Why don't some women want to spend the New Year at their in-laws' home?

Go back to my parents' home for the New Year.

1, I'm not used to my parents' life and I'm not at home with my husband's family.

Many times, the daughter-in-law doesn't want to spend the New Year at her in-laws' house. In fact, it is not because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but because she is not used to her parents' life. Especially those women who have lived in the city for a long time, suddenly returned to the rural husband's house for the New Year, feeling that the environment suddenly changed, and the cold weather did not adapt at all. But many times, because of her husband's face, she had to go back to her family for a few days and return to the city immediately after the New Year.

It is hard to take care of a family to eat and drink.

Nowadays, daughters-in-law in many places have to do housework and take care of food and drink at home. Especially during the Chinese New Year, we usually have to prepare a lot of meals, plus the visits of relatives and friends, which makes us very tired of washing and brushing. Some women usually go to work, hoping to have a good rest during the holidays, but in the face of family eating and drinking, they often feel powerless and have many complaints in their hearts.

It is for this reason that some women petition their parents' home to spend the New Year with them, which makes them feel sorry for themselves, seldom let themselves do housework, and even take the initiative to help themselves with their children. In addition, I am more familiar with my parents' environment and my life will be more comfortable.

Some women don't want to go back to their in-laws for the New Year. Many times, the main reasons are the above two points, but they are often tolerated because of face problems.

In the husband's family, you should be a hardworking little bee, washing vegetables, cooking and cleaning. You should walk in front of your mother-in-law.

At home, you can be a slacker with confidence. Mom and dad have filled the coffee table with delicious food and asked if you have enough.

In my husband's family, I can only be a maid. I will arrange breakfast for my family before I get up, and then I will look up in the afternoon when I am busy.

You can be a princess at home, wake up naturally when you sleep, and it doesn't matter if you bask in the sun.

During the Spring Festival at my husband's house, I should help cook, serve and greet my relatives when eating.

During the Spring Festival at home, mom and dad told you to sit still while eating. All the dishes on the table are your favorite.

During the Spring Festival in her husband's family, we have to recruit a bunch of seven aunts and eight aunts we don't know, not only worrying about the embarrassment of mistaking one for another, but also coping with all kinds of torture.

During the Spring Festival at my parents' home, I can go to my long-lost friends for a day, and there are delicious foods waiting for me when I get home.