Does a husband give his wife pocket money? —— On the status of women

Since 1889, Clara Tsetkin made the first appeal for women's equal rights at the second international founding conference, the pent-up feelings of women all over the world have been aroused. During the development of 100 years, women have made various efforts and attempts to fight for their due rights and freedoms. Although there are sometimes extreme demands and behaviors, women's great attempts and unremitting efforts for gender equality are commendable. You know, unfair treatment of women for thousands of years is like freezing three feet, which can't be melted without strong heat flow. A few days ago, I saw Committee member Zhang put forward a proposal that "husbands pay their wives housework wages", which attracted various voices. After reading it, I also had the idea of not spitting. Whether it's good or not, I want to talk about targeted issues first. I women in rural areas. As we all know, rural development is slow and backward, and the idea that men are superior to women has not improved much even now. In rural areas, women, like men, have to work in the fields and do many jobs that men don't want to do, such as cooking, washing clothes, doing housework, taking care of children and the elderly, feeding animals and so on. And all this is taken for granted, not many men will be grateful and distressed for their wives. Most of the financial power in the family is in the hands of men, and women can pay as much as they want, and they have to explain detailed accounts. Therefore, in rural areas, this proposal is valuable. Second, the urban population before the 1980s. Although China has developed rapidly in recent years, the foundation of feudal thought is still very solid. Even in developed cities like Hong Kong and Taiwan, the ideas are surprisingly consistent. Most men over the age of 30 still take it for granted that women do housework and feel that housework is simple and not tiring. Therefore, when a woman is busy keeping her house in order all day, she either ignores it or enjoys it with a clear conscience. Most women in the city have their own jobs. They have to work eight hours a day like men and try to keep their jobs. Work pressure is not without it. But at home, men can sit on the sofa and read newspapers, and women have to go to the kitchen to cook. If they are slow, they will even complain. Occasionally, men are willing to help women, and women should be grateful. If men earn more money and women do less housework or do badly, they will attract supercilious look and blame, and they may be eliminated. If a woman earns a lot and doesn't care about housework, she will also be accused of being too busy to care about her family, unlike a woman. Of course, there are still some men who take the initiative to share housework and take care of children because their wives are of high quality and understanding. But because the proportion is too small, it can be ignored. Some people say that now that women are liberated, it will be heaven to improve their status. But let's look at this ratio: there are more than 800 million people in rural areas, and there are about nine out of ten families, and women are treated unfairly; Before 1980s, women in at least 60% of the urban population were treated unfairly. It's just that after 90, people who are not in the countryside may not be in this range. In the face of such a huge crowd, what right do we have to say that this is unnecessary? Some people say that this proposal will lead to family discord, which further shows that women are not valued by their husbands at home. Think about it, even giving his wife a little pocket money every month will make her husband so uncomfortable and dissatisfied, which shows that such a husband doesn't take his wife seriously at all, and he still talks about marital feelings. Since there are not many marriages, we can only rely on the law. Laws are targeted, and most of them are not targeted at everyone. As long as there is such a small group that needs our attention, we must actively strive for fairness and rights for them. If we don't fight for it, at least we don't object or hinder it. Let this group get help and support when they are hurt, and there are laws to follow. There will be no more scenes of "calling every day is invalid, and the ground does not respond when calling". Of course, if legislation is really enacted, it should be considered comprehensively, so as not to let such a civil bill get cold. March 8 is coming, and I am happy for this festival. As women, we should be self-reliant. At the same time, we should give full play to our own advantages and strive for what we are good at, so that our talents and advantages can be recognized by the society. Men do housework worse than women, and women's beauty is as valuable as men's beauty at work. If men and women work the same, of course, this extra work should be shared with each other. Men have good physical strength, and sharing more is what men should do. After a woman gets married, there are so many things outside of work for no reason. All she can get is her husband's love and security. When a man gets married, he not only has a job, but also has a job. He also hired a housekeeper, a cleaner, a cook, a nanny and a wet nurse. Can it get rich? Do you have any reason not to be grateful? Why not give his wife some pocket money every month to get recognition and reward for her work? Moreover, the money was not given to outsiders. As for being so angry, is it unfair? It's just an extra layer of legal basis. Each of us should learn to be grateful. Don't take everything for granted and be grateful. Women are the main creators of this society. Don't look down on her just because the people and family environment she created can't directly bring money. The world without them is unimaginable. Women's respect for men has a long history, while men's respect for women is difficult. Only when men and women respect each other can families be happy and society be harmonious.