There is a big difference in behavior between the two subway siblings and the two naughty kids in the elevator. It is obvious who is more educated.

Many parents like to show off their children in their circle of friends. Children are their greatest pride and wealth. Some people say that their children are beautiful, while others say that their children have good academic performance. Parents are happy when their children are outstanding. It is understandable that parents hope that their children will succeed and their daughters will succeed. However, the success of parents in raising a child is not only about the child growing up well and having excellent academic performance, but also reflected in the child's good behavioral habits and ideological quality.

There is a photo of a brother and sister riding the subway, which was taken by a netizen. He said: This is the highest level of "showing off children" for parents. On the subway, a teenage girl was sitting on the seat with her five or six-year-old brother. They also brought a ukulele with them.

At this time, an older lady came up on the subway. The little girl quickly put the ukulele up and placed it close to her feet. There were many people in the car, and it could be seen that she stood as straight and motionless as possible, holding her guitar in her hand for fear of colliding with others.

Children are a mirror of their parents’ education. No matter what the academic performance of these two children is, the parents of these two children are very successful in educating their children. Because raising an educated child is more important than raising him to have excellent academic performance. If a person is very capable but has problems with his moral cultivation, it will cause greater harm to society.

Children's quality cultivation is inseparable from parents' education. In March 2020, two children were also traveling in a community in Xinzheng City, Henan Province. In the running elevator, the boy showed off his skills and kicked the elevator door open. Thick white smoke came out of the elevator, and the main control board of the elevator popped out of the wall. Although both children were frightened, luckily they were not injured.

Afterwards, the property management company reported the situation to the child’s mother. Unexpectedly, the child’s mother said: “You should thank our child. The child is just curious. The reason why the elevator door burst open is because the quality of your elevator is not good.” . ”

You see, the reason why the naughty child is so daring is because there is a “naughty parent” behind him to support him! Let’s put aside whether the elevator should be compensated. Such behavior is also very dangerous to the safety of children. If there is a safety accident and the child hurts himself, I'm afraid this mother will not be so relaxed.

There are indeed many naughty younger brothers in life, such as those who draw cars in the community and those who blow up manhole covers with firecrackers. They hurt others and themselves, making people angry and helpless. Therefore, many people say that "naughty children" are not scary, but what is scary are the "naughty parents" behind the children. Some parents always use the excuse that "he is a child and doesn't understand anything" as an excuse to protect their children.

In fact, whether a child is sensible and educated are completely different things. Parents who dote on their children and educate their children without distinguishing between right and wrong can only make their children make small mistakes now and big mistakes in the future. If your child takes the wrong path in life, it will be too late to regret it.

"People are born with good nature." When every child is just born, he is like a young tree that has just sprouted. If you want your child to grow up and become useful, you need careful cultivation by your parents.

Parents serve as role models for their children.

The social atmosphere is not good and it affects my children. When some children develop bad behaviors such as smoking, drinking, swearing, etc., parents shirk the responsibility to the social environment. In fact, children spend the longest time with their parents and are most influenced by their parents. Being hard-working, being polite to others, respecting the elderly, and being helpful are all good qualities that parents instill in their children little by little as they grow up. Therefore, if we want to cultivate a child with moral cultivation, we must check our behavior at all times.

Parents set rules for their children from an early age.

Montessori believed that children can only control their own behavior if they abide by some rules of life. It is wrong for parents to think that when their children are young, they should wait until the children grow up to obey the rules. The earlier the child establishes rules, the better. Before the child is 6 years old, parents must say "no" to the child. Children are not allowed to do things that violate the rules. When parents discipline their children at this time, the children will be more obedient. If we indulge and dote on our children when they are young, and then try to control them when they grow up, the children will rebel, become rebellious, and become uncontrollable.

Parents should also respect their children and guide them to manage their emotions.

We see crying children in some public places. No matter what the reason is, the children's emotions break down easily and are difficult to control. I often see some children talking and laughing while the adults are talking, and they don't know how to restrain themselves.

Children are irritable and cannot control their emotions, which sometimes has a lot to do with their parents’ education methods. For example, we often cannot control our emotions, educate our children by scolding, beating and scolding, have no patience with them, etc. Parents educate their children to communicate with them more patiently and teach them to channel and control their emotions. Only those who can control their emotions can have good cultivation and behave in a civilized and elegant manner.

A person's moral cultivation lies in shaping, appreciating a beautiful piece of music, reading a good book, doing a good deed, and becoming an elegant and kind person.