What's the regret of not having children?

If I don't have children all my life, I may feel a little sorry about it! Of course, it's not the price. It's just that I've never had children in my life. I think it may be a little regrettable.

1, old age regret.

First of all, the happiness of people is not given by children. However, when they are really old and live a life full of children and grandchildren, that kind of happiness is irreplaceable by anything in the world.

When people get old, their needs and perceptions of happiness are different from those when they were young.

Even if children and grandchildren don't turn around you every day, the whole family can get together and have fun on holidays. From time to time, there were bursts of laughter and laughter, and it was really satisfying to look at the innocence of grandchildren around me.

At that moment, you will feel that you are the happiest person in the world and have no regrets in this life.

On the other hand, if you don't have children for a lifetime, even if the husband and wife are harmonious in their later years, the days will be relatively deserted. Maybe you don't feel anything, but you will be a little envious and yearning to see your neighbors get together.

2. The joy of raising children.

Giving birth to a child is really going to the gate of hell. Raising a child is really tiring, and it may even make you less beautiful and out of shape.

But you have to know that there are sacrifices and losses, and there will be gains and gains.

It is because of such efforts that I can also enjoy the sweetness, happiness and laughter that children bring to adults. Watching the children grow up day by day, I am both lost and gratified, sad and excited. Especially when children are three or four years old, a casual action can make you laugh in one sentence.

Similarly, nothing in the world can replace the happiness that children bring you when you are young.

Moreover, the arrival of a child will make the whole family more cohesive, so there are many moments when I feel no matter how hard, happy, real and precious happiness I have in the process of raising.

Since then, there have been more worries.

After having children, I have a special liking for you ever since. From then on, you will have concerns, and your life will be enriched by bringing a child. Because of children, you will become a better person, and children will become better people because of you.

Being loved is happy, but the happiness of true love is obtained in the process of loving others.

The happiness of taking, harvesting and being loved is far less precious than what you get in the process of paying, sacrificing and dedicating for love. Some feelings can't be described in words, but there is no language to describe them.

That concern can be a person's best belief and a person's eternal belief.

These are the three regrets summed up. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to persuade you to change you

You have the right to choose your favorite life, and no one has the right to interfere. I only hope that your choice is not blind, or just a temporary idea, which leads to irreparable things in your life.

In fact, we should all know that in the matter of having children, it is not that we choose children, but that children choose us.

So when we really decide to have children, we should be grateful to the children for choosing us, instead of feeling that the children owe us.

Seriously, if you don't think it over, or you can't afford this responsibility, don't rush to have children even if you want them, and don't be an irresponsible person.

Sometimes, because you are selfish or irresponsible, it is your child's life that is ruined.