How do boys introduce themselves to be attractive?

Many people cannot speak, which sounds like a fantasy. In fact, in real life, there are many such examples. Now let me share with you how to introduce yourself to a boy in order to be attractive. Welcome to read.

The male guest’s self-introduction is to promote himself and to make women accept him, not to make women reject him. Therefore, in order to successfully hold hands with women, you should follow several principles when introducing yourself.

Important principles

1. Self-introduction should satisfy a woman’s vanity. Women are the most practical, because life cannot be separated from firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, and life cannot be separated from food, clothing, housing and transportation. Even if you are not practical, you have to be practical, but if you are practical, you will have vanity. Keep this in mind when introducing yourself. Women have vanity. This is an objective phenomenon. There is no need to avoid it, nor can it be avoided, nor can it be blamed. Therefore, the self-introduction must satisfy the woman's vanity. The male guest's self-introduction can only make women feel at ease. Satisfy their vanity.

2. Self-introduction should be objective and pertinent. No one is perfect, so everyone has a lot of shortcomings, but if you can grow up to this point, you will definitely have many advantages. The advantages should be fully explained, and the shortcomings should be explained artistically. Let women feel that they should have this shortcoming, or that it doesn't matter if they have this shortcoming. Letting your shortcomings be introduced can also give women confidence. Exaggerating one's shortcomings will make women feel insecure, and they really don't want to hold hands with you if you are the one.

Whether it is a government work report or a party work report, they are all well written and can inspire people. It is because the achievements are well stated and the shortcomings are stated in a high-sounding way. To put it bluntly, when introducing achievements, say that the achievements are achieved due to subjective efforts; when introducing shortcomings, say that the shortcomings are caused by objective reasons. Only talk about insignificant shortcomings, don’t say more, and don’t analyze them in depth. When have you ever seen a long list of shortcomings in a report? This is not to hide illness and avoid treatment, but to show more of the sunny side.

It is more important to be precise when expressing your ideal girl. Don’t be demanding of women just because you feel good about yourself. That is the behavior of a petty man and a sign of immaturity. A man who is engaged in a big career must have a broad mind and will not be too picky about a woman's own conditions.

3. Be humble when introducing yourself. It is better to speak tactfully. Humility is also a virtue. There are still differences between China and Western countries. Don't say things like "It will definitely work" or "It will definitely work". This kind of statement sounds full of confidence. If it arouses the rebellious psychology of the female guests, it will be a collective blackout for you. Wouldn't it be sad? It is more appropriate to use words such as letting go, working hard, and trying to be satisfied. This is humility and respect for objectivity, because the earth is rotating, not just for you. There are too many uncertain factors in life, so don’t affirm or deny anything easily. Humility comes not just from words but also from expressions. Saying modest words with your mouth and expressing arrogance and arrogance with your body will put out the lights.

Pay attention to the first blind date

In fact, what makes a blind date so happy is that you don’t have to be so nervous and depressed, just relax. Don't regard the woman as your object, treat her as one of your good friends, and talk openly like a good friend. This will be better. (The same goes for women)

Nowadays, blind dates are not like blind marriages in ancient times. When you marry a chicken, follow the chicken, and if you marry a dog, follow the dog. Today’s matchmakers are not as evil as before. (Needless to say, you also know that the matchmakers in the past have a saying: don’t be the winner, don’t be the guarantee, don’t be the matchmaker for the third generation.) Today’s matchmakers are just acting as matchmakers. You still have to rely on yourself to work. (Did the matchmaker guarantee that you would have a son?)

Next, let’s talk about the strategy:

Generally, the matchmaker will take you to meet the woman, make eye contact, and be right. Even if you don't care about your eyes, you will always ask a woman for her number. Even if you don’t like the other person, you can leave a way out for yourself. If you think you two are not suitable, you can call it a friend. After that, you can also tell her to introduce her to friends. She has a good best friend. I will also introduce it to you, and the most important thing is to have spare connections)

The only way to meet each other is to have a meal and drink tea or something (usually restaurants, hot pots, tea bars, etc. Place is preferred.

) If you go to eat, you should pay attention to how you eat. You should chew slowly and don't make any noise, so as to give people the feeling of being a scholar but not losing elegance. (Please note that when using chopsticks with your left hand, I am a left-handed person. When going on a blind date, you should use your right hand, because the first thing she said to her mother when she got home was that there are ten left-handers.) After the food is served, don’t rush to eat it. You should use it first. Use the used chopsticks to carry the other person's food. (She will feel that this man is very attentive.) If you still want to carry the other person's food, ask the waiter to bring another pair of chopsticks.

You can chat while eating. What should you talk about? Some people will be a little nervous for the first time. You can start by talking about career, then family, and various aspects of the two people's personalities. You must be confident in your current career. Even if it is not very good, you must show that your current career is still far from your goal. You are not satisfied with the status quo. Show your professionalism and ambition, and say that you have a bright future. yearning.

Don’t talk too much during the dinner (the most important thing is to be able to talk about different topics. I am a very easy-going person and I can get into any topic of yours (more or less). ), if you talk too little, you will be accused of being too honest and not having any career breakthroughs. If you talk too much, you will be accused of being too sweet-tongued and too talkative. Such people are not safe. (So ??this makes it difficult for men to do this) You might as well have some humorous words during the dinner, talking and laughing, which can also relieve the first moment of embarrassment.

After dinner, you may still have time to go shopping or watch a movie.

If you go shopping (if a girl is shopping for a blind date and you like a piece of clothing, will you pay for her? Many men are talking about this topic.) I personally think that the first time you go on a blind date, you want to get her. You should pay less for such girls. If you buy it, she will also think that you treat others the same way. If you don't pay, she will think in her heart (Why am I so stupid to think about other people giving you things before I meet you?)

You may also encounter someone like this, saying that you don’t have enough money to buy something (omit 1,000 words here)

If you go to a movie, you should first ask for the other person’s opinion. If you are asked You should choose romantic movies or comedy movies (women are fantasy animals, they will fantasize about the sweet love between the male and female protagonists in the movie, and imagine the man and themselves next to them). Watching comedy movies will make you two laugh, that is, Relieved the embarrassment and relaxed myself.

For the first time the two of them were together, there was only laughter and happiness, completely forgetting their past, making her/him feel very happy with the person next to her, which was a feeling she hadn’t had in a long time. Note: If you get to this step, congratulations on falling in love.

It’s getting late after watching the movie, so I have to send her home. (I insist on sending her home on the grounds that I have to take responsibility for bringing you out.) After sending her home, please pay attention: you You can try to say it as a joke: I sent you home. In order to repay you, let me give you a hug. Talk and act at the same time. (I usually say no, but it’s actually a half push.) If I push you away, apologize. If you are against hugging, then it’s time to kiss. After returning home, I would be bombarded with text messages and phone calls. You must not neglect text messages and phone calls in the near future. This is the most critical moment and don’t let it slip.