There are four things for a man who pretends to love you (a man who pretends to love you will do this to you)

In feelings, what a woman wants is a man's undivided attention, but many times, a man is too secretive to cover up whether he really loves a woman or not.

Women are particularly prone to indulge in men's words. She prefers a man who can talk sweet words to that wooden man, but a smart woman must know how to see if a man really loves herself.

Only a man who pretends to love you will do this to you. Smart women should not be fooled.

1. Pretend to be nice to you in front of outsiders.

In the eyes of outsiders, he is simply a model of the best boyfriend. He is always caring and attentive to you, and all his friends around him envy you. You have a good boyfriend.

But, you know, he just pretends to be nice to you in front of outsiders. You are in private, and you are the one who pays more.

Even when he quarrels with you, when there are disputes and contradictions, you spit on your friends, and friends will in turn accuse you that you don't cherish the feelings of the two of you, and even such a good boyfriend, you are still dissatisfied.

He became a model boyfriend in front of outsiders, but he did nothing in private. From cooking and washing clothes to drinking water in the middle of the night, you have to get up and pour it for him.

What's the use of a man who doesn't care about you in private and only cares about you in front of outsiders? Aren't they all adding insult to injury?

The man who really loves you is good to you not only in front of outsiders, but also in private. And the man who will only be nice to you in front of outsiders is actually just trying to get praise from others. He doesn't really love you.

A person who will only be nice to you in front of outsiders and let you bear everything in private is not as good as living alone.

Don't be fooled by smart women. Don't be deceived by a man who only treats you well in front of outsiders.

2. "Pretend" doesn't cost you money

A man who pretends to love you will pretend not to spend your money, but when you calculate your income, you find that most of your money is spent on him in the end.

He didn't take the initiative to ask you for a dime, nor did he take the initiative to ask you for a gift, but every time you spend money, you are willing to pay.

During the festival, like other women, you expect your boyfriend to give you gifts, but he has the audacity to say that festivals are all consumer traps of businesses, and we don't need to care at all. As long as two people have a good relationship, they will be happy anyway.

He will tell you from time to time what kind of clothes he likes, what kind of shoes he likes and what he wants, and even send you pictures on purpose, asking you directly, if he uses them, will they look good? Will it look handsome in it?

You see that he is in high spirits and encouraged to buy at once, but he falters and says, Oh, forget it, I will definitely buy it when I get paid next month.

I also specially emphasized to you, baby, don't spend money for me. I can't spend women's money

The more men tell you this, the more women are willing to spend money for men, because they are willing and love each other deeply, so they are willing.

And in the end, you found that most of the money you earned was spent on that man. A man who pretends not to spend money on women ends up spending all women's money.

Dear girl, be sure to polish your eyes. A man who really doesn't want to spend your money won't tell you his preferences at all. He will not only buy things for himself, but also ask you what you like and buy you some gifts you like.

And the man who pretends not to spend your money but always spends it, he doesn't really love you, he just likes the feeling that you spend money for him, and he just wants to take advantage of you.

3. Pretend to plan the future with you

A man who "pretends" to love you will also "pretend" to have future plans with you.

Other men don't want to be with a woman, and they may be silent at the end, but this man who pretends to love you has a very high emotional intelligence. He doesn't want to give you a promise in the future, but he wants you to give him money, but he wants to take advantage of you.

He once told you that when you get married, you will definitely have your own house and buy your own car, which will give you a better life in the future. However, what he said is completely different from what he did.

He doesn't go to work seriously every day and spends more time on eating, drinking and having fun. For your future, he will always pay lip service, never take practical actions, and never really fight for a bright future of your life.

What he gave you was just for a super pie. Now that you are together, you are basically in charge of two people's lives. You pay the rent, you pay the living expenses, and you are willing to buy new clothes and shoes on him.

The man who really loves you will not only talk about your future, but also prove his true love for you with practical actions.

There may be many kinds of love for a man, but when he really loves a woman, he is definitely willing to pay something for her. If a man just says he loves you, but he has never paid anything for you, whether it is emotion, time, energy, money or action, it actually shows that he is just "pretending" to love you.

A smart woman should never give the wrong feelings and time to a man who "pretends" to love you, because in the end, he will be hurt all over and you will be the defeated one.