I feel that my patience is limited. No matter what you say or what, is it no big deal or small matter?

Emmm…… ............................................................................................................................................................................... I have a 18-year-old brother, who is 10-year-old, and then, um ... there are many problems ... give you some advice, be cold and violent, ignore her, then say that he won't listen when you make a mistake, and then do something more direct, such as confiscating your mobile phone at no cost, which is more useful, and then give you some benefits to behave well.