How to tell whether a woman has high emotional intelligence while eating?

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In the emotional world, people often use the term emotional intelligence to measure a person's understanding of emotions and his or her ability to control and regulate one's emotions.

The most important thing is to reflect a person's ability to feel, understand, use, express, control and regulate his or her emotions, as well as his or her ability to handle emotional relationships with the opposite sex.

Some people may ask? Emotional intelligence is used to measure relationships. Can we judge each other's emotional intelligence only by experiencing a relationship? ?

In fact, it is not difficult to judge a woman's emotional intelligence. You only need to have a meal together to see it.

As people say, details are everything. Table manners and other details are the easiest way to see a person clearly.

For example, the behavior when ordering food, coupled with the tone and attitude of talking to the waiter, can show a woman's character;

The posture and words and deeds while eating can be seen It can be seen how much self-cultivation a woman has;

The attitude towards people in a public place like a restaurant can tell how big a woman is.

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If a woman only cares about her own taste when ordering food and does not consider the tastes of others, it may mean that her emotional intelligence is not very high.

On the contrary, a woman who spends all her energy on greeting others will have a high emotional intelligence.

Because people with high emotional intelligence pay great attention to etiquette when dining with others.

And when talking to the waiter, his attitude will become more tactful, for fear of ruining his friendly image in front of everyone.

Perhaps there is a typical example like Aman around you. He just has a bad personality and temper, and he is also famous for being careless.

But on some more important occasions, her whole personality seems to change, and she can take care of almost everyone at the table.

For example, when someone else gives her the task of ordering food for a meal, her careful ordering can satisfy everyone.

Not only that, even if the waiter serves the food very slowly, she can also put away her short temper in daily life.

It is indeed good to have your own way of doing things and not easily affected by external factors. However, sometimes being too independent may lead to criticism from many people.

It is precisely because women with high emotional intelligence understand this truth that they will do their best to control their emotions when eating with others.

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When I went to eat hot pot with my friends some time ago, there was a girl at the next table who was very careless about her words and deeds.

From the moment she entered the store, she spoke loudly, breaking the otherwise quiet environment.

After ordering the pot base and favorite dishes, she found a seat and before sitting down, she was chatting and laughing with her friends in her loud voice.

Her voice was too loud and unique, which attracted a lot of attention. Her friends also noticed it and gave her hints to keep her voice down. She also accepted the tips from her companions.

It seems that a person's cultivation is a foregone conclusion, and it seems that it can't be sustained for long.

This girl still talked and laughed loudly while eating, and it was difficult for her to restrain herself even though her friends reminded her many times.

Of course, in terms of personality, this girl has a relatively good personality. She did not lose her temper because of repeated reminders from her friends.

But in terms of self-cultivation, she is still a little behind, because she ignores that this is a public occasion, and her words and deeds will easily affect the people around her.

Even if women with high emotional intelligence also have this kind of personality, they will control themselves appropriately.

Especially in public occasions like restaurants, they will consciously become a well-educated woman who knows table manners.