Why don't I like driving?

As a woman, a woman of the ordinary citizen class, saying that she doesn't like driving is somewhat melodramatic and gives people a sour feeling. Have a bad sense of direction? Can't get a driver's license? There is no car to drive, is there? Well, actually, I feel empty when I say this myself. Do I really dislike driving, or can't I drive?

First of all, I have to defend myself. I remember the road well, generally I don't turn to a strange city, and I can find my destination without navigation. Basically, my sense of direction is still qualified. The driver's license was obtained in 211, and I actually took it myself. I experienced the tedious process of getting a car in the driving school and saw enough of the coach's dark and long face. My little Alto, rose red, is my car. The car is not expensive, but exclusive. A layer of gray land is parked downstairs, waiting for me to drive it out at any time. So, I have all the basic conditions for driving.

when I first got my driver's license, I was very fresh for a few days. I drove to and from work, drove on the expressway, drove my children out to play, and touched the car almost every day. However, it has been fresh for about half a year, and the frequency of driving has been decreasing. Now, I haven't touched the car for half a year, and I don't want to touch it at all.

I am a time-sensitive person. I live in Shijiazhuang, an "international metropolis", and I am really tired of the international traffic congestion. Every day, the commuting time, several main roads and intersections are often packed, and it is very difficult to control the time by driving to work, so we have to leave time to deal with the congestion. Sometimes in order to drive and avoid the rush hour, you need to go out a lot of time in advance, which is all time. It takes longer to go home from work, and it can take more than an hour to walk for more than ten minutes. I once used forty minutes to move my car home from a place less than a kilometer away from my community. Time is on the one hand, and the key is still angry! Sending children to school can't drive, and there is a pot of porridge at the entrance of primary school every morning and evening, so they can't get in or out; Going out to play? I hate looking for a parking lot. In order to wait for a parking space, I waited in line outside for half an hour, which really made people anxious.

It's hard for a person who is meticulous in time like me to like driving when there are so many uncertainties. I also like the crazy racing in The Fast and the Furious, which is carefree and dripping. I experienced the pleasure of speed on the highway with little traffic. When I went home, I drove on a country road. There was no car blocking the road in front, and there was no car trailing behind, next to the green trees, and there were birds singing without horns. That feeling was not bad. However, living in the city, such times are rare.

It's okay just to wait for the traffic jam. The more the traffic jam, the more chaotic the road order, and the two lanes are squeezed into four lanes. I feel that the rearview mirror can rub against the car glass next to me, and there are horns coming and going. The unscrupulous cars that keep changing lanes next to me always make me tremble. The feeling of traffic jam is like having all your strength, but being tied up with your legs and feet, you can't earn it even if you work hard. It's almost suffocating! Even when there is no traffic jam, it is good to get there without seeing the traffic order. There is a queue waiting for a left turn here. There are cars whizzing by in the next lane and pushing to the front to cut in line. I am waiting for a green light and a green light, and I can't get through. Watching others always cut in line, occasionally unbalanced to cut in once, as a result, I rolled down the glass window next to me, revealing a bold and fat face, and angrily condemned my immoral behavior, making me blush like a red light. A beautiful colleague taught me that at this time, as long as I smiled sweetly at the uncle, the custody would smoothly cut in line. Considering my own face value level, I haven't tried this method.

I think the cultivation and quality of many Chinese people are temporarily put in the trunk when driving. Every driver, like a clockwork, keeps his eyes wide open and his whole body on alert, grabbing, squeezing, cutting in and overtaking, compared with quick response and sensitive operation, and he doesn't want to fall behind at that time. Every traffic light, every parallel, every lane change, is like a race of speed and passion, and it seems that if there is any benefit ahead, it will be robbed by others, which is full of competitive urgency and makes people highly nervous.

After driving by car for so many years, there are few high-speed traffic jams and the emergency lane is not occupied; The intersection is congested, and the car can wait behind the white line; There is a long queue waiting to turn around, and no one cuts in line ... As for those who drive a luxury car for speeding, get a sports car to run a red light and change lanes, and hang a special card to overtake, we will not discuss it here. We will only talk about the bad driving behavior of normal people, and those who are abnormal will not be discussed. Without them, the road is chaotic enough, and with these wonderful things, it is simply too chaotic to see.

Actually, the reason why I have so many complaints about driving is probably because of the contrast. Comparing bicycles with electric cars, especially electric cars. The electric car is not tired to ride, and it is fast. There seems to be nothing wrong with it except drying in summer and cooling in winter. Twenty or thirty minutes away, you can almost get there with a car. The electric car goes to work, and when you go out, you will never walk for 25 minutes in a 2-minute walk. No matter how blocked the intersection is, it can also be squeezed without delaying the trip; Stop at any time to buy some fresh vegetables from roadside stalls, so the vegetable market saves shopping; Stop there if you want, and go there if you want. The air is smooth, the vision is wide, and the driving is flexible. It's really the best means of transportation since ancient times, not to mention how much better than cars, at least the picture is comfortable! Moreover, the area of "International Village" is limited after all. From the southwest second ring road to the northeast second ring road, there is still one grid left, which is enough. Therefore, when I go out, I prefer electric cars. In fact, I only consider buses, cars or others. The more accustomed I am to riding an electric car, the less I want to drive. The more complaints I have about Luther, the more upset I get when I drive on the road, and the closer I am to the car after the accident.

At present, our family rides a bike to work. In walking to school, we only drive when we need to go shopping in bulk or go out for a family trip. Most of the time, we are driven by a dedicated driver. I also drive for the driver for an hour to give him a rest when I'm away from home for a long time, which is nothing, but in case of traffic jam, I will definitely not answer the steering wheel. I'm really an impatient person. When driving, a bad road condition often sweeps away all my good interest in traveling, and I start to get smelly, swear, and even dictate and honk my horn. The driver sitting next to him stared in horror, wondering whether it was easier and safer to drive by himself than to rest. Some, less than ten thousand can't also dare not easily give me the car. If I sit in the co-pilot's seat, and I am also confused by traffic jams, my mood will not be affected. I will leisurely comment on the surrounding environment, sing a tune, hum a tune, drink tea, eat melon seeds, be in high spirits, and laugh and talk. It seems that only the driver is blocked, which has nothing to do with me. What kind of psychology is this?