Man is a paradox.

1. People themselves are contradictory. Nietzsche said that man himself is the unity of contradictions, and no one can get rid of them.

But from the perspective of life, everyone wants to be young forever, so everyone tries their best to delay aging. In order to prolong their youth, many actors in Hong Kong and Taiwan spend tens of millions of yuan to inject sheep placenta abroad every year. It is said that a high-grade sheep placenta extract can delay aging for ten years. It is understandable that those actors spend a lot of money on beauty in order to keep their looks and be liked and appreciated by the audience for a long time. To tell the truth, I also hope that all the good things will last for a long time and will not change, but that is just an illusion and an ideal.

On the other hand, if a person is really not old and can live a long life, is he really happy? Society is a contradictory unity, no matter the unit and family, no matter colleagues and family, no matter friends or passers-by, there are contradictions anytime and anywhere. Contradictions may lead to unhappiness, even if you are open-minded, your heart may be hurt. That is the reality. If everyone is not old, living in such a contradictory unity for a long time, resisting and enduring all kinds of intentional and unintentional accusations, criticisms and attacks, will such people be happy? I don't think it's happiness, maybe it's a hell on earth.

Ba Jin was hospitalized for a long time in his later years, struggling with the disease. Struggle is a nice word. In order to show the tenacity of the elderly, in fact, the elderly suffer from illness every day and struggle under the pain of acupuncture every day. Ba Jin had hoped to get rid of his illness and get spiritual liberation as soon as possible.

Nevertheless, we should not stop living just because we live in a contradictory unity, but commit suicide like some people. Doing that is an extremely irresponsible attitude: irresponsible to yourself, your family, your friends around you, and even your enemies. Because his existence must be the spiritual comfort of relatives and friends, and his existence must also be the spiritual support of the enemy's struggle. Because of his existence, the whole world becomes a whole, a contradictory unity and complements each other.

The best way for a person should be that with the passage of time, cells will age, exist naturally and die naturally; Naturally handle contradictions and solve them; Treat diseases naturally and taste the philosophical and spiritual connotation of diseases. Just like a tree in the wilderness, from childhood to towering, from lush foliage to withered leaves, from resisting the intrusion of winter wind to letting the autumn wind sweep away, it finally collapsed, just like the once brilliant Yushan, which became a landscape of life.

How natural, desolate, soothing and poetic it is!

2. Why are people contradictory? People always have desires and are born with them. As long as you have something you want, you must abandon it again. Always behave differently in front of different people, so as to make yourself more perfect in the eyes of others. Seemingly contradictory, it is actually not a contradiction, but an instinct after assimilation.

Life is a contradiction. Seven pieces of advice to understand life and life are as follows: a broken arrow is an arrow; If it's tough, if it's sharp, if it's a hundred paces, if it's a hundred shots, it will be honed, and only you can save it. Seven pieces of advice for life 2: the value of life. The value of life lies not in what we do or the people we associate with, but in ourselves! We are unique-never forget this! Seven pieces of advice for life: It's beautiful to hold your head high. Whether you are rich or poor, whether you look like a fairy or plain, as long as you hold your head high, happiness will make you cute-the kind that everyone likes. Seven suggestions for life: draw a leaf for life. Life can be without many things, but it can't be without hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless! Seven Advice of Life Five: Flying Spiders Spiders can't fly, but they can make webs in mid-air. It is a diligent, sensitive, silent and tenacious insect, and its net is exquisite and regular, with Zhang Kaicheng gossip shape, as if with the help of God. Such an achievement reminds people of those who are taciturn and some hidden wise men. Then, I remembered that a spider can't fly, but it still weaves a web in the air. Miracles are caused by persistent people. Seven Advice in Life: Shadow is a paper dragon. Destiny has always been hidden in our minds. Many people can't walk out of the shadow at different stages of life, big or small, not because their natural personal conditions are much worse than others, but because they have no thought to bite the shadow paper dragon and have no patience to find a direction slowly and move forward step by step until a new hole appears in front of them. Seven pieces of advice for life: success is actually not difficult, and it is not necessarily related to "working hard and starving your body and skin", "lighting in the middle of the night" and "hanging a beam on your head and stabbing your thigh". As long as you are interested in a certain cause, you will succeed if you persist for a long time, because God has given you enough time and wisdom to successfully complete a thing.