Why doesn’t my husband like his wife wearing makeup?

I have a deep understanding of this issue [laughing and crying][laughing and crying]

My husband doesn’t like me wearing makeup. [Hold face][Hold face]

First, my husband always says that there are a lot of chemical ingredients in cosmetics. No matter how expensive or good the cosmetics are, there will be chemical ingredients in them. Now that I am still young, I will look very good when I put on makeup. It looks good, but when it gets older and the chemical reaction begins, it will become even worse.

Second, every time I go out, my husband always says it is a waste of time. It takes so long to wait for me to put on makeup. Someone as impatient as my husband is very impatient.

Third, my husband said it was a waste of money. He always said it would be better to spend it on the children or family expenses.

Do you have a husband with the same style? [laughing and crying][laughing and crying]

I am afraid that men passing by will turn around, I am afraid that I will feel insecure if I am too beautiful, and after all, I am afraid that my wife will wear makeup. Men lack self-confidence in front of their wives.

Why doesn’t my husband like his hairdresser wearing makeup? This question is interesting: everyone loves beauty. Could it be that my husband is a bit of a heretic? Obviously this possibility is unlikely. A woman likes her appearance, and her husband should also know this.

What's going on? It should be that the husband has no confidence in himself or his wife, and is afraid that someone will seduce his wife if she puts on makeup to look beautiful. He is even more afraid that his wife will leave him. This is indeed the case in real life. If a woman never likes to dress up, but one day she suddenly likes to dress up, then this woman is either in love or cheating.

Married women, please remember: It’s not that your husband doesn’t like his wife dressing up, he just doesn’t like dressing up too outrageously, because he’s afraid that you’ll turn heads too much on the road.

Everyone has a love for beauty. Does your husband really not like you wearing makeup? I don’t think so! It can only be said that you have not understood your husband's inner world at all, and you have not convinced him of your makeup skills and methods. As someone who has experienced it, I will talk about this issue you raised from a man's perspective.

Before the 1980s, for most ordinary women, the concept of makeup was not nearly as strong as it is now. Limited by the social environment, living conditions, ideological concepts and other factors at that time, makeup could only be used when a woman got married. The only extravagant hope! With the further development of reform and opening up, women began to pay more attention to makeup. "Falling pants, high heels, and a head as white as anise" became the fashion trend for women in that era to pursue beauty, and it also became a pleasing symbol for men.

Although on the surface, they don’t like their wives to wear makeup, in fact, they always long to meet beautiful and fashionable women on the street, and hope that their wives can also dress beautifully. Beautiful and bright. How many men in the world don’t want their women to be beautiful? I'm afraid not. The husband doesn't like his wife wearing makeup because he is worried that his wife will have an affair one day, or that he is afraid that his wife will run away with another man. This is a typical subconscious expression of distrust and worry about his wife.

The hero is saddened by the beauty. Since ancient times, he has been full of passion and hatred. Husbands who don’t like their wives wearing makeup are probably because they don’t have confidence in themselves. Most of this confidence comes from their earning power and personality charm. Facing various successful men in society, they often show inferiority and negativity. They hope that they can be like other people. Like successful men, they have outstanding abilities and strong finances, so that their wives love them wholeheartedly and have no regrets. However, due to various reasons, their careers have been frustrated or even failed again and again. Therefore, they lack firm belief and will win. Will and proper domineering.

As the saying goes: 30% looks, 70% dressing. If a husband doesn't like his wife wearing makeup, does he like his wife to be unkempt and unkempt every day? The husband just feels that if his wife is too beautifully dressed, her neighbors, relatives, and friends will gossip, making other men envious and jealous, and one day attracting wolves into the house. On the other hand, such husbands have very outdated ideas. When we admire the beauty of women outside, it is difficult to understand that our own women should also have the right to pursue beauty.

To sum up, I think the husband should correct his bad mentality, never be too petty, and magnanimously give his wife the right and space to pursue beauty. In this way, not only can he feel better Without affecting your career, you can also enjoy the aesthetic happiness brought by your wife's beautiful appearance! As for my wife, if you want your husband to like you wearing makeup, you must find out why your husband doesn’t like your makeup, and then untie this knot in your husband’s heart, so that your makeup will stop your husband from having a crush on other women who like makeup. Let your beauty retain your husband's distant heart.

Why doesn’t my husband like his wife wearing makeup?

I think there are three situations where I don’t like my wife wearing makeup. First, your husband is concerned about money. Women spend a lot of money on makeup, but your husband is a very good person. The second is that you are very beautiful with make-up, and you are afraid that others will look at your beauty and be lustful, which makes you feel unsafe. The third is that it is not suitable for your type of work. Therefore, the husband does not like his wife to wear makeup.

1. First of all, my husband doesn’t like to wear makeup because he cares about you and is afraid that others will abduct you if you are too beautiful.

2. Women love beauty by nature. Everyone wants to dress themselves up beautifully. I also want to put on makeup, but I can’t put it on and I have never done it. I think natural beauty is the real beauty. !

3. My husband also doesn’t like me wearing makeup. He said that if you wear makeup every day, it would be scary to see you without makeup one day. You should be true to yourself. Just keep it simple!

Everyone loves beauty

Why can’t some boys accept makeup? As a boy, let me analyze it for you. The reasons are as follows

1. Poor makeup skills

It is everyone’s nature to like beautiful things. Boys like to look at beautiful women, and girls like to look at handsome guys. In fact, wearing makeup means that you are not satisfied with your current appearance. You want to use makeup to make your appearance, which is only 50-60 points, into 70-80 points. In this way, which boy would not like his girlfriend to become more beautiful, and they will have more face when going out together. , by the way, who doesn’t want his girlfriend to be as beautiful as a fairy?

