A novice daughter-in-law can't cook. What should she do at her husband's house?

A woman should understand that in her husband's family, if she wants to get the recognition and respect of her in-laws, she should be careful of her words and deeds and not do things she shouldn't do.

You know, some things are very cheap. If you do too much, your husband's family will look down on you. These things are only done by stupid women.

Interfere with in-laws

The first difficult identity to marry into a husband's family is to be a daughter-in-law. As the saying goes, every family has its own problems, and sometimes my husband's parents will have some emotional problems like their own.

But women can't interfere like their parents, because after being together for a long time, the feelings of the older generation have changed from love to affection. Stumbling and tinkering in life will inevitably happen, but no matter how things develop, it is not your turn to judge who is right and who is wrong, and right and wrong are clear.

If someone really needs you, you might as well ask your husband to join you instead of expressing your thoughts on your own initiative. Because you haven't experienced their life, you don't understand how rude it is.

Damage the husband's face

A man is the proudest animal in the world, so although he can tolerate you because he loves you, he can also give you enough face in front of outsiders. But the minimum respect must be there, not too strong, and too much debate about the level of family status.

Only those stupid women will always talk about their husbands in public. This kind of woman is not only selfish, but also makes people feel very uneducated.

It is said that couples quarrel, the bed is noisy, and the bed is at the end. Even if something terrible happens, there is no need to announce it to the world. As the saying goes, a woman must remember, especially in her husband's family, that her dirty laundry should not be publicized.

Keep close contact with friends of the opposite sex

As a mature married woman, the dividing line between love and friendship should be clearer than anyone else. Once you choose your family and marriage, you should pay attention to your behavior and don't let anyone misunderstand you.

Although the relationship between you is very clear, no one can accept it if you are as unscrupulous as before marriage.

So, don't be spontaneous, friends are friends, and your focus should be on your family and children. A woman is very fall in price in her husband's family, but she still keeps close contact with friends of the opposite sex. Only a stupid woman would be in a hurry to do such a thing.

As a woman, the most important duty, whether it is her husband's family or her mother's family, is to safeguard the family and take good care of her husband.

Although this may attract the opposition of some independent women, no matter in which family, women need to be tolerant and strict with themselves, which is an essential quality for a woman.