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3 to 4 familiar friends meeting for dinner? When settling the bill after a meal, is it better to have an AA or a personal treat?

Hello friend, your problem is also a problem that many people will encounter, aa! I'm afraid of developing feelings between friends; if it's a treat by one person, and some people are not very conscious, if you treat me this time, they will ask you to treat me the next time. In this way, in the long run, there will be a gap between friends, because No one is always willing to treat you to dinner.

I usually like fishing, so I made three or five friends while fishing. One of these friends is a boss who usually spends money lavishly, another one works for the government and has his own regular restaurant expenses, and the remaining few are ordinary workers.

The first time I was invited to dinner by the boss, I went to a very high-end restaurant here and drank Wuliangye. This meal cost four to five thousand, which is equivalent to one of us ordinary office workers. Many months’ salary. The second time was for a government employee to treat me to a meal at a restaurant he often frequented. This meal was definitely expensive. But we are always embarrassed to ask others to treat us! You have to invite someone back once.

That time we were fishing together, and we working class people agreed that each of us would pay $1,000 to have a meal together. After fishing, I said to them: "Let's go have a drink together." At this time, the rich fishing friend said: "Where to eat?" I said: "How about we go to the restaurant where you ate? ?" He said, "I'm tired of eating that all day long. I know there's a good donkey meat restaurant nearby. Let's go there to eat!" At this time, he said to the fishing friend from the government, "Brother Li. How about eating donkey meat?" Lao Li said, "Okay! There is dragon meat in the sky and donkey meat on the ground, but we have to eat what is killed today." With that, we set off to the donkey meat restaurant. . This meal costs about five hundred yuan. From then on, we almost always ate at this donkey meat restaurant. The consumption was not high, and my brothers took turns to treat us, so everyone could afford it.

Since everyone is already familiar with it, there is no need to put on a show just to have a meal. As long as the food is clean and casual, it's fine. You invite me this time, and he invites you next time. Friends talk to each other about what's on their mind and drink some wine. This is also the most pleasant thing in life.

In addition to attending large-scale student gatherings, I have also attended AA meetings. I have invited classmates, colleagues, and comrades to dinner at most for more than 20 people, and I have never done so. Especially when three or four friends meet, if they have a good meal, their relationship will also be good.

A colleague of mine invited her to dinner with a classmate whom I hadn’t seen for a long time. She showed up, and there were 7 people in one party, and the cost was 180. After the meal, the classmate who treated her said AA, and everyone felt unhappy.

If you say AA before the meal and AA after the meal, it’s not a matter of money but an errand.

In fact, when a few friends go out to travel together, it is best to practice AA. It’s not enough for one person to manage the money. My daughter's three best friends never eat too much. A dozen or so of my colleagues gathered at AA.

In addition to large-scale AA gatherings, more than 20 of my high school classmates gathered together to ask for AA. A few of my classmates refused to entertain me, so I spent 200 a head to buy fruits and melon seeds.

Small gatherings are all about bonding, and we don’t invite people every day. I think it's best to ask personally. Our colleagues and friends all take turns to invite us once a year, and classmates invite us at will, and we reciprocate politely.

Every March 8th Festival, a classmate from the countryside asks us to send five of our children to her house to celebrate the March 8th Festival...

It depends on different situations, whether there is a host, this is very important, isn't it? It depends on whether you are familiar with it or not, who owns the territory, and who pays for whose territory, it doesn’t matter. I do this myself. I have 13 junior high school classmates, 11 boys and 2 girls. I have a fund. We eat and drink and send favors. Otherwise, we don’t know about some happy events for fear of forgetting to give them. No matter whether the money is used or not, we just contribute money every year. , it seems that there is a balance of 60,000 to 70,000 yuan, and if more than 7 people eat, they will be reimbursed. There are only five who played well in high school. Although they are all in the same city, they are all in different towns. Whoever pays if it costs more than a thousand, it is aa more. There are only five or six universities, so there are not many of them. Whoever wants to pay can pay, and it basically takes turns.

There are also four children from the same village who come to Shenzhen. There are many gatherings, such as the Lantern Festival, Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, etc. When people from the same village come, all the entertainment expenses are aa. We usually have late night snacks and dinner at random. , whoever calls for it pays. You must ask aa for people who are too polite, otherwise they will always pay. You must ask aa for people who are rude, and they will not even pay. In fact, when we get together too many, people of similar temperament are getting closer. After all, after dating for more than ten or twenty years, we all know the basics. There is not much difference between being aa or not. We aa are afraid that if we have a few friends who are good at it, if you don’t aa Basically, he will always invite, oh, by the way, we are only for food and fun, the extra wine brought by friends will not be counted. One does not know the value, one has different wine preferences, and the other has fingers after all, party. Try to operate according to the lowest standard, bring drinks to take care of your own hobbies and not increase the burden on others.