However, if you put on makeup, it will deduct points instead of increasing your points. Boys will definitely not be happy about it, so the questioner can reflect on whether he looks better after putting on makeup than before, or if you put on makeup. The makeup is not in line with your boyfriend's aesthetics, such as heavy makeup, foundation that looks like a monkey's butt, etc.

2. Traditional thinking

It is also inevitable that some boys have more traditional ideas and do not like girls wearing makeup. They feel that the difference between girls wearing makeup and without makeup is too big, and they feel that they are being criticized. Cheating, if you like girls to be clean, like your dad [laughing and crying] then the questioner can put on light makeup.

3. Heartache

"Heartache" Many people may be curious about what causes pain. This boy likes you very much. He may understand that makeup is harmful to girls' skin, so he doesn't want you to wear makeup. Also, male compatriots are worried about their wallets. Cosmetics are expensive. For him, his girlfriend puts on makeup just for others to see. He is also afraid that if his wife puts on makeup too well, he will be jealous and threatened.

My wife is not there to show off to others, but to live a good life with you. When my husband and I were talking about boyfriend and girlfriend, I often put on make-up, and even if it was very thick, my husband wouldn’t mind too much. Once you get married, there’s no need to dress up and put on heavy make-up to attract other people’s attention. Every time my husband attends a gathering of friends. , if I have time, my husband will take me there; I will ask her if she wants to put on makeup, and he will say no need to put on makeup, and just ask me to dress neatly and cleanly. The most I can do is simply apply eyeshadow and trim my eyebrows. Every time my husband and I get together among friends, we are not showing off to each other, but simply chatting about home affairs and recent situations. After getting married, many things have to go back to the family; I don’t need to wear that kind of work makeup for work, and I can understand my husband’s psychological state of hiding the beauty in the golden house.

I think everyone has no doubt about this. First of all, makeup takes a lot of time every day; if you want to do a more delicate makeup, it is normal to spend more than an hour on it.

When you go out, you often need to touch up your makeup due to the weather, the environment, etc., and removing makeup after you come back is also very cumbersome. This adds up to a lot of time; and when you get married, every family has their own children, and the time you spend on makeup will more or less affect the upbringing of your children; on the other hand, makeup The cost of cosmetics and makeup tools is also a big expense, the more often people wear makeup. The cosmetics she uses will be more expensive, and good cosmetics will cause relatively less damage to the skin.

I was still surprised when my husband said this. I had never thought of it; before a woman is 30 years old, she has to rely on makeup every day to attract her husband’s attention. Then this woman is a failure. Yes; when a man marries this woman, he must promise to protect her for the rest of his life. A woman's external beauty is only a small part of what men like, and a larger part is because of a woman's inner beauty. Beautiful women are everywhere; when a man chooses to spend his life with you, it is because something inside you deeply attracts her. I think this is a truth that all female friends must understand. Makeup is harmful to the skin on the face. Long-term use of makeup prevents the facial skin from being well exposed to air, resulting in clogged facial skin pores and incomplete metabolism; cosmetic residues after makeup removal, etc., will damage the facial skin, leading to premature facial skin aging. senescence.

Around us, we can often see women wearing various makeups walking around us; maybe we ourselves are one of them. Middle-aged women account for the majority of women who wear makeup. What is even more unexpected is that contemporary college students have also begun to wear makeup. It is common to see a variety of female college students wearing heavy makeup near campus; the more developed the In cities, this phenomenon is more serious.

What I can’t understand is: around the age of 20 is the time when a person’s skin is at its best. Why do you still need to put makeup on your face and add such a thick layer of film? What’s even more ridiculous is that there are still many people who go for facial plastic surgery when they are around 20 years old; do they want to become the same Internet celebrity face on the Internet? This phenomenon is really a typical superfluous thing! Whether it’s makeup or plastic surgery; “The body’s hair and skin are influenced by its parents.” These are all harmful to the body, and to be serious, this is also an act of self-mutilation!

Contemporary young people should not waste time on their appearance, and should not dream of unrealistic internet celebrity dreams all day long. We should be down-to-earth, study diligently, and enrich ourselves; this is the spirit that contemporary young people should have and the positive energy that they should convey.

Men like to admire other people’s women, but they don’t agree with how their own women dress. This is very selfish. Why don’t you have confidence? Although your woman is your personal property, it is not everything you have. Who doesn’t love beauty in women? Please don’t obliterate women’s nature, the old-fashioned thinking should be changed! As long as a woman's makeup is not so heavy and garish, with a little embellishment, it will look very eye-catching and give others a good impression

Everyone has a love for beauty, and it is also a woman's innate nature to love beauty. . Even men have to dress up when going out. This is an image that every man must pay attention to. Of course, women should also dress up and put on makeup. This is also a reason for women to maintain their own image. Women should dress up beautifully to bring a sense of beauty to people and their husbands.

As a husband, you should not interfere with your wife's love for beauty because of your own dislike. A grown man shouldn't be so small-minded. Love of beauty is a woman's nature and her own freedom. Just because you don't like her, your wife should not care about her own image. Making yourself unkempt and dressed like a beggar will not only have a bad impact on your wife's own image. It will also have a bad negative impact on the husband's face.

Therefore, I think that as a husband, no matter how much he dislikes his wife wearing makeup and showing off her appearance. You should not grossly interfere with your wife's freedom and right to maintain her own image. This should be her right. I also know that most men want their wives to be neat and beautiful. When standing in front of others, the husband’s face also shines.

This is my answer to this question, purely my personal opinion. If there is any inappropriateness, please comment.

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