I have a brother at home. Is there anyone out of society whose parents didn't take care of themselves?

This is the case in my family. My father hasn't taken care of me since I graduated from college and started working, and it's not all because I have a brother at home.

My father used to like reading newspapers and learning some western educational ideas that were beneficial to him. Why is it good for him? Western culture has always advocated that children should be independent when they reach the age of 18, and parents will no longer give money to their children. The idea of paying for tuition and living expenses. Therefore, in his view, when the child is raised to 18 years old, his task is completed. And what he often talks about is that I have finished the nine-year compulsory education of Guogui for your high school, and I have studied for another three years. You are all adults, and you have to rely on yourself. But no matter what he said, he continued to pay when he was in college until we graduated. But after graduating from college, my dad really didn't give me a penny. Really, this kind of mowing grass and cutting off grain began to be implemented when I was unprepared.

And even if I ask him for money, I won't give it, which has never happened in college. When you go to college, as long as you have no money, a phone call will arrive the next day at the latest, and sometimes you will be given how much money. This guy cut me off as soon as he graduated. There's nothing I can do. He had just started working at that time, and had no money to rent a house. He could only find a job with food and shelter.

I didn't start renting a house outside until I had some spare money. Sometimes I hate him a little and think he is too cruel. Other people's parents are graduates, giving their children money, living expenses, rent and various subsidies.

But now I see so many people who eat old habits in society, I still have some thanks to my father. At least you don't have to eat old people, you can support yourself by yourself, and sometimes you can buy something for your family. Although I envy my parents occasionally, I still have to pay for my children when I am so old.

Besides, my family has never asked me about finding a job since I left society. Sometimes when you change jobs, my dad says you young people are afraid of not finding them. There are people who want a useless old man like me. You have plenty of job opportunities.

Compared with some parents who are very worried about their children's job-hopping, I think my father is still very optimistic. Every time my friend's parents call, they say, "Don't change jobs. It is difficult for college students to find a job now. " I am afraid that his children will lose their jobs and will not be able to support themselves in the future.

Besides, my family doesn't care too much about falling in love and getting married. It's just that sometimes I feel that I'm too courageous to find a man so far away from the northeast, fearing that I'll suffer in the future.

In my opinion, the benefits of being in charge, regardless of the benefits. It's just that my family let me go. I'm not ready. Everything else is fine.