"Parents' demands"

Under the epidemic, the whole people are fighting. In order to fight this war without gunpowder, people across the country work together to fight the war. We have been staying at home for more than two months. These two months are happy and wonderful for most children, but painful and impatient for most parents. "School is suspended but classes are suspended." Children have been studying online for a month and a half. Studying at home is novel and challenging for children! Studying at home is a novel experience for children. Without the control of teachers, the enthusiastic learning atmosphere in the classroom depends entirely on self-discipline and supervision of parents. This is undoubtedly a huge challenge for children, especially children in lower grades. .

Since the beginning of online class learning, according to the current survey of students’ learning situation, some professionals have pointed out: Online class learning will cultivate children with strong self-discipline and they will get better and better, while those who are usually lazy will get worse and worse. , when school starts, the polarization will become bigger and bigger. No, since last week, I have been receiving "parents' requests" non-stop.

Xiao Du, a girl, 7 years old, in second grade. I usually have trouble concentrating when I study in school. I like to make small moves and skip tasks. I am careless and prone to laziness. I procrastinate on my homework. I have low interest in learning and average academic performance. But the important thing is to have a flexible mind. As long as you provide timely supervision and guidance, you can always get good results in the exam. She is a "treasure" girl worth exploring. But in the past few days, her father kept calling me, complaining about his daughter's various behaviors at home: not going to bed at night, being told not to sleep; not being able to wake up in the morning, not being able to keep up with the morning recitation, and even not attending the 8:30 online class She can't catch up on the live broadcast; she doesn't pay attention to lectures, doesn't comment, and doesn't write; she procrastinates when doing homework after class, and can't submit it on time every day; she gets criticized for talking back and loses her temper; sometimes she has to be beaten before she can do her homework. Her father told me that she had to beat her three times to complete the homework for three consecutive days. The parent said that he was almost driven crazy. Why is the child like this? He was anxious and angry.

In fact, I have received complaints from several parents over this period of time about the problem this parent mentioned. "Teacher Zhai, please tell us about our Liu Xinyi. She procrastinates on her homework and doesn't write it seriously, so she asks Changsha to argue with me." "Teacher Zhai, I am Liu Boyan's grandma. This child is really disobedient and spends all day He clung to the TV and refused to listen. He talked back to me and argued with me. "Teacher Zhai, just talk to Tian Zichen. She doesn't listen to you when you talk!" Parents are very responsible and love their children. Otherwise, there would not be such a strong appeal.

After these several appeals, I communicated with parents and children one by one via video. The child was happy and sad when he saw me. I am happy to see my teacher again. I miss my teacher, classmates and school. What’s sad is that I have to stay at home and continue living this way. Provide comfort to children's emotions and communicate with them about life, study, time management, ideals, etc. Finally, I promised that the children could call me once every two days to communicate. If they behave well, I would prepare a big gift package for them. I would present it to them in front of the whole class at the beginning of the school year. I also promised that they could make an appointment with me to meet them on Sunday. Children are really obedient, every child is an angel, every child is a "treasure", as long as we treat her sincerely, she will treat you sincerely! Starting from the day before yesterday, Xiao Du's mental state has been rejuvenated. He gets up early to recite in the morning, listens to online classes and takes notes, writes homework, and clocks in. It's great to complete everything. Her father sent me a message, saying that the child's appearance has changed completely. He is very happy, no longer anxious, and can communicate with the child peacefully. Seeing this, I am also very happy!

"Parental demands" are also the product of the continuous deepening of our online courses. As long as it is for the good of our babies, in the face of parents’ complaints, we are willing to be a listener and helper, to help children’s growth and family harmony!