After 50, four kinds of relatives should have more contact, and the more contact, the greater the return.

Liang Jizhang, the host, wrote in his letter to his son: Relatives are destined to be only once. No matter how long I will get along with you in this life, please cherish the time together. In the next life, whether you love it or not, you will never see each other again.

This is true for the father and son, as well as for the relatives around them.

Half my life, I have experienced too much worldly wisdom, and I have seen through it and seen it clearly. I found that there are very few friends who really treat each other sincerely, and the relatives who really can't leave forever are those who have a relationship of "blood is thicker than water".

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Relatives who lend a helping hand in times of crisis.

The ancients said, "the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, but the poor don't ask in the downtown area." Tell people a cruel fact that it is not blood, but money that maintains family ties.

Many people have this kind of pain. Once they are down and out, they even look down on their relatives. Walking around on holidays, I don't care about being happy and generous, but I put on a cold face, and my disgust and disdain are obvious.

This indifference is more lethal than the disdain of passers-by, because knowing the root and the bottom, a look and an unintentional word can directly hit the key and make people feel chilling.

However, some people will be lucky to meet their loved ones who are brave. In their eyes, relatives are the most important relationship and the last barrier in life, and they will always try their best to help and help.

In A Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Yun, from a poor family, finally found a job in the Grand View Garden to support his family through hardships. Jia Fu was defeated, and only he and Xiaohong tried their best to rescue Baoyu and Xifeng.

He died because in Jia Yun's mind, Baoyu recognized him as a "adopted son" and gave him the most powerful backer when he was most helpless in life. It was also Baoyu's credit that he and Xiaohong became husband and wife. Although Xifeng was unruly, at least she helped him.

Over 50 years old, be sure to walk around for those relatives who have helped you when you are in trouble. On the one hand, we will not forget the kindness of the past, on the other hand, we will consolidate this friend in need. If you are in trouble again, you will help your relatives, still those who helped you.

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Never leave your loved ones, rich or poor.

Relatives become relatives because they firmly believe that in this life, regardless of poverty or wealth, relatives will always be there, sharing weal and woe and sharing weal and woe.

This simple and sincere emotion, like a soft spring breeze, with warmth and vitality, can dispel the heavy haze in life.

Some time ago, I saw a video of "four brothers scrambling for foster mothers" on the Internet. Brother and sister-in-law agreed to take turns to take care of the old mother once a month. But before the deadline of one month, someone couldn't help it and secretly took his mother back from his brother's house to his own.

In the face of this sweet dispute, the old mother just happily said nothing. Although there is no rich or expensive, relying on farming to support the family, but this "big family" is harmonious and harmonious, which is really touching.

In the concept of the ancients, happiness is nothing more than four generations living under one roof, old and young in order, and brothers in harmony. No matter how big the official is, he should bow down according to his seniority.

Even if the ancestral temple is built, the rich can't bear all the expenses. Even if they share it, everyone should be named on the genealogy.

If you are over 50 years old, if you still have such a big family, whether it is direct or collateral, you will always walk around, no one will dislike anyone, and no one will think you are climbing. It is really a great blessing in life, so we should cherish it.

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Family members who led you to grow up.

One hero and three gangs. In this life, the people who are most likely to help you are your relatives.

Let's give a very simple example. A family, as long as there is a child to study hard, carp yue longmen. If we are close to each other, it will drive the children of this family to change their destiny through reading.

Many family businesses are a powerful annotation.

Want to change the fate of the whole family, is to have a guide, a pioneer, a man above all else. They have a sense of mission and responsibility. Although there is not much contact at ordinary times, it can give people a feeling of clearing the clouds.

Of course, they not only put forward opinions and suggestions, but also use all the resources in their hands to help them as much as possible. Perhaps it is a certain time that leads the other party to broaden their horizons and increase their knowledge, and will plant a seed of "changing the world" in one's heart and make unremitting efforts for it.

On the road of life, you can meet such relatives, that is, you have met a noble person. Never scoff at it, listen to it, or give up halfway and run counter to it.

With the help of such relatives, you can be one step or more ahead of others on the road to success, and your life will be greatly different.

Conclusion: Over 50 years old, take time to visit relatives.

Decades have passed and no one is the same. On the new journey, we may be able to collide with the latest sparks. But the most reluctant thing is the friendship that keeps giving up, and the willingness to use each other and enjoy the glory.

Author: Just as the wind is light and the clouds are light.

Your happiness, my blessing.

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