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After 80, the little wife gradually persuaded her mother-in-law.

Puppy love, my future mother-in-law regards me as a "fox". My husband Jiang Mumu and I went to high school together. At that time, we were in a provincial key middle school in Hunan and got good grades. We belong to the type that neither parents nor teachers have to worry about. There were several couples in the class who were in love at that time, and we were one of them. We are all good students and never hold hands in public. Only once, in a remote street, we couldn't help holding hands, and the teacher happened to bump into us. Next, we were told our parents. Soon, the news of our love reached the headmaster's ears, because Jiang Mumu's parents knew him very well. Only then did I know that Mumujia was a local rich man. However, parents, school, life experience and college entrance examination are not the reasons to stop us. Our relationship will be even better. Once, when I called Jiang Mumu's home, Jiang Mumu's mother cut off the phone from another extension and scolded me, telling me not to pester her son and not to affect Jiang Mumu's future. I was very angry, said into the microphone, told your son to leave me alone, and then hung up. Later, Jiang Mumu ran away from home to find me, and we used computers to kill time in Internet cafes. That night, we vowed not to part. I went to Huazhong Normal University to study, and Jiang Mumu was arranged by his family to go to Singapore. When I called Jiang Mumu, he was at the Guangzhou airport, and I could hear Jiang Mumu's mother calling him to hang up. His mother thinks I'm a fox seducing her precious son. I don't want to embarrass him. I hung up. It was inconvenient to surf the Internet at school at that time. The first thing I do when I get to the university is to wait for the computer in the library to come out and tell Jiang Mumu my mobile phone number in Wuhan. He is in Singapore and I am in Wuhan. I write emails and make phone calls every day. The longest call is 13 hours. I fell asleep and woke up the next morning with my cell phone still on. This is not the way. Jiang Mumu insisted on going back to Changsha to study and transfer credits. After three years, he can go abroad to continue his studies. Three years, he won another three years for our love. After all, he is the only child in the family, and his mother has to listen to him. During the winter vacation of my sophomore year, Jiang Mumu took me to his home to pay a New Year call. I prepared some gifts for his home, and Jiang Mumu's mother returned them to me. I stood downstairs in Jiang Mumu's house, and my tears turned to ice. Jiang Mumu held my hand and whispered in my ear, Hold on, hold on for a while. My heart is colder than that winter. My parents divorced when I was five years old because of my mother-in-law relationship. I don't think a good person like my mother can handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, let alone me. At that time, because I was a girl, my grandmother put pressure on my mother, and she wouldn't let my mother sit down for the next month, and she wouldn't even eat what my grandmother gave my mother. Are all the mother-in-law in the world demons? When I got home, my mother-in-law turned her back on the door and squatted on the windowsill to see if I had come back. I have cakes and flowers and presents. My sister also took out the gift and gave it to her mother-in-law together. Mother-in-law's eyes were red at that time, and she repeatedly said thank you. It's rare for my father-in-law to have a smile on his lips. My heart is full of sweetness. This is not just a special day. When visiting the supermarket, I usually buy some things that my parents-in-law and sisters like to eat, buy some good hangers to help my father-in-law dry his pants, put some sachets in the cupboard, buy a beautiful and easy-to-use fruit knife, and help them collect and fold clothes. Of course, this is done from the heart according to my own interests, just like I don't like cleaning, hehe! Grandfather doesn't like other fruits very much, but likes plums and peaches. So when I go shopping and see good things, I always buy them back, although they are heavy, although these peaches and plums will crush my beautiful bag. In short, treat it as your home, treat them as your family, and don't hold grudges. People's hearts are all meat. Who will refuse a person who is really good to you? Melting ice makes me more afraid of ghosts. Jiang Mumu thinks I'm pestering Jiang Mumu for money. I want to tell them with practical actions that I am not that kind of girl! Jiang Mumu's English is not very good. His family is engaged in foreign trade, and he planned to send him abroad since he was a child. I became his tutor in the summer vacation of his junior year. Jiang Mumu is rich and young, and likes to sleep late. His mother dotes on him very much. I was a little strict with him, and his mother said, leave him alone and let him sleep. I was so wronged that I cried on the pretext of going to the toilet. If Mumu doesn't cooperate with me, is there any point in my persistence? As soon as I came out, I saw Jiang Mumu bow meekly to apologize to me, and I saw hope again. Jiang Mumu has a younger sister who is ten years younger than him. At that time, she was only ten years old and her name was Yiyi. Yiyi likes me very much and clings to me. Because of my arrival, she volunteered to stay at home and do her homework that summer. Yiyi and her parents and brother have nothing to say. They are alone with me, as if they have endless