My husband's salary is higher than mine, but he often says he has no money and often asks me for money. I asked him for money for dinner, but he refused.

First of all, no matter whether the husband's salary is high or the wife's salary is high, all family income belongs to this family, not that person's. If your husband's salary is higher than yours, has he squandered the money he spent? If your husband doesn't spend money recklessly, don't blame him or be angry with him. If he uses the money to eat, drink and have fun, then you should help him manage his money and make him restrain himself. You are just like our family. Basically, I am responsible for earning money to support my family, and my wife basically saves all his money in the card.