Colleagues live close to me and often rub my car at work. How can I politely refuse?

This time last year, I bought a car with the money I had worked hard to save for two years, because it was too much trouble to squeeze the bus every morning, and sometimes I had to wait for the next bus for ten minutes after missing the bus. After buying a car, I drive myself to work every day. One day, I was driving home and suddenly met a female colleague and her boyfriend at the gate of the company. I rushed over to say hello, only to find that they also rented a house in a community with me, but the floors were different. I live in building 3, and they live in building 2 next door. I don't know her. It doesn't matter. Since I knew that I lived in the same community, my colleagues waited for me to go home after work every day, and asked me to drive her, saying that she was on her way anyway.

I didn't think much at first. Anyway, I thought I was on my way. It doesn't matter if you eat once or twice. But unexpectedly, after driving her for a week, she asked me again, saying that her boyfriend also worked in an office building near our company and asked if I could give her boyfriend a ride. A girl made this request to me. To tell you the truth, I'm embarrassed to refuse. It would be disrespectful if I refused. So, I can only promise to come down quickly.

I guess I didn't say no, they are getting more and more casual. A few times I didn't want to drive them, so I told her I had to work overtime for a while and I had nothing to do when I got back. Unexpectedly, my colleague listened to me and told me that she was fine anyway, waiting for me at the company, and then called her boyfriend on the spot and asked him to pick him up an hour later.

Suddenly, I was speechless. It's no use working overtime. I don't know what to do. I can only take it first. Comfort yourself every time and say that you are helpful. We are all colleagues. Don't care too much. Maybe there will be other cooperation in the future. The two of them probably saw my popularity, but in the end it got worse and worse. They wait for me by my car every morning. Sometimes they go to bed late, and they even call me to wait for them first. A new car, sitting next to them for two months, the back seat is completely old. I don't know how to refuse my colleagues because of their face. If I say it directly, they will probably not leave and take my car. I know this.

Then, at the suggestion of my friend, I used a method, that is, one day on my way home, I cried with my colleagues that something had happened at home and I needed money urgently. I asked them if they could lend me 20,000 to 30,000 yuan, and I will definitely pay it back next year. After listening to my words, my colleagues and boyfriends were immediately silent, and the entertainment programs on the mobile phone were turned off. Finally, my colleague said hesitantly, "Well, we have to buy our own car, so it is very tight." I really can't lend it to you. You can borrow it from others in the company. They all look rich. "I smiled and said to them," nothing, nothing, I just want to talk. "

The next day, I did the same thing again. I told them about borrowing money, saying that I borrowed it from other people in the company, but everyone refused to borrow it, saying that only they had the best relationship. The way they looked at me, they were scared. If they don't lend me money, they can't face me. If they lend me money, they won't want to. Finally, after that cry, every time after work, my colleagues have already left first. In the morning, she and her boyfriend didn't show up at my car either.

Finally, my colleague even told me that I was really sorry for sitting for so long, and it was very comfortable to take the bus. He also said that he would like to thank me for giving them a free ride for so long, and he would certainly invite me to dinner if he had the opportunity.

Finally, to sum up, colleagues often rub my car. How can I refuse? I have two choices.

The first one: tell the other party directly. Tell the other person clearly, don't let her rub your car, saying it's too much trouble to drive you. Having said that, people with a little self-knowledge will choose not to rub your car. However, before you say this, you should be prepared to break up with each other. I was in the same company after breaking up, but I didn't look up. How to get along with each other in the future should be seriously considered.

The second option: borrow money from each other. If you don't want to talk, try to borrow money from each other. People who like to pick up other people's cars are generally stingy and won't lend money to others easily. Don't worry. At this time, as long as you say you want to borrow a lot of money from them for two or three days in a row, they will be afraid of you and finally choose not to have your car. This method won't hurt your feelings, and it will make him feel guilty and think you are so difficult. They don't lend you money, and they rub your car every day, which will make you feel uncomfortable and your feelings will not be destroyed. This method is better and smarter than direct rejection.