words. Jiang Mumu's father loves his daughter and wants me to stay and spend more time with Yiyi. In the evening, I share a bed with Yiyi, and Yiyi will chat with me until the early hours of the morning. Jiang Mumu's mother was jealous and asked Yiyi, "Do you have anything to say to that woman?" ? She thinks I'm a calculating woman, trying to please Yiyi. It's really hard to be misunderstood. When I went to Jiang Mumu's home to pay a New Year call during my winter vacation in my junior year, Jiang Mumu's mother sent me a red envelope, 1000 yuan. The red envelope is not big, but according to the custom of our hometown, the new prospective daughter-in-law should give it. The more this time, the less I want the Jiang Mumu family to think that I am interested in their money. This kind of nervousness sometimes makes me cope with anomalies. Once, Jiang Mumu's father came to Wuhan on business and asked the driver to call me and say that we would have dinner together. After meeting, he gave me 500 yuan. Said to give me taxi money. I won't accept it, just blurt it out and give it as a red envelope for the New Year. Now give me the money. I don't want it. This is really bad. In Jiang Mumu's father's mind, he may have written down what I said about giving a red envelope next year, and he may hate me for it. If I report back to China, won't the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that I finally eased be stiff again? Some people say that when I entered the giants, I was as deep as the sea, and I already choked a few mouthfuls ... I mean, people's hearts are all flesh. In the third year of senior high school, Jiang Mumu's parents saw us talking for so many years and really acquiesced in us. In my senior year, I didn't go to the internship, and I stayed at home with Jiang Mumu to apply for a study visa. During that time, Jiang Mumu's parents were busy with work, and I got up every day to cook for Jiang Mumu and Yiyi. Before Jiang Mumu went abroad, he and I were in a hurry to get a marriage certificate. He has gone abroad, so I just want to go back to my hometown to spend time with my mother. But my grandfather wants me to stay at home and take care of Yiyi. Yiyi is quiet and doesn't like talking at home. She used to get good grades. During the rebellious period, her grades declined, and her mother-in-law received a lot of books about romance novels. My father-in-law knows that Yiyi is very close to me and listens to me, so he said to let me take care of her. She is making up lessons and asks me to follow her every day. Early in the morning, she made up lessons and I read novels there. To this end, I watched the complete works of Jin Yong again. After class, I brought her back and cooked for her. In the afternoon, before my parents-in-law came home, I cooked a meal for them, or they went out for dinner, so I ate at home with Yiyi. I always thought that my husband had left, and I was alone with my mother-in-law, and the bitter days came ... The fact is that our relationship is getting better and better. It can be said that I have been watching it for a long time. My parents-in-law have no other hobbies, so they like playing mahjong. When they are not busy, they invite their good friends to play mahjong at home. My duty is to give them water, cut fruit, and then go to the room to surf the Internet. It is estimated that the words of those uncles also have a great stimulating effect. Those uncles said that it is rare to meet such a daughter-in-law now. Girls nowadays usually do nothing at home. Those uncles all like me very much. They don't call my name. They just call me daughter-in-law My mother-in-law's birthday is coming. My husband mentioned it to me before, so I remembered it. I buy gifts for my mother every year, so I think it's time to buy some gifts for my mother-in-law now that I'm married. I asked my sister that neither she nor her husband had ever given a gift! Remembering that her mother-in-law said her hairpin was not beautiful, I took my friends shopping all day and bought a beautiful one. I also ordered a cake and a bunch of carnations, and went to Estee Lauder to buy a bottle of skin care products for my mother-in-law. I went out after 6 o'clock on my mother's birthday. I told my sister to keep her mouth shut, but there was a traffic jam on the road and I came back late. My parents-in-law found that I was not at home and was anxious. Overseas, two hearts are closer to their husbands. Soon after going abroad, I will go abroad. When I applied for a visa, I did it all by myself. This gives me extra points in my mother-in-law's heart. Once my mother-in-law chatted with me while watching TV and knitting, and said a lot of heartfelt words. She said that at first she thought I was a child raised in a single-parent family, so she strongly opposed it. Later, through contact, I felt optimistic and sensible, not as she imagined. After that, she looked at me with a smile. Actually, I don't blame her for her opposition at that time. What mother doesn't think of her children? And puppy love itself is wrong. Because of understanding, my mother-in-law and I, the former enemy, are getting closer and closer. When my husband first arrived in Australia, he made videos with us every day. My parents-in-law always leave me the time after chatting for a while. This harmonious relationship makes my feelings with my in-laws deeper and deeper. On the day of going abroad, my mother-in-law didn't go to bed until 4 am. Early in the morning, she insisted on going to Changsha with my mother to see me off. That day, I had mixed feelings and cried like a