The next month, my mother-in-law played cards regardless and let me eat takeout. Now she is ill and wants me to take care of her. What should I do?

Regarding the explanation of "blind date", I always agree with Gao Yuanyuan's explanation in "Let's Get Married": "Blind date is to arrange two people who are not on the road of love and see if there will be a miracle."

Blind date is a nightmare for all older young people, but in order to be filial, we always attend various blind date parties. My name is Tian Xin, and I'm 32 years old. Just married for 2 years, she is also a full-fledged older woman. My husband and I met on a blind date. Husband looks average, graduated from junior college, rose to a management position in a big supermarket, and worked for several years. It is because of his gentle personality that I choose to be with him.

To my surprise, we have been married for less than half a year, and my in-laws who have lived for nearly 30 years suddenly decided to divorce, and my husband did not discourage them. Later, I heard from my husband that my in-laws are actually a combination of "the words of parents' life and matchmakers", and their personalities are extremely incompatible. My father-in-law is introverted and unsociable, while my mother-in-law is outgoing and lively, and her mind is full of nerves. Therefore, they have been stumbling.

After the divorce, my father-in-law chose to leave home clean and left the old house to her mother-in-law. He rented a house outside to live in. Through getting along with my mother-in-law many times, I also feel that her mother-in-law is really a little too nervous. She knows how to play cards, mahjong or square dance every day, regardless of everything at home. I didn't say anything because of her feelings. After marriage 1 year, I was pregnant, and my husband decided to let my mother-in-law take care of me, but her mother-in-law refused directly, saying, "She is too old to take care of her, but she can dance square dance all day." Does this look like an old man? " My husband is very angry about this, but after all, he is his own mother and can't say anything. Fortunately, my morning sickness reaction is not very big, and the fetus is relatively stable. In this way, I raised the fetus at home alone, and my husband went home to take care of me as soon as he got off work.

/kloc-pregnant in October, after giving birth to her son, her mother-in-law came from her hometown. She looked at her grandson for a while, stayed less than 1 hour and left, saying that she was going to participate in a square dance competition. My mother was a little angry and complained that her mother-in-law was too careless. My mother had no choice but to wait on me for a week, but my living father was too busy, plus there were still 80. My husband forced my mother-in-law to come for a few days, but she always scolded me for not breastfeeding my children, and said that diapers were a waste of money and that I was too lazy to wash diapers. In this case, I was really tired of talking around my ears every day, so I quarreled with my mother-in-law, and she has been gone since then.

I sat alone for the second month, dragging my child over 2 years old. During the period, my mother-in-law came less than five times. Make her delicious food every time you come. She also told me what to do. During this period, my father-in-law came frequently, but after all, he didn't stay long. Every time I came, I helped to do some heavy work, and I went back the same day.

When my son was 3 years old, his mother-in-law suddenly fell ill and got gastroenteritis. The doctor told me to have a good rest. My husband didn't ask me to go back to take care of my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law called me to take my children back to my hometown for a few days and take care of her for a while. I then replied to her: the child has not come back yet at this age, and I am afraid it is not acclimatized. Please order some takeout yourself. My mother-in-law said disappointingly, "I have gastroenteritis. The doctor listened to her and let me eat. I want to laugh." Why didn't you take care of me when I was pregnant? Now you want to have a wife. No matter what she said, I didn't go back and my husband didn't blame me. Finally, my father-in-law took care of the couple's feelings for many years and went home to take care of her mother-in-law.

Message: Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should get along at the most difficult time for their daughter-in-law. Her mother-in-law has no choice but to stand by and support her. When the mother-in-law needs care, the daughter-in-law will do her best to serve her. However, the mother-in-law in this article doesn't look like a mother-in-law, but wants her daughter-in-law to serve her when she needs care. What logic is this? Daughter-in-law is not a daughter and has no responsibility to take care of you.