Near the end of the year, after buying four clothes for my parents, my ten-year marriage with my husband came to an end. Why?

The wife finally found out that her husband has always been a double standard, not only loving face, but also willing to buy things for his parents. However, the woman was going to buy four sets of clothes for her parents, and the man disliked the woman's buying too much and asked her to send two sets to her parents, which also made her feel that ten years of marriage was just a mistake and finally filed for divorce.

First, the husband has always been a double standard, asking his wife to pay for his parents, but never considering his wife's family. Liu Mei has a better family background than her husband. Even out of consideration for each other, Liu Mei's family exempted the bride price money, but she could not bear to part with her husband's family's face, so she had to borrow money as a bride price and come back afterwards. Liu Mei's mother-in-law also shows off her son's good manners in marrying a wife.

It is foolish to say that Liu Mei is indifferent to these things. Later, because I had to pay off the debts outside, I began to tighten my belt. With the dowry money of 20,000 yuan given by Liu Mei's parents, they finally have enough money to pay off their debts. The husband had to spend half of his money to decorate the house for his parents and then buy them furniture.

Therefore, Liu Mei had a quarrel with her husband, but they still couldn't beat him. For this reason, they had to live a frugal life for another year. That's not all. Her husband came up with more than 10 thousand yuan to buy a tricycle for his parents, which is already a quarter of their savings.

It can be said that Liu Meimei's husband thinks of his parents everywhere, but never of Liu Meimei's parents, while Liu Meimei's parents also know that it is not easy for their daughters and never ask for them, which leads to Liu Meimei's husband always subsidizing his parents with his own money.

Second, the wife finally saw her husband's true face through four sets of clothes and divorced in anger. This life continued until Liu Mei got pregnant. At that time, the two of them just bought a house and were still paying the mortgage. Liu Mei wants her husband to get some money back from his in-laws, but at this time her husband is still trying to save face. At the same time, Liu Mei had to borrow money from her own family, and her parents also gave her 1 10,000 yuan.

This also made Liu Mei realize that she couldn't go on like this, because she even gave her husband a salary card before, but as a result, he still treated herself like this, so she started to keep accounts. Although I usually give money to my parents, I am not as vain and face-saving as my husband, and my in-laws have no idea what is expensive and what is needed.

During the Chinese New Year, Liu Mei asked her husband to get his salary card back. She wanted to buy four sets of clothes for her parents. As a result, her husband actually said that he would divide these four sets into two sets for her parents. Liu Mei took out his bookkeeping book, and her husband filed for divorce.

This silly woman finally realized that her husband is just a selfish person who likes double standards very much. He never thought that his daughter-in-law would give everything for the family, nor did he think about her parents. Even though they had already paid 10 thousand yuan when they were in conflict, her husband thought it was too much to buy them four sets of clothes, so he agreed to divorce.

It can only be said that it is also important to maintain a balance in marriage, not only to be filial to the man's parents, but also to the woman's family. The man has been calculating each other for his own face from beginning to end, feeling that he should give everything to his parents, and he was reluctant to let his daughter-in-law just buy four sets, which eventually led to the end of his ten-year marriage.