troubles in your life.

11. Everyone wants to be a great version of themselves, but first they have to ask themselves if they have the capital, and don’t indulge in your own world and go your own way.

12. Why do you need to expose someone when you see them clearly? Why do you need to fall out with someone if you hate them? In life, there are always people who can't stand us, just like others can't stand us. Living, it is said to be simple, but it is actually very simple. Only when you laugh at the gains and losses will the sea and the sky be brighter, and only when your heart is transparent can spring flowers bloom. That's all life is.

13. People, I have the heart of Dream of Red Mansions, but I live in the world of Water Margin. I want to make friends with Taoyuan brothers from the Three Kingdoms, but I always encounter the monsters and monsters from Journey to the West.

14. There is no need to crave understanding and recognition from others in life, because others do not have these obligations. Live your life quietly. If your heart doesn't move, the wind will do nothing. If you are not injured, the years will be fine.

15. The key factor that can make a person mature and wise is not how much hardship he has suffered or how many things he has gone through, but what he has done after suffering all the hardships and going through everything. I realized so many things. Epiphany, these two words, determine a person's growth.

16. In this age of affection, "Dear" is at best a hello, and "I'll treat you to dinner next time" is at most a thank you, so why take it too seriously.

17. The so-called seminar is actually to invite some unscrupulous people, eat some dirty meals, spend some unknown money, and say some indifferent words. Have a nondescript meeting.

18. Society is a big dye vat. Changed our original appearance. If you don't want to change, you have to change. If you don't change, you can't adapt to society. Reality is a melting pot. Tempered our ultimate strength. If you don't want to be strong, you have to be strong. If you don't, you have to surrender to reality.

19. You must work harder to become excellent. When you meet the right person one day, you will not look embarrassed and unprepared.

20. A few words to remind yourself at any time: when a person is angry, his IQ is zero; when a person is impatient, his movements will be deformed; when a person does not give the other party trust, nothing he says is of any use ; When people lose their direction, they have no energy to do anything.

21. The distance between people is one layer of belly; the distance between people and friends is one inch of sincerity; the distance between people and sky is one meter of sunshine; the distance between people and earth is one step; The distance between sorrow is a little concern; the distance between people and happiness is let go; the distance between people and life is a cry.

22. No matter how long the night is, there is also the dawn of awakening; no matter how strong the wind and waves are, there is also the arrival of the other shore. Sometimes your despair or helplessness may be the result of Nirvana and rebirth. No matter what situation a person is in, he must always believe that there is no perfect way for him.

23. Those who are capable are writing stories, while those who are incompetent are reading stories; those who are capable are busy for their own success, while those who are incompetent are busy for the success of others; Those who are capable turn themselves into others' costs, and those who are incompetent turn themselves into others' profits.

24. What kind of people to talk to and what kind of words to say. Don't play the piano to a cow. The cow won't understand and will be annoyed. In the same way, love should be given to those who cherish themselves, otherwise your love will be cheap and worthless. When speaking, you should only speak to people who understand. Not everyone is worthy of your saliva. In short, your treasure should only be given to those who know best.