The daughter who does not wear sandals and skirts

In recent days, the temperature has been 35-39 degrees, almost the highest temperature in summer. My daughter still likes to wear sneakers and socks. We had a quarrel.

Look at the other children around you. Some of them are wearing long pants and sneakers. They have already changed into shorts, skirts and sandals. Why aren't you afraid of the heat? Can you tell me why?

She couldn't explain the reason, but she just didn't like wearing sandals and skirts, and she didn't look like a girl. Acting like a tomboy all day long makes me mad.

He also plausibly said that dressing is my freedom and you cannot interfere. Yes, you have freedom, but as a mother, I should tell you how most people do it. You are really different.

Finally, my daughter said, you can wear shorts, but not skirts and sandals. I have already given in to you. Don't hold me to your own standards.

On reflection, I should be happy with her current attitude. Although she didn't listen to me, she already had her own thoughts. He also knows how to advance and retreat, and he can still listen to what I say.

On the way to raising children, you will always encounter unexpected and unexpected things. If a person has no long-term worries, he must have immediate worries. Children's emotions should be controlled by anything.

It’s okay to be angry, but I won’t take it seriously. Just like the clouds in the sky, it will not always be sunny. There are always good and bad moods, and no one is happy all the time.

Parents love their children the same way. If you love your child, you must respect her habits. She will change. As time passes and her horizons broaden, her tomorrow will be different from today.

What she didn’t like yesterday, what was boring, she likes the next moment or tomorrow. We need to wait for her growth and see her changes.

Because there is no certainty, life will be so full of desire. Maintain new understandings, open your heart, and accept ideas that you have not accepted in the past. We are on the road to progress.

Don’t preset the result if it doesn’t happen. If a tomboy doesn't know how to dress himself up, will he encounter difficulties in interpersonal communication?

Never deny your children. Even if you do something wrong, just tell the truth about the matter and don't attack character or anything else. Making mistakes is the best way to grow.

What’s more, parents’ vision may not be correct. Everyone understands the principle that things must be reversed when they reach their extremes. If you don't like wearing sandals and skirts, don't wear them, it's no big deal. Do what you love and your mom will support you.

Next summer, will you remember our debate?