How do girls like a boy?

1. No longer just share her sadness, but share her happiness with you.

At first, she was with you, maybe because she was looking for spiritual comfort, or you were a good listener. When she really accepts you, she is more willing to share the joy of life with you than some negative energy. Because she no longer just regards you as a tree hole or a trash can, but a person who can join hands with the future.

2. Willing to kiss you

Kissing is the most direct emotional expression between lovers. It is different from holding hands and hugging, because if a person refuses you from the heart, he won't want to kiss you. Even if there is, it will only be superficial and there is no more emotion.

3. Take you to meet your friends

Don't think that love is really just a matter for two people. If your existence is only known to the two of you, it means that she is not sure about this relationship, so she doesn't want you to have more intersection with her life.

4. Willing to swipe your card

Aside from those girls who worship money, ordinary girls will not entangle with you in money until she decides to accept you. Even if she goes out, she will still AA with you. When a girl is willing to swipe your card, she will be inseparable from you. Yours is hers and hers is yours.

Unless a girl has had a crush on you for a long time, it will take time to really accept you after you confess. There is no unified answer to the length of this time, which is related to the way boys love you.

Girls really accept a boy as their other half, there will be these performances:

1. Accept boys' kindness. For example, it is a signal that boys send her home and invite her to dinner for a separate date. Of course, except for girls who insist on spare tires, they will mobilize the initiative of boys and then deliberately step back a little, keeping it tight like a rubber band.

2. Allow you to enter her life circle. I just don't mind that you know her friends, and I won't avoid you appearing in her circle.

3. Have a positive attitude towards you. She will take the initiative to talk to you, and is willing to talk to you, treating you as a suitable person to talk to, proving that feelings are close to you by default.

4. Remember your affairs clearly. She remembers what you said, will take the initiative to mention her own situation, and is willing to know about your situation, such as your family, work and life.

5. Words and deeds are different from others. Maybe she will be afraid to look you in the eye, or she will appear stiff in the face of your situation. These are all signals that she likes.

Don't miss these signals ~

If you meet someone who loves you so much, I hope you can cherish it.

If a girl really accepts a boy, many details will be shown.

First, I will take the initiative to care about you.

Second, even if chatting with you is a boring topic, I will chat with you with relish.

Third, I will take you to meet my friends, and I won't explain your relationship too much.

Fourth, I will share a cup with you, or let her taste what you have eaten. She won't be disgusted.

Fifth, I will take the initiative to contact you.

Sixth, if you have done something bad, she will help you correct it.

You have to observe and understand carefully to recognize a woman's mind, otherwise you will misunderstand a woman and affect the development of your feelings. It's your fault that you missed it. The fighter in love is fleeting.

First, women will look at you with affectionate eyes. This kind of eyes can be described as looking through autumn water, and this kind of eyes can only be enjoyed by you. The way she looks at other men is extremely cold.

Second, a woman will be willing to do anything for you, even if she can't, she will go all out, she will agree to your request, and she will gladly accept what you are forced to do.

Third, a woman will take you to meet her friends and parents, let you into her circle, and will not hide anything, for fear that the world will not know, so that your reputation will be known.

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When falling in love, girls are generally reserved. In the face of girls they like, boys also try their best to pursue them. It is difficult for an inexperienced boy to judge whether the girl he likes likes likes himself or not. Therefore, Yi Shujun gave some suggestions and opinions to boys according to his own personal experience.

First, see if she is willing to spend your money.

When two people first come into contact, most of them are sensitive to money, and generally adopt AA system for activities, especially those girls who are a little reserved. Generally, they will not misuse boys' money easily. Only when they get along for a long time, and she recognizes you in her heart, will she be rude to you and like you to spend money for her.

Money can sometimes really test a person's character. If you just met her, she will use your money without scruple, which is not normal. You should observe this kind of woman carefully, be careful that she is a gold digger. If you have known her for a long time, she is still scrambling to pay for the meal, and she doesn't accept the gift you bought her easily, or what she will buy you back after accepting it, she probably doesn't think much of you.

If after a period of time, she no longer "haggles over every ounce" with you in money, it shows that she has begun to accept you from the bottom of her heart.

Secondly, look at her attitude towards you.