If you want to eat in Aa mode, you must explain it in advance. If there is no explanation in advance, it is best not to choose Aa mode.

The best choice is whoever initiated the party will pay the bill, but since they are familiar friends, it doesn’t matter who pays the bill.

When friends eat together, it is normal for you to treat them today and me to treat them tomorrow. It is best not to choose the Aa system!

I also often have dinner together with my friends. There are only three or four friends I know well, and we all have families and families. Many of them have to help their children with their homework every day, so from Monday to Sunday We usually don’t have dinner together between Thursday and Saturday, but we always choose a day to have dinner together on Friday and Saturday, almost every week.

Every weekend when three or four of our friends gather for dinner, if a good restaurant is recommended, we will go to this restaurant together. After the meal, there is always one person who pays, and this person is often the initiator of the party. . Then at the dinner party next week, the next friend will pay the bill. If nothing else happens, we always pay with one friend at the dinner party every week. We only have three or four friends who we often hang out with. It only takes a month to live in the circle. Half of our friends are working people. We get together once a month and have a guest. Everyone can afford it. Although we don’t use the Aa system every time, the money everyone spends on gatherings every week is basically relatively close.

The night before yesterday, friends had a small gathering (6 people). Prince Duan had guests before, Zhao Sese had guests before, and Landlord Zhao also had guests, so last night, I paid the bill when my friends got together. We went to Sanjiang Wild Fish. We purchased a group meal for four to six people for 148 yuan, and added a few more vegetables for 62 yuan. The liquor in the hotel was not what our friends often drank, so I went to the supermarket in front of the hotel and bought four bottles. Beidacang, 19.8 yuan per bottle, ***79.2 yuan. At the end of the meal, a friend wanted to eat dumplings, but there were none in the restaurant, so I went to the dumpling city opposite and bought two dumplings to pack back. Two dumplings were 30 yuan. After all the expenses were calculated, the meal cost 320 yuan, six The personal cost is 320 yuan, including liquor, which is not much!

Friends who are familiar with each other will get together from time to time. Many times, an impromptu phone call will lead to a party in the evening, and this party is usually three to four people.

A gathering of two among friends seems a bit lonely, and a gathering of five or six seems a bit too crowded. My favorite is a gathering of three or four among friends.

Gatherings of three or four people among friends are usually the best friends who have been together for many years and have fun together. Dining with the best friends is actually the same (not suitable for Aa system), often Best friends who play together are also very understanding. It is not appropriate for only one person to treat. Taking turns to be the host and treat is the favorite method of treating guests among good friends!

When three or four of us get together as good friends, our favorite method is to take turns hosting and treating guests. We never choose the Aa system!

First of all, look at who is the initiator. If someone else owns your place, as the host, it is understandable for you to show your kindness as a landlord. If you just meet casually and have a meal together, I think it is still AA. Good point, I’m not stingy. As the saying goes, brothers settle accounts and each has his own family. The basic reason for long-term friends is that they don’t owe each other money. Although you don’t spend much money on meals, don’t let the other person feel that you like to take advantage of others. It’s not good

For this problem, I think it’s better to pay the bill individually. There is no need for aa because we are all familiar friends. Besides, it’s not your treat every day. If you pay personally today, others will grab it next time. You have to pay for it, after all, not Westerners can figure everything out so clearly, right? [Smile]

If 3 to 4 people eat, they can eat whatever they want, even if it is a personal treat, it is affordable. The specific method and degree of relationship are related to common habits.

Generally speaking, there are several situations of paying the bill: 1. The organizer pays the bill, and whoever initiates the dinner party proposal should take the initiative to pay the bill. 2. The owner pays the bill. Whoever lives in his or her home or unit or nearby is considered the owner, and will generally pay the bill as a landlord. 3. Those with good conditions or high status pay the bill. People who think they have better conditions often rush to pay. 4. The AA system pays the bill. If some of you have been AA before, then it is logical to continue AA this time. When checking out, calculate everyone's share. But generally the organizer should advance the payment first, and other people should take the initiative to propose the AA system. If someone does not respond positively, then the organizer should consciously pay the bill.

A few familiar friends met for a meal, and you actually thought of the AA system. Such stingy people are really rare in the world!

My personal suggestion is to go with AA. Some friends will say that this seems too unfamiliar, but if not, there will be many problems later, such as, why is it always me who treats guests, and there are so many This time, so-and-so has never spent money. My personal opinion is for reference. Thank you

It must be a personal treat? 3 to 4 very familiar friends!