The daughter-in-law bullies her son. How should a mother protect her son?

Bullying refers to all acts that harm each other's body and spirit with attitude, actions and words, which refers to fraud and infringement; Oppression.

Was the son bullied by his daughter-in-law? How do you judge that your son was bullied by his daughter-in-law? How do you want to protect your son?

There is a book gentleman who talks about his own views. I hope you don't get involved in this mess.

1. Just because you are eager to love your son, you may make mistakes in judgment.

What is your criterion for judging a daughter-in-law bullying her son? Is it because I can't watch it anymore? Or did she suppress and betray your son?

Are you sure this is not a sign that they are "kissing each other, scolding each other is love"? The bullied son is just "Zhou Yu hitting Huang Gai?" One is willing to fight, one is willing to get. "

But as a mother, if your son doesn't want you to come forward, don't participate.

First of all, the son should be able to solve it by himself.

Secondly, the emotional matter, if you come forward, it means that it has been made public, which means that there may be no room for redemption between them, and the result can only be a slap in the face.

Is this the result you want to see? I think the main thing is whether your son is willing or not. After all, they are all adults, and things between husband and wife will be handled by themselves, without the participation of others.

A mother should know that her responsibility is to raise her children. She is married, and you have completed your task. There is no need to help her son solve the problem.

Think about it or watch it hurt. After all, you are outside the relationship between husband and wife, so don't leave regrets just because you participated. Because there is no harm to your son, your participation will only add fuel to the fire.

If your son is hurt, you don't need it, because what happened between them has nothing to do with you, and you are not fit to participate. Maybe if you don't stop fighting, you will be resented, and you will be regarded as the culprit affecting their feelings. Your participation will only be a thankless thing.

Some books advise you to play dumb and try to protect yourself. Since ancient times, "husband and wife quarrel without holding grudges", and after they "quarrel at the head of the bed and quarrel at the end of the bed", you may be the last person to be seen.

If you can still calm down your anger and say "impulse is the devil", then don't go to the front. Anger hurts the liver, I can't help it!

Decide whether to protect your son or your son's home.

If you just want to protect your son, then I have nothing to say. If you want to protect your son's home, I hope you can give him a chance to grow up and let him deal with his own problems. He knows how to keep his home.

A son must learn to deal with problems.

You can't always protect him like an old hen protects a chick. In this way, he can't protect his home, but he will never grow up under your protection.

As a mother, you should know how to let go. There is nothing wrong with taking this opportunity to let your son solve problems and exercise himself. If you really need to solve the problem by law, please ask professionals to do professional things, and don't intervene if you don't understand.

He is an adult, he will protect his home, and you don't have to be a protector anymore.

After all, he also has a family and needs to support his own family. You need to care for your lover and children, hold up a sky for them, and be a responsible person in order to be upright and do things seriously.

It's true that you care about protecting your son, but as the saying goes, "treat your son like a child." Children are spoiled from childhood, which is harmful to them! Your overprotection of adult children will also become unprincipled protection.

Therefore, please pay attention to the independent needs of children and let them solve problems independently.

You should believe that he can handle the specific affairs of his small family and assume the responsibility of protecting his family and himself. Only in this way can he gain a foothold in society.

Believe in family and talent.

Couples pay attention to complementarity and mutual benefit. One person is weak, and the other person is strong. Your son doesn't need to protect him, and it's no use if he doesn't.

In a family, as long as one party is strong and the other party is willing to accept the reality for their own home, it can be regarded as a positive mode of getting along. Only in this way can family life be richer and happier.

If the other party is strong and weak, if you try to be brave and don't want to listen to the other party, you won't live a good life. As a mother, she knows her son best. If he is weak, he can only live a good life with his wife.

Your son is married. You don't need to protect him. Even if he needs protection, his daughter-in-law will protect him. Just take care of yourself and don't let your son worry about you.

You can safely leave it to your daughter-in-law. Don't help your son stand up. If you don't stand up, your son may have a good life.

My son is really bullied. He doesn't need your help.

Maybe your son was really bullied by his wife. I don't think you need to get involved. If you cause physical or mental harm, you can give spiritual support and let your son solve it through legal channels.

To say the least, if you think your son is weak, he can also use legal weapons to protect himself.

If your son can solve the problem by himself, you don't have to solve it. Your appearance will only disgrace your son and make him look down on his daughter-in-law. Do you think you didn't help, or did you help well?

Let the son solve the problem by himself. If you have to come forward to solve the problem, with all due respect, your son may be regarded as an incompetent "mother-in-law".

Now, you can decide for yourself whether to attend or not.

I also want to talk about Sun Yang's mother. After receiving court of arbitration for sports's ruling that Sun Yang was banned for eight years, Sun Yang's mother issued a long complaint at the first time. Sleepless all night, helpless and helpless, my son's swimming pool struggle for more than 20 years was stifled by power and lies. ?

As Sun Yang's mother and agent, she tried her best to explain, bear and defend Sun Yang, but all her efforts came into play? To no avail? The role of.

In court, the public prosecutor has limited time to ask questions, and I hope the witness can give a concise answer. However, Sun Yang's mother has been reviewing the details and process of the urine test as much as possible, constantly emphasizing Sun Yang's achievements and efforts, so that she was interrupted again and again by the prosecutor, and her testimony lost credibility.

This is no accident. In an interview, Sun Yang was also asked:? Do I have to find my mother to find a girlfriend? ? Before Sun Yang could answer, Sun Yang's mother said? Of course, this must be discussed. Sun Yang will discuss everything with me. ?

At this time, Sun Yang himself followed his fucking words? I will discuss everything with my mother. ? It can be seen that his dependence on his mother is also very deep.

The mother who tried to bear everything, from now on? Ruin your son's future? Label. Sun always sees his mother in his daily training, interviews and endorsements, but he rarely has the opportunity to deal with the outside world.

Sun Yang has been tied to her mother since she was a child. On one occasion, the leader refused to let him play with his mother, and Sun Yang replied? I won't practice until you let my mother go. ?

Because his mother has done everything for him, every time Sun Yang has a problem to solve, he is too emotional to face it alone and handle it calmly.

Like a wayward child, I always feel that it is someone else's fault, and I have lost the opportunity and trust to properly handle the problem.

You are just a mother, and you are eager to protect your son, which is understandable. However, if you insist on interfering in other people's internal affairs, you are invading forcefully. Even if you support your son, your position is wrong.

You Shujun thinks that as a mother, there will always be an endless heart, but you should also know that you can live comfortably by worrying more and worrying less. Otherwise, if you worry about him and don't worry about him, you will be in vain and can't really help him solve his family problems.

Having said that, I hope I can help you. If you think what Shu Jun said is reasonable, please don't worry about your son's family affairs. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. Leave the children alone and mind your own business.