What should you do if your parents don't agree to your marriage?

This happens to many people. The two people have a good relationship, but their parents objected as soon as they met. It's really hard not to get my parents' blessing, but I don't think I need to worry too much.

There is no need to overreact to parents' attitude. The reason why parents disagree is that they want their children to find a better partner. People who have experienced it will always have different views from young people and will be more considerate and sophisticated, but you have to believe that these are all for your own good. Therefore, there is no need to overreact to parents' attitudes. Still have to say something soft and give some examples to let them know how good the person they choose is.

The key to solving the problem is that the person you are looking for is good enough. Parents don't agree with this marriage, which means that the person you are looking for can't meet their standards. Perhaps in the eyes of parents, the other person's character is not very good and it is not worth entrusting. Then you must communicate with your parents to see if these problems really exist in their eyes. If it doesn't exist, help explain it. If so, see if you have the ability to help your partner change. If you can't, I suggest you consider your parents' opinions, because after all, parents read countless people, and their starting point is always for your own good. So try to let them see more good places for them to accept. As the opposed party, don't be unconvinced when you hear the parents of the other party disagree, and think that you underestimate yourself. We should be considerate from the heart, learn to put ourselves in others' shoes, and prove that their children are right to choose themselves with their own practical actions.

Maybe parents only see the outside, but don't know the inside of the person you like, so it's understandable to object. In this case, you can discuss with your parents and ask them to check him/her more. If they still feel inappropriate after the inspection, you can ask them to tell you what is inappropriate. You can combine your views and tell your parents what you think.

If your parents really think of you, then I hope you don't be impulsive. After all, you need to think carefully before making a decision, or you will be ashamed to go home when something goes wrong in the end, because you didn't listen when your parents advised you.

Parents' opinions are only reference, and their own hearts are the most important. Numerous examples prove that parents can't stop a person from being really good. Moreover, many parents finally reached out and accepted each other. The key is to look at your heart. If you think the other person is good enough and your choice ability is still very strong, then you should firmly go in the direction of your choice. Everyone's life is only once. I think it's better to listen to myself anyway. Perhaps, listening to yourself is not necessarily the best way, but at least there will be no regrets.