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Why don't you tell me why you are still single?

This is actually a very sad topic. After some self-analysis, I think there may be the following reasons:

The first one may be related to the living environment. I live in the countryside and have been a good girl since I was a child. In fact, there are few things that worry family members. When I was young, I lived in my grandmother's house, in the village. There are many people in the older generation, most of whom are very conservative. They are shy about the relationship between boys and girls. Even boys and girls in primary schools are sometimes criticized by them, especially the old women in the village, who are very demanding of girls. Now think about it, some people are too conservative to be reasonable.

When I was young, people came to my house occasionally. Maybe when I'm talking, I'll say whose girl is naughty and went out to play with boys. It seems that in their hearts, boys and girls can't be friends. When I was a child, I thought what they sometimes said was strange. Students go out to play together, how did it become so unbearable in their mouths?

Cousin is actually a very heterosexual girl. I remember when I was in the second grade of 1, boys often asked my cousin to play together. At that time, I was still young, so few people said that when I grew up, my friends came and left. Once, I was deeply impressed. That was when my cousin was in the fifth grade. She went out to play with some friends, both men and women. Grandma knew before she went out. It was normal for students to come out for a party.

But an old woman in the village saw it and asked her grandmother loudly the next day. What she said was also very ugly. She asked grandma if her cousin was fooling around with a boy yesterday. She said that she saw her cousin being carried by a boy. Grandma is also a hot temper, so she scolded her directly and told her that she was going out to play with her friends. Those young people know grandma, and grandma is very ignorant. She said that she was thinking of us, but she compared an unmarried pregnant girl in the village with her cousin, who occasionally went out to play with people, but she was by no means the kind of person who had no sense of proportion.

? Second, my own mentality. Maybe when I was a child, I heard many people say in my ear that puppy love is not good and it is important for students to learn. I am resistant to falling in love at heart, and even resisted the opposite sex for a while. I can quickly integrate into the girls' circle and chat with them, but the boys' circle is from my heart that I dare not contact. Sometimes, I think, there may be some male phobia!

Later in high school, I left my grandmother's village. People here are more open. Although I didn't approve of puppy love in high school, my reaction was not as strong as my grandmother's. I slowly tried to put it down, so I began to have contact with the opposite sex. Going to college is even more different. You can chase it if you like. Everybody likes it. As long as it is not too much, everyone is very kind. But freezing for three feet was not built in a day, and I can't overcome it so easily.

In fact, at this age, people around me have been urging me to start talking, but I still feel that I can't let go. Falling in love is being alone with boys. Even now, I can joke and play with familiar boys. That's why I have to face boys alone when there are many people and companies. I don't think I know what to say. What should I do? Well, maybe this is fate!