crybaby. Unexpectedly, I called my mother later, and her mother said that her mother-in-law exchanged her phone number and said that she would contact my mother more in the future. They get along well. Later, my mother took the initiative to make cotton shoes for my parents-in-law. Now my husband's family regards my mother's shoes as treasures and wears them every day, regardless of the image. This year's snowstorm, especially cold, these cotton shoes really come in handy. Once in a video, my mother-in-law told me that I was more important in her heart than her daughter. Whether it's true or not, I'm glad she said so. Mumujia asked us to go back for the Christmas holiday in June+February, 5438 to make up the wedding. Now, I am already looking forward to 65438+ February. When shopping in Australia, I always want to bring one to my mother-in-law. Just like I went shopping today, I still want to buy it, Jiang Mumu said. Are you kidding? Can I buy it from now until 65438+February? He doesn't understand that once a woman really likes someone and is liked by others, she will go all out to repay her kindness. Although many people may say that I am a sheep, my husband's family is so rich. In fact, it is particularly uneconomical to buy things in RMB here. I work in a gift shop, working more than five hours a day, practicing oral English and making money. The money earned every day is equivalent to RMB, more than 600 yuan. After earning Australian dollars, it is more meaningful to buy gifts for my husband's family. What makes me even more proud is that my mother-in-law tells me more than Jiang Mumu in every video or phone call, because we have a lot of the same topics, about daily life in Jiang Mumu, about the study of Yiyi, about when I am pregnant and have children, and about beautiful clothes and cosmetics. Sometimes my mother-in-law will complain to me that Yiyi is naughty and disobedient at home, and let me call back and tell her. My mother-in-law said that Yi would listen to you later. Think about it, how many old wives and daughters-in-law can get along like us? At that time, when eating at home in China, I would take the initiative to fill up all the rice and pour a glass of water for my parents-in-law. I wonder if my parents-in-law can get used to eating without me. Everyone's happiness is actually created by themselves. After 80, the daughter-in-law gradually persuaded her mother-in-law It is much better to tell the ugly story in front than the one behind. Before her mother-in-law comes, let her husband communicate with her mother-in-law and make it clear in advance. After her mother-in-law comes, she will be psychologically prepared, at least there will be no big friction. If you can't stand some of your mother-in-law's practices, don't conflict with her. You should discuss with your husband first and let him communicate with his mother-in-law. After all, a son telling his mother will always have some effect. Hint to yourself that filial piety is what you should do. Love me, love my dog, since I love my husband, I naturally have to love my husband's mother, which is nothing more than a matter of loving more and loving less. After all, my mother-in-law gave birth to her husband and raised him hard, so we should respect her mother with her husband, chat with her more to make her happy, and her husband will naturally be happy and be good to your mother. How nice it is to have the best of both worlds! Don't show love to your husband in front of your mother-in-law. The old people's thoughts are still very traditional, and there is still a big gap with us young people. To recognize the fact that there is a generation gap with my mother-in-law, we think we can be casual in front of our family, but it is too intimate for the elderly to accept. Mother-in-law may think that if you take away all her son's love, the consequences will be unimaginable! In front of her mother-in-law, she must be obedient to her husband. The mother-in-law certainly doesn't want to see her son being bossed around. Do you think, she can't stand being bossed around, how can she allow others to be bossed around? Of course, your husband will be willing to listen to you when you go back to your cabin or when your mother-in-law is away! In the future, in front of your parents, your husband will be very obedient to you, and your parents will look comfortable, won't they? Be generous to your mother-in-law. Usually buy more small gifts for your mother-in-law, make her happy, and let her know that you give her more than your own mother. She must be happy, but she doesn't know how much money you gave your mother behind her back! When it comes to money, don't be too stingy, especially when it comes to major events, such as my father-in-law being ill. Even if you don't give money, my husband will certainly lend money everywhere to treat his father. So since you can't escape, it's better to simply take the money and show a willingness to give it to your mother-in-law. This will please my mother-in-law, satisfy my husband, and think more about you in the future. Try to treat your mother-in-law as your best friend and leave your hometown. There are fewer people talking, so you are definitely not used to it, so you usually talk to your mother-in-law and listen to her, even if you pretend to listen carefully. Pay more attention to her daily life, understand her preferences, and take care of her appetite when eating. She will feel these casual little details, and she will feel that her son is lucky to marry you! Do you still have to worry about buying food, cooking, washing pots, washing dishes and cleaning?