What does it mean that people are poor and don't look after their parents' homes?

There is a saying in this friend's worldly wisdom: "Poor people should not go to relatives' homes, and poor people should not visit their parents' homes." What does this mean?

"Poor people don't walk the door of relatives. "

This proverb means: when this person is down and out, don't visit relatives too often and try not to ask relatives for help. In today's society, the way of the world is linked to money, and only one knows how warm and cold people are. Even this kind of affection is in jeopardy. If you ask your relatives to do things when you are poor, they will look down on you and refuse to entertain you. In the end, things will not be done well, and you will end up with irony.

"People are poor and don't look at their parents' homes. "

This proverb means that when a married girl is poor, she should not often run to her parents' house, which will not attract her sister-in-law or aunt. For a married girl, it must have been her own experience. If you go back to your mother's house for a long time when you are poor, your sister-in-law or aunt will be very kind and warm to you. But if you often go to your mother's house once every three days, your sister-in-law and sister-in-law will think that you are borrowing money or have no food, and life is hard. I often go back to my parents' house and will not be entertained. I often let my aunt and aunt gossip. Even laugh at you. But you can't say.