This is the most intuitive feeling. You should know very well whether she treats you badly or affectedly, whether she is shy or soft-hearted. Don't think that a girl will like you just because you are stubbornly kind to her, and whether she will accept you as her boyfriend can be clearly seen from her attitude towards you.

For example, every time you ask her out, if she doesn't really want to go out with you and comes out sloppy, then she must not have you in her heart. On the contrary, if every time you ask her out, she readily agrees and dresses up beautifully every time, then you can have a good time!

Third, you can use a little skill to test it.

This move is not a move. You can take some appropriate measures to test whether she is interested in you and willing to accept you.

For example, use WeChat test. Try sending her a message at ten o'clock. If she replies quickly, it proves that she is waiting for you. You asked her what she was doing. She took a bath and made a mask, and told you everything without scruple. Congratulations, you made it. On the contrary, she didn't reply to you, and you didn't care about anything. When you ask her the next day, she will say that I went to bed early. Sorry, none of the young people will go to bed so early. It's just a hint that she doesn't like you.

For example, when you two are chatting or walking, you try to hold her hand. If she doesn't back down and prove that she doesn't hate you, you have great hope. If you try many times and she gets rid of it, give up!

Fourth, look at her initiative.

If a woman likes you, she won't be completely passive. If you don't show up for a few days, she will be in a hurry. She will also listen to your movements, find an excuse to find something with you, or tell you that she needs help to get close to you.

For example, if you chase her for a while, she is always close to you, which makes it difficult for you to guess, so you are a little discouraged and give her a cold shoulder for a few days. If she hasn't heard from you, called you or sent a message, but her circle of friends has been basking in her happy life, which is enough to prove that she doesn't have you in her heart. If you disappear, she finds you intentionally or unintentionally and says she needs your help, or the circle of friends is quiet, you have great hope.

Fifth, see how she treats your love letters and gifts.

If a girl is willing to accept you as a boyfriend, she will cherish the gifts and love letters you sent, otherwise, she will not.

You should observe how she treats your gift, whether she likes it or hates it, whether she accepts it shyly or refuses it severely, and you can see from the details whether she likes you or not. If she doesn't accept your gift or reply to your thick pile of love letters, which proves that you are not her type, you can quit automatically!

Sixth, see how she treats your friends.

If she is polite, warm and considerate to your friends, it proves that you have a certain position in her mind. If she is indifferent to your friend, as if she has nothing and doesn't pay attention to it at all, it has already explained everything.

If she sincerely accepts you as a boyfriend, she will love what you love and be kind to everyone around her.

Seventh, look at her understanding of you.

You can also see if she only asks for you and is more critical than understanding, or is she gentle and considerate and understands your feelings? You also have troubles. How does she behave when you are upset? Is it distressed or indifferent? Is it to help you untie your heart or to blame and abuse?

If a girl really accepts you as her boyfriend from the heart, she will put herself in your shoes, think what you think and worry about you.

In short, as long as you carefully observe and combine the above references, you will soon be able to judge whether the girl you like likes you or not, and whether she really accepts you from the heart.

Finally, I send you a love poem.

1, love you to tears

Dunzhe Ling

The water is gurgling and the cold wind is rustling.

It's already dark.

Are we still standing here?

The geese returning to the south are singing.

They know my mind, so be it.

let nature take its course

No one knows how the beginning began.

No one knows how it will end.

When it starts, it starts.

Where there is a beginning, there is an end.

Do you still want to stand here?

I can't stand it.

Look into your eyes.

touch your face

I won't look back.

Although I know the past

With the help of the wind

I can only do it one last time.

Close your eyes and kiss your forehead.

Kiss your eyes too.

At this time.

My tears ran down my nose.

Flow to the corner of the eye

The cold wind is rustling and the water is gurgling.

They know I love you enough to cry.

When you always smile and ask, "What's the matter, dear?"

I smile through tears, saying that I laugh at myself for being stupid, and you laugh at me for being stupid.

When you start to cry, too

I want to leave your arms

Run with the running water

Thank you for making me love you to tears.

Thank you, you love me to tears.

That's it, that's it.

What's the use of crying? It's no use. Stop crying!

let nature take its course

Go home separately. I can't stand it.

Excerpted from the poems of independent scholar and poet Dunzhe Ling.