Some people say "you speak very officially" - it is really important to learn to speak well

I remember someone said, "People who really understand themselves will not easily ask others to evaluate themselves."

The fact is that in life, we don't understand ourselves at all, or He said he was not confident in himself at all and was always in a state of doubt.

So you will want to understand yourself from others and let others evaluate yourself.

Such a request is understandable, but the premise is that you have to find the right person. This person must have a certain understanding of you, your personality, and how you behave.

Tonight, I met this friend, we have known each other on WeChat for less than 15 days, but she asked me to evaluate her and asked me what I thought of her.

When I heard her question, I was actually very confused. This question was too broad. Should I answer her? Or how should I answer her?

After thinking about it, I said a few words of praise to her, but she said that my answer was very official and could be used on any occasion and at any time.

I don’t know whether to laugh or cry. Since you asked me to evaluate you, but after I gave the evaluation, you didn’t agree with my answer. What can I do? I felt so helpless.

But looking back, how could I have been just like her? In fact, this is also a sign of lack of self-confidence.

I'm not angry. I always feel that people don't need to be too suspicious when getting along with each other, just be honest with each other.

Moreover, the answer I gave her was actually from the bottom of my heart. It's not as exaggerated as she said.

But her answer also gave me a revelation: it is really important to learn to speak well and communicate well with others.

I hope we can learn to speak well and continue to grow in the process of getting along with others. Come on, the future is bright!