The 7-year-old man said frankly: I found a paid nanny and felt that I had reached the peak of happiness.

First, the introduction

Everyone has to go through this special stage of old age.

In this period, you will not only experience the birth, illness, death and loneliness of the people around you, but also experience the departure of the closest pillow person.

When children get married and get farther and farther away from you; What kind of old age do you want to live alone when your wife leaves early?

Some people choose to spend the rest of their lives by themselves, while others choose to find a companion to fight against loneliness in their later years.

many times, the idea is good. It can be achieved, but it may not have a good effect. Especially the latter.

Some old people, having found a companion, wanted to stay with each other and not feel lonely. Unexpectedly, loneliness is not loneliness, but it is endless quarrels and awkwardness, and it is more worrying.

so some people say that if I had known today, why should I have!

So, how can the old people live in order to spend the rest of their lives happily?

Second, the real case

Narrator: Lin Lianzhang, 72 years old. (For the convenience of narration, the full text is in the first person)

My name is Lin Lianzhang, and I am 72 years old.

six years ago, my wife left before me, leaving me alone.

At ordinary times, I was used to being waited on by my wife. Her sudden departure made me realize that I had no ability to take care of myself.

for someone to cook, clean and do housework. I went to three domestic companies before I found a suitable nanny.

at least, my life is guaranteed.

But two years later, once, I slipped in the toilet and locked the toilet door. No matter how hard I shouted, no one came to save me. Finally, I was so bored that I thought it was over this time. There was no one at home and I couldn't get out, so I was waiting for death.

Fortunately, my son called me, but there was no answer, so he came to my house after work, and when he saw me dying, he was so anxious that he burst into tears.

then, I was sent to the hospital at the first time.

Although I only suffered a skin injury, I must have died once psychologically, so I discussed with my son that I would hire a live-in nanny.

The son said: As long as someone can take care of you, I agree with you.

after leaving the hospital, I discussed with the nanny whether I could be a live-in nanny and get a raise, but the nanny immediately refused, saying that there were elderly people at home who needed her to take care of them at night.

after the nanny left, my cousin introduced me to a rural lady. She is 51 years old, but she works quickly and has a good temper. The key point is that she never asks for leave. One daughter has a family in the local area, and others have no relatives.

After the nanny came, she looked sallow and emaciated, especially old. Her face looked vicissitudes, and her hands were as dry as old bark.

The probation period is one week. After this nanny has worked for one week, Lao Lin thinks that this is a qualified nanny, which was at best the name before.

He decided to hire this new nanny, whose surname is Lin Xia. She is 51 years old and has only one daughter. She is a good cook and has a good eye for her work. Needless to say, she has done a lot of things well!

after a long time, Lao Lin has become more and more dependent on the nanny, just like being a child again, and everything needs the nanny to worry about.

If the nanny spends a long time shopping, he will be very anxious and worry about whether something has happened.

Lao Lin knew that the moment he had this idea, it meant that he fell in love with Xiao Lin, the nanny.

But so many cases of failed second marriage tell him: Don't turn the person you like into an enemy, the only way is not to marry her, and don't have any interest disputes.

But Lao Lin is not content, just wants to be with Xiao Lin. Only when she is around can he feel at ease.

So, after much deliberation, he came up with a good idea: paid nanny companionship. On the surface, it is still a nanny, doing nanny work; In fact, it is almost the same as the partner who lives with himself.

Generally speaking, Xiaolin lives with Lao Lin, and Lao Lin will give her a salary of 8, yuan every month. In addition, the living expenses will be counted separately. Also, after a hundred years, Lao Lin will give Xiaolin a cash of 2,.

When Xiaolin knew about this, she readily agreed. She never thought that there was such a high salary. She once said that she wants nothing but to make money, that is, to help her daughter repay her mortgage and save her own pension money.

Since then, they have lived this special life.

Now several years have passed, Xiao Lin is still so kind to Lao Lin, and he doesn't worry about anything, let alone make him angry, and takes care of the old man comfortably.

Every time Lao Lin and Xiao Lin go out for a walk, they watch them talking and laughing. Xiao Lin also brings a kettle to Lao Lin anytime and anywhere, which looks very sweet and happy.

Lao Lin tells everyone: This is the best time since I was single. Being accompanied, loved, cared for and considerate is the greatest happiness for me!

Third, summary

In the case of Lao Lin, he broke away from convention and found a paid nanny to accompany his children, thus saving them worries.

The most important thing is that in his later years, he found his dignity, dignity and happiness in this way.

For both Lao Lin and Xiao Lin, they supported each other and got what they needed on the basis of the transaction, and both achieved their goals.

this is a win-win situation!

Only from this aspect, it is also a good way to provide for the aged.

I hope that Lao Lin and Xiao Lin in the case will continue to support and get the happiness they want while getting the demand on their own life!

life is enough!

More classic cases:

Grandpa's salary in his sixties is 2,8, and his blind date failed five times: the old man's marriage and love is a business

Elder sister in her sixties: the most outrageous mistake she made in her life was to treat her son-in-law as my own son

Elder sister in her fifties: helping her daughter with her baby for one month, giving her a cold face for 25 days, quarreling eight times, and making no effort to please her.