Boyfriends are narrow-minded and care about how to treat such boyfriends correctly.

What is a narrow-minded boyfriend like?

In the face of narrow-minded boyfriends, many girls feel very hooligan. Why didn't I find him like this? How can I like such a person? In fact, the exposure of shortcomings is constantly enlarged as the distance approaches, and the advantages you thought at first may become the shortcomings of today. For example, if you care too much about you, you can also be narrow-minded now. It is normal for a man in love to be narrow-minded. Everyone is selfish and wants his girlfriend to be nice to him alone. Of course, there will be boys who are selfish and caring, which will make them get along more tired, because not only emotionally, but also big and small things in life are caring, like a grown-up child. Such a really narrow-minded and caring man is the one you need to think carefully and make a choice.

A narrow-minded boy is like sand in his hand. The tighter you hold on, the more you lose. Like sand, narrow-minded boys are more cautious. The tighter you hold, the more sand will fall. Once there is an argument, it seems that it is not his fault. He always shows an impeccable appearance and puts all the responsibility on you. Once something goes wrong, I will always blame you. He wants to know everything about you, no matter how small, as long as it's all about you. Be careful, this may not be a sign of love. Protect your privacy. He always helps you make decisions, from what to choose when ordering, to how to plan your career and where to spend your holiday. He began to help you make any decision. I'm too haggle over every ounce, arguing with you for a long time over a trifle. He always likes to guess what others think and is skeptical of everyone. Many times, he won't trust others except himself.

Narrow-minded men always lack sunshine, sincerity and frankness, and more are cunning. Narrow-minded people are always too selfish. Such a man seldom puts himself in others' shoes, only sees his own interests and doesn't care about others' interests. In his mind, his own interests are above everything else, and even if his own interests are met, he rarely takes into account the interests of others. Having said so many shortcomings of narrow-minded men, let's talk about how to treat such men correctly.

How to treat narrow-minded boyfriends correctly?

Men's narrow-mindedness is different from that of women. Women are on the surface, men are in the bones.

Think about it. Men accuse women of being narrow-minded, which is nothing more than suspicion, haggling over every ounce, stalking and beating. In the final analysis, most of them are trivial things, which makes people a little annoyed at most. But men's narrow-mindedness and scheming in officialdom, love and family will make people afraid. For example, many years ago, I read such news in the newspaper: when a man is in love, he keeps everything he gives to a woman in the account, and when he breaks up, it is counted in the general ledger; For example, when dealing with women's occasional infidelity or sexual assault, men's insanity can't be described with great care compared with the tolerance and humiliation of most women.

From a fair standpoint, don't blame men like men blame women.

Different from the world of men and women, men live harder and harder than women. Whether broad-minded or narrow-minded, fighting with wits and courage is a way for men to survive in this society and a thinking mode rooted in their bones. From the country to family life, they will use their spiritual eyes in all applicable places. In big places, this is called foresight and politics; Small places are called strategies, and their performances vary widely. You have to wear a beautiful hat with dignity.

Men are not as aboveboard and clear-cut as they seem.

There are no generous people in the world. Those generous men are just a tactic. So I never believe the old saying that "a prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach". In ancient times, of course, there were many men who could punt in his belly. In fact, the inner choice of "detouring" and "suffering from loss" is just a tactic to paralyze the other side or gain greater benefits. To put it mildly, it means foresight; to put it mildly, it means narrowness. I never believe such modern nonsense as "men are afraid of their wives" and "good men don't fight with women" When a man easily says that he is afraid of his wife, his bones reveal a kind of pride that everything is under control, and there is a narrow mind hidden in pride; When a man prevaricates with "a good man doesn't fight with a woman", on the one hand, it shows his extreme contempt, on the other hand, it also shows his lack of confidence. In fact, he is very narrow-minded, far more insidious and "petty" than women.

Compared with men, women look silly.

Their narrow-mindedness is just a coquetry for men, not what they really want. It's like playing a little game within your control, just to test how far a man can maintain a relationship with himself. So they are often entangled in some annoying trifles, bored, accused, and finally lose the power to control the game.

A few years ago, there was a very popular book called "Women are from Mars and Men are from Venus", which mainly said that men and women are basically two kinds of planets. Not only the physiological structure is different, but also the thinking structure is different. On the issue of narrow-mindedness, men and women have different positions because of different thinking. Men have no need or right to blame and complain about it. Just like most women know that men are narrow-minded, but they can cherish not to say it. Men learn to do the same. That's very generous.