What should I do if my son and daughter-in-law quarrel?

1, shut up. When the young couple quarrel, the clever mother-in-law doesn't talk, try to leave, or play dumb. Because the mother-in-law has a complex of loving her son, she accidentally exposed the nature of favoring her son. The clever mother-in-law doesn't talk, so she must blame her son. My son won't hold a grudge. He knows you did it for his own good. Daughter-in-law will thank you for your "loyalty", feel that you are generous and cultured, and thank and respect you from the heart.

When young couples discuss things, you know, just put forward your opinions and don't interfere. Don't talk until you know. If they are in a good mood, laugh it off. If they are in a bad mood, they still think you are making trouble for them. There are some things we really can't do.

2. When the daughter-in-law is most vulnerable, she must really help. Daughter-in-law must take good care of her pregnancy and childbirth. Your concern will ease her pain and make her feel her position in your heart. When she is weak, you help her, and she knows that when you are weak, you also need her help. The family helps each other and takes care of each other to deepen their feelings.

3. Quit at the right time. When the children are older, the couple's life is on the right track, and the mother-in-law should quit at the right time to create a clean living environment for the couple, but also clean and free.

If you are tired, your son and daughter-in-law can't appreciate your hard work, but also quit at the right time, so that they can realize the triviality of pots and pans, rice, oil and salt. Because you quit, they know your difficulties and learn to be grateful, and they will cherish and respect you more. Of course, your withdrawal is only temporary.

4. Moderate help for sons and daughters-in-law. Don't give them all your money at once when they need money to buy a house or do business. You ask them to find a way to prepare funds, and they really can't borrow them. You can make up for them or help them with everything. This is not stingy, let them know that their parents are just helping, and small families need them to run their own businesses. Remember: you can't train your son and daughter-in-law into a baiwenhang or a neet.