Do you agree with the statement that I married you back to honor my parents?

The so-called raising children to prevent old age has been a deep-rooted concept in our country for thousands of years. Although the society is different now, sons have the same rights and obligations as daughters, but most people still feel that only sons can rely on when they are old.

But in real life, few sons really care about their parents. Even if they really want to honor their parents, it is through other channels, such as letting their wives do it for them.

I don't know when a strange idea appeared in some people's minds. They think that marrying a wife means coming back to honor their parents. They even think it's a wife's duty.

Not to mention that in law, a daughter-in-law has no obligation to be filial to her in-laws. It is enough to see how irresponsible it is for a man to pass on his maintenance obligations to his wife.

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Luo Ziyi is 30 years old and has been married to his wife for just three years. Because parents are in good health, they always live separately from their parents, which really reduces a lot of trouble.

Luo Ziyi and his wife have to go to work and are usually very busy. At the busiest time, both of them worked overtime until late at night before going home.

However, there is nothing that can be done. Most young people are like this now. In order to improve their living standards, keep their jobs and earn more money, they have to save time and put all their energy into their work.

Just some time ago, Luo Ziyi's father accidentally fell down at home and was seriously injured, requiring long-term hospitalization.

Luo Ziyi has no money to hire a nurse. His mother is old and wants his wife to go to the hospital for a vigil after work.

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As soon as my wife heard such a request, she quit in an instant, let alone the difference between men and women. It is not reasonable for a daughter-in-law to take care of her father-in-law. Since both husband and wife have to go to work, why should the wife go to the hospital to take care of her father-in-law, while his father-in-law can stay at home and sleep?

My wife is angry at her idea. Later, they had an argument about it. Luo Ziyi expressed her thoughts. He thinks that a daughter-in-law should be filial to her in-laws, which is her duty as a daughter-in-law.

He even told his wife that he married her to be filial to his parents. She was very angry when she heard this. She is married, not bought as a maid. She immediately filed for divorce, saying that she had never owed anything to their family.

Luo Ziyi was very angry. He felt that his wife did not shoulder her responsibilities and even forgot that she was a daughter-in-law. The more they quarreled, the more fierce they became. Finally, war at home ended up at her mother's suggestion.

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It is natural for children to be filial to their parents, because parents have worked hard to raise their children, and even animals know how to feed back, let alone people.

But some people never know how to repay their parents and have no gratitude in their hearts. They always like to put the blame on others, and some men are particularly obvious in this respect.

People often say that raising children to prevent old age, but if you raise an ungrateful baiwenhang, everything your parents have paid will be meaningless. There are also some so-called dutiful sons who seem to be particularly filial to their parents, but in fact they never do it themselves.

They habitually leave everything to their wives. They think this is what wives should do. Even if such a man bears the name of a dutiful son, it has nothing to do with the word filial piety.

Equal efforts between husband and wife can bring equal treatment to each other. The ancients said, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Don't force others to take responsibility for you when you don't want to take responsibility yourself.

In the marriage between Luo Ziyi and his wife, even supporting his parents requires exploiting his wife's labor. So suppose that one day when his wife's parents need someone to take care of them, can she count on her husband Luo Ziyi?

At least from the known events, Luo Ziyi is a person who has no sense of family responsibility. If he wants to change the status quo, the first thing that needs to be changed is Luo Ziyi herself.

Men are the pillar of a family, which is not only reflected in the economy, but also in family responsibilities.

Men should not only earn money to support their families, but also set a good example. With heart for heart, any effort will be rewarded beyond expectations.