My mother-in-law said I would speak ill of her father-in-law

there's no need to struggle like this. Remember, there is no really good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the world. Because my mother-in-law always thinks you are an outsider, even if you marry into his house, you are also an outsider. Don't be as knowledgeable as the old people, just think like this. How many years do they say you can speak? Ten or twenty years, almost? How many years can you live? Fifty or sixty years? To put it bluntly, is it necessary for you to haggle with the dying person? Besides, you are married to your husband, not your father-in-law. Let him be sullen, just ignore him. You don't live with him. Isn't that your husband with you? Your husband, as you said, is fair. I think it should be good for you, too. If he is good to you, it will be over, regardless of whether they are good to you or not. Anyway, you didn't marry them, and the person you love loves you. That's the most important thing. Parents-in-law are all one-sided. You try your best. When they say it, they say, where is what you are doing? It's not that others can't see it. Don't you know if you are doing well at a glance? Once you dispute with them, it still seems that you are not sensible. What if you bear it? When others see it, this daughter-in-law and her parents-in-law are not good to him, and he can still take care of this family like this. This shows how excellent you are. Right?

Nowadays, the old people want to hug the next generation quickly, and you can also communicate with them. If you are embarrassed, just explain to them with your husband that you think the conditions are not ripe now, and a child needs to spend a lot of money. You don't want to spend the old people's money or anything. I think it would be better to analyze your difficulties with them.

Again, you didn't marry them, so there's no need to haggle with them. Isn't it? The new year is coming, so it's time to do more work and show that you are a good wife. Come on! Happy New Year ~