1 1 wancaili 0 dowry, with a "heart of stone" in her husband's family, do you think she did the right thing?

Recently, the popular movie "A Little Red Flower" has many tears.

The hungry girl lied to her daughter that she had eaten a bowl of braised beef noodles and saved money to buy her a beautiful wig.

Wei Yihang's parents insisted on talking and laughing in front of a large family after their son was diagnosed with brain cancer. When his son went out, they couldn't help wiping the tears from the corner of their eyes.

For the sake of the child, even if you sell the house, you have to change his smile. Dong Qing once said, "Every parent will do everything to love their children."

I think this may be the reason why many people still believe in love after many hardships in life, because having parents' love will make us feel warm all our lives.

No matter how far you go, they are always behind you, afraid that you will be cold, telling you to put on more clothes, fearing that you will be hungry, eating more, and fearing that you will be frustrated by life, which will always cheer you up and become your greatest confidence to forge ahead.

It can be said that being loved by such parents is a lucky thing.

However, not all girls can be embraced by such love, and my reader lin li (a pseudonym) has just met the opposite thing.

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Li Lin spoke in a calm tone and didn't cry. "I haven't contacted my parents for more than three years. Other people's daughters go home for the New Year with big bags and small bags. But they haven't even taken a needle and thread from me since I got married, but I don't think I'm wrong. "

You know, lin li's married life is quite happy. It stands to reason that it should not be difficult to take care of her family if it is within her ability. But why is she so heartless?

It is said that parents are more grateful than the sky. After listening to lin li's experience, I quickly applauded her decision. But if a girl knows how to love herself, she should break up with her parents decisively like lin li, instead of being what they call a "filial daughter"!

Li Lin is the boss of the family. When she was 6 years old, her mother threw her a pair of trousers that had been mended many times. They are my brother's old clothes. She said, "I don't want to wear it. Too embarrassing. " Mother gave her a direct slap in the face. "Wear it if you like, it will freeze to death!"

From then on, she understood one thing. Everything in the family belongs to her brother. The reason why my sister can grow up safely is because of my brother's charity.

When she was not strong enough, lin li chose forbearance. She kept telling herself that she would be fine when she grew up.

In the mother's view, lin li's behavior is that her daughter is "sensible" and she can definitely rely on it in the future.

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Home is not as warm as expected. After lin li went to college, he slowly stopped going home. Her parents and younger brother call her regularly every month, and they don't care about her except to let her graduate as soon as possible to earn money to support her family.

Fortunately, she studied well, and with scholarships and part-time jobs, she passed the most difficult days smoothly. When parents' love becomes extravagant hope, girls often become sober. She no longer expects her family to pity herself, but to build herself a pair of armor and be invincible on the road of life.

After working for seven years, lin li has also become a leftover woman in others' eyes. In fact, it's not that she doesn't want to get married, but that she dare not. Her mother has long threatened, "My niece is very capable. No one can get married without 300,000 bride price! "

This sentence scared off the matchmaker and discouraged the boys who fell in love with her at that time. Not disappointed is false, but lin li dried her tears and told herself that even if she didn't get married, she would pay off her parents' kindness as soon as possible.

Seven years of income, all to her parents, and she also ushered in her own love. Mother began to mention 300 thousand bride price again. Li Lin said, "I'm an old girl. Is it worth so much money?" Seven years of family business, still can't get married? "

The daughter's sudden strength forced her parents and younger brother to agree to her request against their will.

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On the wedding day, my mother-in-law happily told her relatives that her in-laws were reasonable and got a lot of bride price for her daughter. But at night, she looked at the empty room and immediately understood what was going on. In the face of her mother-in-law's questioning, lin li could not tell her hatred and bitterness.

Her parents really regarded her as a cash cow, and the bride price of 1 10000 added up before and after actually let her enter her husband's house empty-handed.

Disappointments accumulate, and the less you can warm your heart. It is impossible for a daughter-in-law without a dowry to stand in her husband's family.

Li Lin knows very well that no matter how much he says, nothing can make up for it. So, she set a deadline for herself, half a year. If she couldn't make her mother-in-law change her mind, she decided to give up the marriage.

As she thought, on the day she came home, her mother said a lot, suggesting that the bride price was to honor her parents and it was right to stay. As for mother's saying that she would help her younger brother more in the future, lin li just ignored it.

Later, my mother and brother took turns to visit her and asked Li Lin to give her living expenses. If she doesn't, it's unfilial. Lin li refused, so they sat in front of their house and wouldn't let her go out.

My mother-in-law couldn't see it for several times and planned to put some money in it. Li Lin stopped her. "For the first time, there will be a second time, countless times. My husband's money and your and my father-in-law's money were not blown away by the strong wind. They want money, yes, those who have hands and feet can earn it by themselves. I have done my best. They can do whatever they want, but they have no money! "

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Hearing her daughter say this, Li Lin's mother couldn't hold back her face any longer. She burst into tears on the spot and accused Li Lin of being cruel. In a blink of an eye, she forgot how difficult it was for her parents to raise her, and her younger brother was still waiting for her to give money to marry her. Say that finish, she turned to persuade Li Lin's mother-in-law, "this woman forgets her roots, and your family should drive her away." It is a curse to keep her! "

At that moment, her mother-in-law realized what kind of family her daughter-in-law grew up in. She shook her head and took Li Lin's hand. "Don't be afraid, I will be your mother in the future."

More than three years passed in the blink of an eye. lin li's mother made such a scene, and she didn't get any benefits from her daughter, so she simply didn't come. And lin li never came back, because of her "heart of stone", let her mother-in-law know her hard work and be more willing to be kind to her.

In marriage, people like Li Lin's parents are the most frightening. They're like a bunch of vampires. They won't stop until their daughter's interests are squeezed dry. They think that if they have a daughter, they should let her be filial to themselves, and even if they get married, they should desperately subsidize their families.

If it weren't for lin li's indifference, I'm afraid she would really be kicked out by her husband's family as her mother said. Because no mother-in-law wants to see her daughter-in-law as a "helper" and will not give her money to subsidize outsiders.

Lin li really paid a lot along the way to get a foothold in her husband's family. "For me, happiness is really hard-won, and I must seize it."

Do you think Li Lin did the right thing? Should we satisfy parents' demands that have no bottom line? Share your opinions in the comments section below.