In the face of children's various provocations, how should parents respond correctly?

We can make appropriate changes in our lives so that children can learn from good examples. We can ignore the proud behavior of swimming. Because provocative children usually lack pride.

They are not very confident and want to be recognized by others. Even if it can't be recognized by their provocation, at least it can attract others' attention.

So that they can make the next provocation. Therefore, we should not praise children's grasping, biting and kicking behaviors by attracting our attention, but should always criticize their wrong behaviors instead of criticizing others at work.

More is the repression and comfort to the "victims". This enables children who provoke others to learn and show good behavior. On the other hand.

Some parents consciously pay attention to their children's arguments. Can this child make trouble? Teaching three minutes how to deal with children's provocative behavior is actually encouraging children's provocative behavior. There is a hidden wish that children should learn to handle this kind of thing by themselves. When we are indifferent to unfair provocation, we acquiesce in the existence of a culture of violence.

We should teach children how to solve disputes in a non-violent way. We can talk to each other or their parents and set an example for children to settle disputes peacefully.

This is not encouraging children to participate in conflicts. In conflict, children can learn to stick to their own bottom line, participate in handling cases, and refuse the coercion of other children. Successful dispute resolution can give children courage and confidence.

Children who study strategic argument are usually more tolerant. Therefore, a fair quarrel sounds contradictory and emotional. Therefore, we adults should be more calm, tolerate frequent high-decibel disputes, and clearly stipulate that we should not cheat in various forms of violence.

Parents are role models for their children. Don't take violence as one of many ways of education. Children are more willing to listen to our actions than our preaching.

You can catch a child who likes to bite, talk to him and find a useful way to replace his punishment. Because "the prodigal son returns" is usually our role model.